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    Share your Birth Stories!!!

    Hi New Mommies,
    This is the place where you can share your own
    "Giving Birth" stories as this will give more emotional support for the Mom-to-be's who wonders what happens and how it feels like when you are in labor and in delivery time and how you felt when you first heard you baby's cry(WOW!!!).

    Please do not hesitate, as this is not a part of you personal life but this is an amazing experience,a Bundle of joy which will double if you share


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    Re: Share your Birth Stories!!!

    Hi lachu,

    Neengale onga experience a solli start panni irunthirukkalam. Parava illai naane solluren.

    Enakkku first pain start pannalai. panikkudam udainthathu. 30 minutes la hospital la irunthome. Appuram injection ppottanga. Pain start achu. Namma asokan(actor) style la sollanumna Konjam konjama.. My all family was there with me. Appuram wardukkulla koottitu poittanga. Delivery aana udane doctor baby yai enkitta kanbichanga. avvalavu thaan theriyum. appuram smile pannitte naan nallla thongitten. After 1 hour my anni came gave me a cup of tea and talking about my kid. Appuram ippallam ethavathu sandai potta "ennai ethukkuma peththa?" appadinnu intha kuttip pisasu thiruppittu enkitta sandai poduthu.

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    ha ha... Rani... unga ponnu/paiyan unmai vilambi...)
    yennoda rendu birth storiesum... konjam thigil niranchavai pa... so i dont want to scare the new mom-to-be's...starting eppayume pleaseant irukanume athukku thaan...

    Here are my stories
    For the first one, Due to some Family commitments enga rendu family periyavangalum vara mudiyala.. so naangale thaan enga first deliverya parthom.. until 36 weeks everything was fine... after that , Sudden increase in my weight, spotty vision, protein in my urine - preeclampsia nu sonnanga... ennaku bayame illapa..yenna, en doctor mela ennamo avvalvu nambikkai and hospital too.. and more over my hubby. So exactly 40th week due date.. doctor kooptu, induce panni vittanga.. i can only sustain the pain for like 3 hrs.. athuvum ennala thaanga mudiyala.. so i had epidural.. and was heaven... inga thaan kathaila oru twist...
    my baby had cord around the neck and during contractions his heart rate dropped as low as 24. its should be normally 140/150... The nurse asked my husband to sleep to prepare for the big day, so he was sleeping. Thideernu.. 3 doctos, 5 nurses.. oru padaiye roomla vandhu.. emergency c=section pannanumnu kootitu poyitaanga.. paavam en hubby.. thooka kalakathula enna nadakuthune theriyala.. but.. after that everything went fine..my first son was born in my favorite day. He was just like what i had in my mind.I dont know, i had a strong feeling it was a boy and even never thought of girl's name(mom's intuition never fails). He is a gift and a cutie pie..

    WOW.. am reliving that day. after that.. i had magnesium on my IV, to avoid fits,seizure from pre-eclampsia.. after 4 days, We were released from the hospital..and Went HOME SWEET HOME...


    All through the process.. i had complete faith and no fear in my doctor and hospital...


    2nd baby experience.. It was a elective c-section. My mom, was there to look after my first one..but...At around 17 weeks in the ultrasound they diagnoised my son has SUA. Single umblical artery. the umblical cord has only 1 artery and 1 vein. instead of 2 A and 1 vein. This means that.. he had a chance of birth defect, congenital heart problem, kidney problem.. spine problem.. ha ha ha.. dont worry.. or He could be JUST FINE. After the NT ultrasound..I was confirmed that he had not have any birth defect or any problem of that matter.. but i had to do monthly US and Non-stress test to check anything has gone wrong.. They said i could choose aminio and find for birth defect.. but i asked is there any medication can be given when the baby is in the womb if at all he has any birth defect. they said amnio is only for diagnosis and no medicine can be given. They even gave us a choice to abort after going through my test results and everything.. but my hubby and I was against it.. and my hubby said.. Nothing will happen..if at all anything happens, i am one who is going to look after.. so dont worry at all.. It really gave me confidence...

    Because of SUA my doctor said my baby will be small.. And everytime i went for doctor checkups, my doctor measures my tummy and she would be surprised. .On the D Day, My second son was born with sharp nails, tall, and weight is about 8 lbs 20z. he also had cord around the neck.. but everything was fine.. he was a perfect baby, no birth defect. no less weight..

    All through my second pregnancy.. ennaku ore thought thaan.. En baby nallave porappan, entha pirachanaiyum irukaathu.. ithan... like i said.. mother's intuition never fails, he was born as a cutie pie.. and very micheivous and naughty..


    So have faith guys, nothing will go wrong.. Do everything you can, and have faith. Everything will be good..

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    Re: Share your Birth Stories!!!

    hi latchu,

    unga story(real life story) +ve feel kodukkudhu.... unga kutty naughtya illainadhaan thappu...haha....ungalukku eedu kodukka venamapa....

    sari en kadhaya solren.... ennoda first baby vayathula irundhapo, first 2 or 3 months sema vaandhi, mayakkam sariya saapda mudiyadhu... edhukku eduthaalum alugai... enakke ennai nenacha cheee nu irukkum...poga poga siramangal kuraindhadhu... velaikku poga aarambichen....

    7th month valaigappu pottanga... 3 days dhan amma veetla irundhen... back to work....husband veetuku vandhachu...9th month varai kadhai ipdiye pochu...delivery dateku one weak appodhaan en hus karunai kaanbitthar. en amma veettuku allow panninaar...

    appadaanu enjoy panna mudiyaama seramam aarambichadhu... aasaipattu heavya saapta vaandhi vandhu kudalai perattidum... illa, indigestion problem....sari innum konja naal dhane apdinu control panni vaaya katti, vayatha katti oruvaliya midnight panikudam udaindhu vittadhu...

    sari amma thoongattumnu sollama naanum manage pannikittu... early morning sonnen... udane hospital... ella relationsum suthi irukka... pain injection onnum work aagala... naan comedy panni sirichikittu irundhen... evening 4 varai arattayum, kummalamuma irundhadhu enga family....

    idaila vayathula ulla baby epdi irukku... breathing epdi irukkunu check panni parthanga....ulla baby moochuku thinarudhunu therinjadhum operationnu sollitanga...apram ennapa jora en first baby porandha...

    arai mayakkathula naan mudhalla kettadhu ava alugai kuralai thaan....aprama en appa avalai en kitta kanbichaar... avar kan kalangi sirikka... naan sirikka... en kutti ponnu mulichu mulichu paartha....hayyo indha amma kitta mattikitome apdinu feel panni iruppalo ennavo...haaha.....

    naan aasai pattadhu ponnu.... pirandhadhum ponnu....iam so happy.... vera enna solla.....

    (oru posting poda sonna, oru kadhaya pottutale.......apdinu dhane latchu pallai kadikkare.....haha....cool maa.....innum en second baby story irukku .... adha innoru naal podaren...haha....)

    Anitha.

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    ha ha.. first baby supera vandhaala.. kalaku... c-section seiyarappo, general anesthesia kudupaanga.. but we dont feel the pain of cutting, but we will be half awake.. antha timelayum.. andha first alugai,appadiye kolandhaiya,vayithula irundhu eduthu kaamipaanga paarunga... chance illapa..divine...athukappuram avunga alutha.. tension thalaikerum.. athu vera vishayam..


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    Lachu, Enakku therinthavarai u.s. la unmaiyach cholromnu ellathaiyum (puriyathathaiyum) somtime solliruvaanga. Aana athoda kooda may be ellam nalla varalaamnum solliruvaanga. (illaina case pottruvaanagalo) Ennoda friendukku avanga parents vara mudiyailnu naan than one day hospital la irunthen. But she had a normal delivery and only 5 hours delivery pain. (ennai mathiri Kaalaiyil valichu night porakkala) and had a cute baby boy. Athukkappuram anga order panna saappadu irukke appappa delivery painekkooda sakichuralaam pola intha sappada saappitaruthukku. Whatever ellorum kulanthaiyoda santhosama veettukku vanthale sarithaan. Enna everything is well that ends well. Aana ungala mathiri confidence vera yaarukkum varaathunga.

    Rani.


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    Hey rani,
    Thanks.. Neenga sarcastica sollra maathiri iruku.. nyways.. yes i was confident."nee enna ninaikiriyo athuvaave aavai" nu saying iruku. Same here.

    Every mother will be confident at that time.. suthi irukuravanga thaan bayamuruthuvaangale thavira..unga confidence levela koraipaangale thavira.. the person in pain.. will be in the highest confidence.

    Ofcourse, that is best.. ellathayum nammalum therinjakanum.. avunga sonnangana.. nammalum question kekanum.. appo thaan namma body kulla enna nadakuthunu theriyum.. namma prepared irukanum..delivery time enna nadakumnu namma books padichu therinjakanum.. prenatal visits appo, doctora question kekanum.. naama kekalaina..avunga solla maatanga.. It doesnot matter where we are...

    Ithe naan Indiala try pannen.. When I told all details about my first delivery for my second pregnancy check up.. They asked where my baby was born.. after i told the place.. They went defensive.. Angalam appadi.. ingalaam ippadi.. ithe paarunga.. athe compare pannathinga.. ivvalvukum naan onnume sollala..and they are very rude..which i hated..

    hospital saapadu..nallave iruke paa.. burger, brownie, pasta, soup... The choices should be made correctly.. vegetarians will suffer at that time..the hospital food is adviced and checked by the doctor before delivering it to you...nyways...

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    Yes lachu. I never eat nv outside. Because i eat only halal food. Everyone had a different experience. U have faith in god and in you. After reading ur experience our new moms will get confident. We all r surely support them. All the best new moms.

    Rani.

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    hi lakshmi, thanks for making a wonderful thread for sharing birth stories here!!!! Here is mine....

    July 6th, the day we had waited to see our Prince!!! It's a ECS, so everything is planned. But still I had little fear in my heart, like every normal woman. Admitted in the hospital a day before for normal scans and procedures.

    July 6th, the day came
    and the time was scheduled by 9.30 am. My dad went to temple and gave me the holy ashes, and my mom applied in my forehead. While I was moving to the operation theatre by stretcher, my hubby just hold my hand, and he just talked with his eyes as usual.

    They took me to the ICU by 8.30 am and prepared me. By 9.45 they took me to the operation theatre, gave anesthesia and started the operation, by 10.08 AM doctor said that "இளவரசி உங்களக்கு அழகான ஆண் குழந்தை பிறந்திருகான்". He screamed loudly
    , my eyes filled with tears and no words are there to express my thoughts.

    I thanked god, who blessed us with a Prince.
    They showed my son, with a cloth wrapped (swaddled) him fully. He looks so cute, I thanked my son, who gave me a chance to be a mother!!! and complete my life and who makes me to feel the "
    PENMAI". It was the most wonderful moment in my life. I feel, I am the most blessed person in this universe.

    Soon my heart aches
    and I don't know how I will console my hubby because he loves baby girl. (I don't mind for the gender, but he was crazy for baby girl .) He never thought, as a baby boy. While I was pregnant, even when I read books to him, if a word comes as he (to mention the baby in the book). My hubby says, please don't read as "he", read as "she". Because I know, only "Kutty Ilavarasi" will come to our home.

    My face might show the pain to my doctor, she understand that I am in discomfort and to get out of that, she collected my bio-data from me in the operation theatre, while she stitches the incision. She just tries to changes my mood, by asking what’s your degree? After knowing that I am from computer profession. She asks me, which laptop is best to buy? I can't answer her, I am totally depressed. She calls
    me again “Ilavarasi” and ask. What is Tablet PC? What is different between Tablet PC and Laptop etc... She was too good by handling us psychologically and she cares me well.

    After 2 hours wait from ICU, just came out from the ICU, my hubby waits near the door. My eyes again filled with tears for both happy (we had our baby) and sad (I don't know how I will soothe him since its a baby boy). He holds my hands and told me that "செல்லம், குட்டி பையன் ரொம்ப அழகா இருக்கான்டா".

    I just shocked and looked him with a smile. It seems that, he didn't mind and cares for the gender, after seeing "Tamizh".

    We went to the room and my mom placed him near to me, I just touched him and kissed, with love. In the evening, the doctor's team came to see me and "Tamizh" for general visit. They finished examining him and while we are talking, "Tamizh" rolled his tongue and made a sound (like yummy sound). The entire team just looked at him and laughed at the naughty boy.


    We back to our home with our little Prince after 2 days from hospital. We named him as “Tamizh” (from a short list of “Tamizh, Bharathi, Tamizharuvi, Tamizharasan, Tamizhazhagan, Agathiyan, Tholkappiyan, etc…)

    He just now started crawling and attracts us with his smile and funny pranks. Have very little time to other stuffs, even to work here. I don’t like to have baby sitter, because I like to take care of him with my full presence.

    No other thing is important in a women’s life in front of the word “Amma”. I know the full meaning of the word “amma” (what I call my mom), when he calls me. Yeah he calls me as “amma…” when he cries!!!


    “Tamizh” rules us, now and for ever in our life!!!


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    WOW Illavarasi, Wonderful Birth Story!!!... Tamil is a lucky kid... Vaalu paiyan...

    . Its true, Though we desire for baby girl, the gender doesnot matter at all after seeing Our cutie pies... In my story, we had our boys grow hair( dint do mottai for 2 years) and dressed them in paatu paavadai, jewels and everthing occasionally and quenched our desire for girl...


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