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Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான்


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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான&

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post

    In my case, my MIL and FIL were very very conservative people.

    Before marriage, my mother had trained me, to be independent and self-reliant. I used to go anywhere and everywhere, all alone.

    But, the TABLE WAS TURNED, when I got married.

    According to my in-laws, a girl should never go alone to any place.

    And I obliged, for the sake of HARMONY OF THE FAMILY.

    I left my job. I didn't go alone. I never used to reply, to whatever they complained. But these things happened only initially.

    Later, after 5 years, I took over the full charge of the family, and they found that everything went off very well.

    I have 5 SILs, and I used to do all the duties to be done for them. Till now they feel happy with me.

    My MIL passed away 10 years back. That time, my FIL was 80 and everybody was worried about him. But , when I took care of him like my own child, even when he was attacked by DEMENTIA at the age of 85, every one was surprised. He himself, before Dementia, praised me, that in spite of his earlier tantrums, my care for him was so good.

    Now, even he is no more.

    My elder co-sister treats me as our MIL, why because you know, she tells that, I know all the sastrams and sambradayams, which she does not know till now.

    Everybody in the family are elder to me, but nowadays, they ask me everything about the do's and dont's.
    happy to hear this aunty.............

    i like u very much aunty.........

    yarayum kurai sollama neenga solra vitham superrrrrr..........


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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான&

    Quote Originally Posted by NivetaMohan View Post
    aachuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu fact and fate machiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, aachooo future romba kasatam unnaku illada unnavarukuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu hahahahha makkale..paarunga intha kodumaiye
    ennavaruku kashtam nu enake theriyum da...........

    pavam yaru petha pullayo ippove santhoshama irunthukatum.........

    but oru family ey new entry aagume da........

    enaku vera pesave theriyathaaa......... adhan kashtam nu sonnen...........

    but enna ottarathuku nu eppadi da entry kudukara correct time la.........

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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான&

    Quote Originally Posted by accool View Post
    happy to hear this aunty.............

    i like u very much aunty.........

    yarayum kurai sollama neenga solra vitham superrrrrr..........

    ​Thanks Sindhu

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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான&

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    ​Thanks Sindhu
    u r always welcome aunty...........

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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான&

    Hi Jeyanthy,
    Indha thread arambithadharkana ungal nokkam (adhan future DIL's kku help panradhu) enakku romba pidichirukku........

    Indha thread paarthavudan immediatea ennoda MIL kku call panniten... Avanga padhari poi "Enna kannu office time la koopitiruka????" nu kettu mudikiradhukku munnadi naan "Laalima naan nalla DIL va...seekiram sollunga??" nu ketten....Avanga kudumbathukke uriya trade mark sirippoda "Yaaru unnai ippadi kettadhu???" nu ketka, naan avangalakku indha thread pathi explain pannen...

    Ippo avanga sonna bathil kku varen....

    1) "Nee romba nalla marumagaldhan...yenna yen paiyanna romba Sandhosama, nimmadhiya vechirukaye nu sonnanga"... Avangaloda kannotathula yendha oru maamiyarum first avargal marumagalidam ethirpaarpadhu idhaithanam... So indha point la naan full mark score pannitadha Laalima sonnanga....

    2) Naan kudumbatha udaikka maatenam...Avanga kaalathukku appuram kooda Sathyan(my BIL), Sugi(my SIL) and Jeeva(Idhu yaarunnu ungalakku theriyum ) inru pol ottrumaya irukka, kandippa yennala yendha prachanaiyum varadhu nu sonnanga....."Atheppadi Laalima ivlo uruthiya solreengannu naan ketten???"...I was really stunned at her answer. She quoted lots of incidents which made her say the above words like.....

    Ennoda cousin kalyana saree vaanga Kanchi ponappo, naan en MIL, SIL and Saranya kka(Co-Sister) kku saree vaangittu vandhadhu....Nethra(my niece) kku kooda azhagana pattu paavadai vaangitu vandhiye nu sonnanga....

    Avanga yenga B'day, anniversary kku wish panna marandhal kooda naan ego paarkama wish paaniduven....

    Idhu madhiri niraya incidents sonnanga...Naan yen stun annena, to me honestly, those things were just insignificant....But andha chinna visayangalukku avangakitta irundhu enakku kidaichadhu "Avangaloda asaikka mudiyadha Nambikkai"....Quite amazing right???? Naan idhai sathiyama yethirpaarkala.....

    "Ivlodhana, illai yedhavadhu vituteengala...Mandaya thatti yosichu paathu sollunga" nu naan ketka, avanga "idhuve Veni(my perimma) innaikku kalaila Nithya(my cousin) engagement la vechu "samandhi, neenga Rasam nalla vaasanaya, supera vepeengalame...Thangam(adhu naandhan) yeppo rasam saapitaalum solluva...yeppadi appadi vekareenga" nu kettanga...So en samayal pugazha parappina unakku naan ithanai solliyachu...Idhukku mela mudiyadhu" nu sollitaanga.....

    p.s:- Enakku time illadhala, matra friends share seithadha padikka mudila:(.. But I'll do it in the next coming days..............


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    Quote Originally Posted by Priyakash View Post
    Hi Jeyanthy,
    Indha thread arambithadharkana ungal nokkam (adhan future DIL's kku help panradhu) enakku romba pidichirukku........

    Indha thread paarthavudan immediatea ennoda MIL kku call panniten... Avanga padhari poi "Enna kannu office time la koopitiruka????" nu kettu mudikiradhukku munnadi naan "Laalima naan nalla DIL va...seekiram sollunga??" nu ketten....Avanga kudumbathukke uriya trade mark sirippoda "Yaaru unnai ippadi kettadhu???" nu ketka, naan avangalakku indha thread pathi explain pannen...

    Ippo avanga sonna bathil kku varen....

    1) "Nee romba nalla marumagaldhan...yenna yen paiyanna romba Sandhosama, nimmadhiya vechirukaye nu sonnanga"... Avangaloda kannotathula yendha oru maamiyarum first avargal marumagalidam ethirpaarpadhu idhaithanam... So indha point la naan full mark score pannitadha Laalima sonnanga....

    2) Naan kudumbatha udaikka maatenam...Avanga kaalathukku appuram kooda Sathyan(my BIL), Sugi(my SIL) and Jeeva(Idhu yaarunnu ungalakku theriyum ) inru pol ottrumaya irukka, kandippa yennala yendha prachanaiyum varadhu nu sonnanga....."Atheppadi Laalima ivlo uruthiya solreengannu naan ketten???"...I was really stunned at her answer. She quoted lots of incidents which made her say the above words like.....

    Ennoda cousin kalyana saree vaanga Kanchi ponappo, naan en MIL, SIL and Saranya kka(Co-Sister) kku saree vaangittu vandhadhu....Nethra(my niece) kku kooda azhagana pattu paavadai vaangitu vandhiye nu sonnanga....

    Avanga yenga B'day, anniversary kku wish panna marandhal kooda naan ego paarkama wish paaniduven....

    Idhu madhiri niraya incidents sonnanga...Naan yen stun annena, to me honestly, those things were just insignificant....But andha chinna visayangalukku avangakitta irundhu enakku kidaichadhu "Avangaloda asaikka mudiyadha Nambikkai"....Quite amazing right???? Naan idhai sathiyama yethirpaarkala.....

    "Ivlodhana, illai yedhavadhu vituteengala...Mandaya thatti yosichu paathu sollunga" nu naan ketka, avanga "idhuve Veni(my perimma) innaikku kalaila Nithya(my cousin) engagement la vechu "samandhi, neenga Rasam nalla vaasanaya, supera vepeengalame...Thangam(adhu naandhan) yeppo rasam saapitaalum solluva...yeppadi appadi vekareenga" nu kettanga...So en samayal pugazha parappina unakku naan ithanai solliyachu...Idhukku mela mudiyadhu" nu sollitaanga.....

    p.s:- Enakku time illadhala, matra friends share seithadha padikka mudila:(.. But I'll do it in the next coming days..............
    neenga super DIL than sis......

    nambikai ah chinna chinna visayathulayum peralam nu solliteenga.............

    unga anbana seyalgaluku avanga nambikai nalla prize than sis......

    enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy....................

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    neenga super DIL than sis......

    nambikai ah chinna chinna visayathulayum peralam nu solliteenga.............

    unga anbana seyalgaluku avanga nambikai nalla prize than sis......

    enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy....................
    Thank You Sindhu......Paarunga ungalukku evlo tips kudukaromnu...Idhellam mind la vechutu, future la kalakunga.....

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    Re: Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான் &#

    no spl relation with my in laws everything goes normally here. we are in joint family but amma veetil eppadi iruntheno appadiyethan ingeyum iruken innum entha porupum enaku kodukapadavillai. so sollarthuku unga alavuku en kitta matter illaipa
    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    ​Appapa......thannadakkathula ellarayum minjiduvinga poliruku.....Sari, appa unga MIL va kootitu vandhu, ungala pathi solla sollunga, naanga ellam unga arumai perumaya therinjukka vendama......



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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான&

    Quote Originally Posted by Priyakash View Post
    Thank You Sindhu......Paarunga ungalukku evlo tips kudukaromnu...Idhellam mind la vechutu, future la kalakunga.....
    hmm u r welcome sis.........

    hmm point noted sis.............

    kalakita pochu.........

    but nga venam sis cut pannidunga...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by pooo80 View Post
    no spl relation with my in laws everything goes normally here. we are in joint family but amma veetil eppadi iruntheno appadiyethan ingeyum iruken innum entha porupum enaku kodukapadavillai. so sollarthuku unga alavuku en kitta matter illaipa
    k matter kidaichathum pottu thakkunga sis..............

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