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April 2016 Due Date Buddies!


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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    halo frds

    im having a small doubt. my atthai says valaikappu shd b done aftr 7th mth means 8th month running n whereas my sis in law says it shd b kept in 7th mth running.

    so confused

    which is the right time?


    n again another doubt

    i want to go to ayyappan swamy temple in my place aftr first trimester for which im confused. r v allowed to visit temple


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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    Quote Originally Posted by ramyasubash View Post
    halo frds

    im having a small doubt. my atthai says valaikappu shd b done aftr 7th mth means 8th month running n whereas my sis in law says it shd b kept in 7th mth running.

    so confused

    which is the right time?


    n again another doubt

    i want to go to ayyappan swamy temple in my place aftr first trimester for which im confused. r v allowed to visit temple
    Hi @ramyasubash

    Generally the Valaikappu is done in the odd months like 5th, 7th or 9th.

    In Brahmins' community, the Valaikkaappu is done in the 7th month (for few, it is done in 5th month by in-laws, 7th month is done by mother) and then the Seemandham is done in the 8th month (by the in-laws).

    But in many other communities, both Valaikkappu and Seemandham are done together on the same day and same time. So, generally this will be done in the 8th month. But it will depend on the family's customs and traditions. You may follow whatever your MIL says. Or else, you may follow the traditions followed earlier by the elders in your FIL side.

    You may also enquire about this to the Family Priest who does all the functions for your husband's family. He might be knowing this.

    And regarding going to the temple, you can very well go to the Iyappa temple in your area, any time during your pregnancy. No body is going to restrict for this. This is also similar to other temples.

    The restrictions are followed Only for Sabarimalai temple.

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    thank u so much

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    ramya you can eat chicken fish and mathulai no doubt. ofcourse limit in quantity.

    oh. so what is finalised in your home for valaikaapu. in our tradition we keep in either 7th or 9th month.

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    yes. pregnant women can go to any temples no doubt in this.

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    forgot to mention all my scan reports are normal. i was overwhelming with joy. i saw the baby in the monitor.

    doctor said all is fine.

    what about you ramya and vheena? pray for you too.

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    i hav seen my baby alot of times. wn al i gt bleedg my doc says scan.

    decided to hav my valaikappu in 7th mth running and temple visit als confirmed. on 22nd i hav nt scan and sm tests.

    hav ur tests n scan ovr. wt is ur lmp and edd?

    mine is july 1st bt baby is one day advance. edd 4th april (as per scan) bt surely vl change to march

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    Quote Originally Posted by ramyasubash View Post
    i too hav back pain. do u hav any cravings
    no craving still have back pain. oh after 4 years ok ok. take care.

    i too went for scanning all is fine.

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    what will be the stem cell banking cost? did any of you planned for this.

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    Re: April 2016 Due Date Buddies!

    hi frds
    yday v did NT scan n blood tests, al were normal. bt i havnt gained any weight til nw.

    i was bit worried abt diabetes bt thnk god it is lower than normal. hb is 0.6 less bt madam said its ok as i vl b startg iron tabs aftr 2 weeks n als thnkg to hav dates.

    wt abt u two?

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