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    Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Tips to have cordial relations with your neighbours


    Neighbors can be a boon or bane.

    If you have a good neighbour , it is a real boon, and always try to maintain the same good relation with them.

    If you happen to have an irritating neighbour, it may be a bane, but as far as possible, try to have good relations with them so that the situation doesn’t worsen.

    Here are some tips to have or maintain a good relation with your neighbours.


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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Do's

    · You can be the first person to say Good morning, to them.

    · Always have a smile on your face when you face them, in whichever mood you are.



    · Be the first person to help them in all their necessary times.

    · You can share the special dishes made at home, both on normal days and during festivals.

    · You can invite them for your festival celebrations.

    · If they are from different regions of the country, you can share the recipes of your region’s special dishes.

    · In that case, if they are interested, you can teach few important words of your language and you can learn their language then and there, without disturbing them always.

    · If you are at home and if they are working, you can collect their courier mails and other important mails and handover them carefully.

    · In this case, if any elderly or ailing people are left at home, you can take care of them by visiting them often.

    · If they happen to go for a vacation, collect their mails, newspapers and handover them on their return.

    · You can offer them to water their plants in their absence.

    Do's Contd......


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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    · Listen with care about their problems in their family and other grievances, if they are voluntarily telling you.

    · If they wish, you can suggest few solutions to their problems.

    · Allow your children to play with their children and teach them also to have a cordial relationship.

    · Female members can go together for shopping or temple.

    · Always you can talk about the general topics with them.

    · In case, if any problem arises between you two, always use soft and gentle words to solve the problem.

    · Sit and talk with them about the grievances in an amicable manner.

    · When you happen to borrow anything from them, return them as soon as possible.

    · Be satisfied with what you have.

    · Keep the noise of you Television and music systems at minimum or medium volume.

    · In case of any emergency regarding their health, take them immediately to the doctor or hospital.

    · In such cases, help them monetarily also.

    . You can exchange the gas cylinders during necessity.



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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Don’ts

    · Facing them with a frowning face, due to your mood swings at home and office, may totally destruct the relationship.

    · Don’t poke into their personal matters, when they are not inviting you to.

    · Don’t be too close to them, since one day or the other, if some misunderstanding arises, the total relationship may be spoilt.

    · Never encourage any gossips about them or others through your servant maids or anyone else.

    · Never do back biting about them.

    · Don’t shout, even at your home and irritate them

    · Don’t throw the garbage or collect them in front of their house.

    · Don’t grumble on them for any issue.

    · Don’t be jealous about them.

    · Don’t beat or grumble their children, for any issue.

    · Don’t allow your children also to do this.

    · Don’t bore them with your personal matters.

    · Don’t embarrass them in any situation.

    · Never borrow any jewels from them

    · In Apartments, don’t block the way in the corridor with your slippers, children’s cycles etc.

    · As far as possible, try to avoid borrowing money, that too heavy amount of money.

    · With the technology development, be cautious with the words spoken and the activities. They may take advantage of the situation whenever necessary.


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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Prove the proverb LOVE THY NEIGHBOR, by following the above tips.

    More suggestions are welcome from friends.

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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    useful tips ka..thanks for sharing.....

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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Gud Tips kaa Super

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    1. விரும்பி எது வந்தாலும் "TAKE CARE"
    2. விலகி எது சென்றாலும்
    " DON'T CARE"

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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Thanks for sharing Aunty

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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Dear Jayanthy,

    Very nice suggestion you have given to maintain good relationship with our neighbours, thank you .


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    re: Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

    Quote Originally Posted by durgasakthi View Post
    useful tips ka..thanks for sharing.....
    Quote Originally Posted by laddubala View Post
    Gud Tips kaa Super
    Quote Originally Posted by dayamalar View Post
    Thanks for sharing Aunty
    Quote Originally Posted by sumathisrini View Post
    Dear Jayanthy,

    Very nice suggestion you have given to maintain good relationship with our neighbours, thank you .


    ​Thanks Durga, Latha, Malar and Sumathi

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