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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by sumitra View Post
    Dear Gunalakshmi, please enquire the other side of the story also. To the extent the boys who are studying along with your son getting angry and biting your son means the manner in which your son is moving with them is provoking them to get angry and to the extent of biting. Why I am telling this means, while introducing yourself to penmai members, you have once said that even the dress you people wear in the house also is as per suggestion given by your son. even your hubby also dressing as per the choice of your son. If you people give chellam to your son in the house same way he may be (very important may be) expecting his friends also obey like his father and mother in all the matters. When those boys are not obeying your son may start quarrel with them and at the end as the extreme step the biting is happening. These things I am only guessing. You please analyse problem in this angle also. Don't think otherwise, you and your hubby should stop giving so much chellam to your only son. Don't mistake me. I am telling for the betterment of your son only. thank you
    நல்ல ஆலோசனை தந்துள்ளீர்கள்...பிரச்சனையின் இருபக்கமும் அலசி ஆராய்வது நல்லது தானே...


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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by gunalakshmi View Post
    Thank u so much for ur reply brother....
    TT injection pottachu... inimale ethuvum prblm irukkathunu nenaikkurane.... Thannambikkai and Dhairiyam ellam veetla irukkum bothu alavukku athigama irukku... but veliya pona athellam kanama poiduthu....school a porutha varaikkum he is very calm and quiet....

    I will try to change this manner brother....

    then,

    தங்களது மகனது வாழ்வு வளம் பெற வாழ்த்துக்கள்...

    intha wishes ka ga.... romba romba thanks brother.....
    அன்பார்ந்த தங்கைக்கு,
    முயன்றால் முடியாதது இல்லை...தங்களது செல்ல மகன் கண்டிப்பாக மாறிவிடுவான்...
    வாழ்க வளமுடன்....

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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Oh !!! last year experience naala dhaan avan ippo unga kitta sollalai poliruku.

    Avan kitta ippo irundhe sollitu irunga adikadi, "ammavum appavum unnoda first friends, avanga kitta nee ella vishayathayum sollanum.....good boys ellam school la nadakuradhu ellam anni annike amma kitta solliduvaangale"
    , apdinu solli, encourage pannunga.

    Aamaam pa....indha maadhiri, sila pasanga, kadikkara habit irukum. adhu avanga venumne panradhu illai..... edho oru undhudhal la dhaan apdi seiranga.

    En close relative, oru ponne, en payyanai, eppo paaru kadichudum, ivan veruma azhudhutte iruppan, naan andha ponnai onnum sollavum mudiyadhu.....romba kashta pattu iruken.

    Idhu kooda parava illai, edho chinna kutti pasanga kadikudhunga apdinu vittudalaam. En son 7 th std. padikum bodhu, avanai, pakkathu seat payyan kayila kadichuttan, aana udane, en son um avan friends ume avanai mothittanga, adhuku apram, avan pakkathula utkaraama, vera edathula poi ivan utkarndhuttan. Naan idhu vishayama school kum pogalai. avane solve panni kittan( appo periya payyan aagittan illai....)

    Nanum atha nan sister pandrane.... nethu fulla avankita itha pathi than discuss panninane... schoola enna nadandhalum enkita vandhu sollu da chellam nu... inimale solrannu solli irukkar... pappom... enna nadakuthunnu...
    Athoda.... enna incident nadanthathunu therinchathu.... class teacher veliya pona nerathula snacks ka ga prblm vandhuruku... akash snacks ellam andha paiyan eduthu saputu empty box a vachitu poirukkan.... ivar poi madam kita solli irukkar.. madam antha paiyana thittinangalam... andha kovam thana ennavo... kadichi vachirukan....
    Athan... monday schoolku pona vudane... avan kita poi pesu... inimale snacks rendu perum share panni sapidalam... neeyum enna kekama edukatha... nanum madam kita solla mattenu sollu... inimale rendu perum frnds sanda poda kodathunu sollu ma... appadinu solli irukkane...
    Athoda school ku phone panni pesanumnu decide panni irukkane...
    namma sollalanna class teacher ku itha pathi ethuvum theriyamale poidum.. so intha mathiri problem irukku... pasangakita neengalum konjam pesunganu sollanum....

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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by sumitra View Post
    Dear Gunalakshmi, please enquire the other side of the story also. To the extent the boys who are studying along with your son getting angry and biting your son means the manner in which your son is moving with them is provoking them to get angry and to the extent of biting. Why I am telling this means, while introducing yourself to penmai members, you have once said that even the dress you people wear in the house also is as per suggestion given by your son. even your hubby also dressing as per the choice of your son. If you people give chellam to your son in the house same way he may be (very important may be) expecting his friends also obey like his father and mother in all the matters. When those boys are not obeying your son may start quarrel with them and at the end as the extreme step the biting is happening. These things I am only guessing. You please analyse problem in this angle also. Don't think otherwise, you and your hubby should stop giving so much chellam to your only son. Don't mistake me. I am telling for the betterment of your son only. thank you
    You are right sis.... even i did the same.... classmate kadichitannu sonna vudane... nan akash kita first ketathu... avan kadikira alavukku ne enna pannuna.... summa vandhu yarum kadikka mattanga.... ne avankita sanda pottiya.. adichiya... appadinu than kettane.... neenga solra mathiri... akash ore paiyan athanal chellam than... but athukkum oru alavu irukku nu enakku theriyum sis.... nan evloku evlo avanukku chellam kudukurano... antha alavukku avankita strict a koda iruppane.... i know my limits sis.... dont worry... akash mela thappu na.. nan avanoda behaviour change panna than try pannuvane... but indha prblm la avan mela thappu illanu confim panna piragu than... nan unga ellaroda suggestions kettane... neenga en paiyanoda nallathuku thana solringa... nan thappa eduthukkala sis.... en sister a nan thappa eduthukuvena?....

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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by gunalakshmi View Post
    Nanum atha nan sister pandrane.... nethu fulla avankita itha pathi than discuss panninane... schoola enna nadandhalum enkita vandhu sollu da chellam nu... inimale solrannu solli irukkar... pappom... enna nadakuthunnu...
    Athoda.... enna incident nadanthathunu therinchathu.... class teacher veliya pona nerathula snacks ka ga prblm vandhuruku... akash snacks ellam andha paiyan eduthu saputu empty box a vachitu poirukkan.... ivar poi madam kita solli irukkar.. madam antha paiyana thittinangalam... andha kovam thana ennavo... kadichi vachirukan....
    Athan... monday schoolku pona vudane... avan kita poi pesu... inimale snacks rendu perum share panni sapidalam... neeyum enna kekama edukatha... nanum madam kita solla mattenu sollu... inimale rendu perum frnds sanda poda kodathunu sollu ma... appadinu solli irukkane...
    Athoda school ku phone panni pesanumnu decide panni irukkane...
    namma sollalanna class teacher ku itha pathi ethuvum theriyamale poidum.. so intha mathiri problem irukku... pasangakita neengalum konjam pesunganu sollanum....

    Neenga senjadhu romba correct Guna lakshmi.

    Naane, idhai first teacher kitta sollunga nu solli dhaan type pannen, apram, avanga ellar munnadiyum andha payyanai adicha, avan innum moorkama aagida poraane apdinu dhaan, ungalai pesa sonnen.

    Yes, andha teacher um generalla ella pasanga kittayum share pannika solli, yaarum yaarayum adika, kadika koodadhu nu sollalaam.


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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Neenga senjadhu romba correct Guna lakshmi.

    Naane, idhai first teacher kitta sollunga nu solli dhaan type pannen, apram, avanga ellar munnadiyum andha payyanai adicha, avan innum moorkama aagida poraane apdinu dhaan, ungalai pesa sonnen.

    Yes, andha teacher um generalla ella pasanga kittayum share pannika solli, yaarum yaarayum adika, kadika koodadhu nu sollalaam.
    Amam sis... nan staff kita pesa solranu sonnathuku innoru reason irukku sis...
    In general, some teachers enna pandranga, avanga avanga snacks a avanga avanga sapidunga... pesa kodathu... satham vara kodathunu solranga... so teacher illatha nerathula pasangalukulla sanda varuthu... but share panni sapidarathu evlo nalla habit nu theriya mattenguthu... athoda intha mathiri prblms varamalum avoid pannalam... Then, intha rendu pasanga mattum than ippadiya illa innum ethana sanda intha mathiri class la nadakuthunu theriyala.... so class teacher pasanga kita ithu pathi pesuna nalla irukkumnu nenaikkurane...

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    Re: need ur suggetions frnds...

    Quote Originally Posted by gunalakshmi View Post
    You are right sis.... even i did the same.... classmate kadichitannu sonna vudane... nan akash kita first ketathu... avan kadikira alavukku ne enna pannuna.... summa vandhu yarum kadikka mattanga.... ne avankita sanda pottiya.. adichiya... appadinu than kettane.... neenga solra mathiri... akash ore paiyan athanal chellam than... but athukkum oru alavu irukku nu enakku theriyum sis.... nan evloku evlo avanukku chellam kudukurano... antha alavukku avankita strict a koda iruppane.... i know my limits sis.... dont worry... akash mela thappu na.. nan avanoda behaviour change panna than try pannuvane... but indha prblm la avan mela thappu illanu confim panna piragu than... nan unga ellaroda suggestions kettane... neenga en paiyanoda nallathuku thana solringa... nan thappa eduthukkala sis.... en sister a nan thappa eduthukuvena?....
    Dear Gunalakshmi, don't worry. everything will be fine in short duration of time. thanks

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