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    Re: Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நானĮ

    "A happy marriage doesn't just happen, we need to make it happen!"
    Hi deepa,

    Well said. How true it is.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Divyakala View Post
    Hi Jayan ka,
    first of all, thanks for starting this thread ka...
    unga experience really super ka.. very useful tips to the newcomers..

    ​Thanks Divya......unga anubavathayum sollungalen.

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    hi akks pudhu thread pudhu post kalakuringa

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    Quote Originally Posted by meenamari View Post
    hi akks pudhu thread pudhu post kalakuringa

    ​Thanks Meena.....neenga sollungalen

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    Quote Originally Posted by deepa bala View Post
    Gud thread sis!

    Marriage aana beginning la rombaa inconvenient a feel pannen.. bcoz amma solli solli anupchanga, nee un vaalu thanathellam anga vachikka mudiadhu, romba pesadha, morning seekiram ezhundhakanum.. appadi ippadi nu.... bcoz enga family very social and Bala's family apadiye opposite, romba orthodox..

    nanga inga arattai, paatu nu veettaye rendu paduthuvom, but anga silenta irukum..

    I think first year is very crucial...We have to be open to change, and bend a bit in the way we do things, and really listen a lot instead of talking...A phase to realise that "A happy marriage doesn't just happen, we need to make it happen!"

    Thank God. we mingled well...

    Yes, cooking is very important! en MIL ku en cooking romba pudikum, bcoz nan edhana different-a try pannuven.

    ninga sonna madhiri, namba amma veeta pathi romba pesama irundha nalladhu dhan nan adha practical-a kathukiten

    In laws will be really happy if we consult them and do everything...
    hi sis.........

    complete change layum neenga mingle aagiteenga........

    happy to hear this sis..................

    nan bold panna lines la ovvoru word um important..........

    adhulayum antha last line.........wow super............

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    Re: Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான் &#

    Hi ka,
    marriage ana 2 yrs la enakku perusa anubavam illa ka.. en in-laws lam erode la irukkanga..
    Nan marriage ku othukkitathe, en hubby family parthu than... (nalla family, so payan nallavara iruppar nu)

    good daughter-in-law nu solratha vida, avanga very very good and sweet mother-in-law nu solluven..

    enakku en MIL ta pidikkatha ore oru vishayam romba josiyam parpanga nambuvanga, josier solratha appadiye follow panna solluvanga.. (like yanthiram vangi poojai pannu, raasi kal mothiram (nearly 50k) vangi kaila podu, etc., like that) etha start pannalum including going to hospital, nalla naal, neram ellam parthu than seivanga...

    enakku direct-ta object panna kashtama irukkum.. Nanga nalla irukkanum nu than ethayachum yosichu solranga nu thonum.. nan hubby ta solli, athai kitta sollunga nu solliduven.. nan direct-ta solla matten.. en hubby illatha appo en kitta solluvanga.. nan imm kottittu vittuduven..

    ana enga athai kitta pesi jaikka mudiyathu..

    for example oru chinna incident

    athai : divya unakku "lagna"thula raghu irukku, athanala than nee olli ya , strength illama irukka, so vaidooriyam kal vacha mothiram(athuvum oru particualar josier ta than podanum(25k)) podu
    naan: antha mothiram potta raghu lagnathula irunthu odiduvara athai
    athai: divyaaaaaaaa, nee solra kal-lunu, nan solraen kadavul nu

    ippadi pesuvanga :x

    enakku kadavul nambikkai lam iruku.. itha than namba matten.. kadavulala mattum than mudiyum.. matha padi kallu, yanthiram lam nambikkai illa..


    matha padi,
    anga (erode) pona, they will treat me like a little kid.. morning ezhunthirikka kooda vida mattanga.. thoonga solvanga.. oru velaiyum seiya vida mattanga.. ellam en SIL-s than vanthu seivanga (they r residing in nearby villages)... kulikka kooda raghu kaalam , emakandam parthu than kulikka solvanga(so pavam naan) en MIL..saapidrathu kooda sila time ithellam parthu solluvanga.. ithellam only for me.. en SIL payyan (he finished his college) enna romba kindal pannitte iruppan, pavam athai neenga nu..



    SILs lam romba elders ngrathala nan than romba chinna ponnu.. so enakku than chellam.. en hubby thittina kooda, avanga lam avara thittuvanga.. (pulla ya en da thittura nu.) innocent MIL and FIL... nanum ivar ta sandai potta, over-ra thittineenga na erode kelambi poduven nu than solluven.. anga pona thane enakku support kidaikkum. enakku en in-laws support, en hubby ku en parents support .. (avangavanga pillaikal pathi avangavangulukku thane theriyum) .. ellam en neram nu poiduvar...

    so no experience like yours ka...



    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    ​Thanks Divya......unga anubavathayum sollungalen.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Divyakala View Post
    Hi ka,
    marriage ana 2 yrs la enakku perusa anubavam illa ka.. en in-laws lam erode la irukkanga..
    Nan marriage ku othukkitathe, en hubby family parthu than... (nalla family, so payan nallavara iruppar nu)

    good daughter-in-law nu solratha vida, avanga very very good and sweet mother-in-law nu solluven..

    enakku en MIL ta pidikkatha ore oru vishayam romba josiyam parpanga nambuvanga, josier solratha appadiye follow panna solluvanga.. (like yanthiram vangi poojai pannu, raasi kal mothiram (nearly 50k) vangi kaila podu, etc., like that) etha start pannalum including going to hospital, nalla naal, neram ellam parthu than seivanga...

    enakku direct-ta object panna kashtama irukkum.. Nanga nalla irukkanum nu than ethayachum yosichu solranga nu thonum.. nan hubby ta solli, athai kitta sollunga nu solliduven.. nan direct-ta solla matten.. en hubby illatha appo en kitta solluvanga.. nan imm kottittu vittuduven..

    ana enga athai kitta pesi jaikka mudiyathu..

    for example oru chinna incident

    athai : divya unakku "lagna"thula raghu irukku, athanala than nee olli ya , strength illama irukka, so vaidooriyam kal vacha mothiram(athuvum oru particualar josier ta than podanum(25k)) podu
    naan: antha mothiram potta raghu lagnathula irunthu odiduvara athai
    athai: divyaaaaaaaa, nee solra kal-lunu, nan solraen kadavul nu

    ippadi pesuvanga :x

    enakku kadavul nambikkai lam iruku.. itha than namba matten.. kadavulala mattum than mudiyum.. matha padi kallu, yanthiram lam nambikkai illa..


    matha padi,
    anga (erode) pona, they will treat me like a little kid.. morning ezhunthirikka kooda vida mattanga.. thoonga solvanga.. oru velaiyum seiya vida mattanga.. ellam en SIL-s than vanthu seivanga (they r residing in nearby villages)... kulikka kooda raghu kaalam , emakandam parthu than kulikka solvanga(so pavam naan) en MIL..saapidrathu kooda sila time ithellam parthu solluvanga.. ithellam only for me.. en SIL payyan (he finished his college) enna romba kindal pannitte iruppan, pavam athai neenga nu..



    SILs lam romba elders ngrathala nan than romba chinna ponnu.. so enakku than chellam.. en hubby thittina kooda, avanga lam avara thittuvanga.. (pulla ya en da thittura nu.) innocent MIL and FIL... nanum ivar ta sandai potta, over-ra thittineenga na erode kelambi poduven nu than solluven.. anga pona thane enakku support kidaikkum. enakku en in-laws support, en hubby ku en parents support .. (avangavanga pillaikal pathi avangavangulukku thane theriyum) .. ellam en neram nu poiduvar...

    so no experience like yours ka...
    divya sis unga experience ey romba nalla iruku..........

    super family sis..............

    enjoyyyyyyyyy...............

    anna ku nangalum support ku irukom sis...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Divyakala View Post
    Hi ka,
    marriage ana 2 yrs la enakku perusa anubavam illa ka.. en in-laws lam erode la irukkanga..
    Nan marriage ku othukkitathe, en hubby family parthu than... (nalla family, so payan nallavara iruppar nu)

    good daughter-in-law nu solratha vida, avanga very very good and sweet mother-in-law nu solluven..

    enakku en MIL ta pidikkatha ore oru vishayam romba josiyam parpanga nambuvanga, josier solratha appadiye follow panna solluvanga.. (like yanthiram vangi poojai pannu, raasi kal mothiram (nearly 50k) vangi kaila podu, etc., like that) etha start pannalum including going to hospital, nalla naal, neram ellam parthu than seivanga...

    enakku direct-ta object panna kashtama irukkum.. Nanga nalla irukkanum nu than ethayachum yosichu solranga nu thonum.. nan hubby ta solli, athai kitta sollunga nu solliduven.. nan direct-ta solla matten.. en hubby illatha appo en kitta solluvanga.. nan imm kottittu vittuduven..

    ana enga athai kitta pesi jaikka mudiyathu..

    for example oru chinna incident

    athai : divya unakku "lagna"thula raghu irukku, athanala than nee olli ya , strength illama irukka, so vaidooriyam kal vacha mothiram(athuvum oru particualar josier ta than podanum(25k)) podu
    naan: antha mothiram potta raghu lagnathula irunthu odiduvara athai
    athai: divyaaaaaaaa, nee solra kal-lunu, nan solraen kadavul nu

    ippadi pesuvanga :x

    enakku kadavul nambikkai lam iruku.. itha than namba matten.. kadavulala mattum than mudiyum.. matha padi kallu, yanthiram lam nambikkai illa..


    matha padi,
    anga (erode) pona, they will treat me like a little kid.. morning ezhunthirikka kooda vida mattanga.. thoonga solvanga.. oru velaiyum seiya vida mattanga.. ellam en SIL-s than vanthu seivanga (they r residing in nearby villages)... kulikka kooda raghu kaalam , emakandam parthu than kulikka solvanga(so pavam naan) en MIL..saapidrathu kooda sila time ithellam parthu solluvanga.. ithellam only for me.. en SIL payyan (he finished his college) enna romba kindal pannitte iruppan, pavam athai neenga nu..



    SILs lam romba elders ngrathala nan than romba chinna ponnu.. so enakku than chellam.. en hubby thittina kooda, avanga lam avara thittuvanga.. (pulla ya en da thittura nu.) innocent MIL and FIL... nanum ivar ta sandai potta, over-ra thittineenga na erode kelambi poduven nu than solluven.. anga pona thane enakku support kidaikkum. enakku en in-laws support, en hubby ku en parents support .. (avangavanga pillaikal pathi avangavangulukku thane theriyum) .. ellam en neram nu poiduvar...

    so no experience like yours ka...



    Ada......ada....ada......epdi oru MIL and SILs ungaluku .......

    Ovvorutharuku oru nambikkai.....aanalum konjam overdhaan.....saapida , kulikka koodava josiam.......


    ​Aanaalum, neenga ippo handle panra maadhiridhaan, handle pannanum.

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    hmm u r welcome sis.........

    hmm point noted sis.............

    kalakita pochu.........

    but nga venam sis cut pannidunga...........
    Sari Sindhu...Cut panniduvom

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    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post

    Priya......as usual you rock.......

    Enga yaarukkavadhu thonicha, udane, MIL ku phone pottu ketkanumnu ( aana ennala ninaichaalum mudiyadhu.....coz...she is no more).

    Yes.......naama expect panna mudiyadha vishayam ellam avangaluku important a thonudhu paarunga......
    Thanks Jayanthy!!

    Maybe as the years pass-by, naanum ungalai pola matureda, anubhavam mikka marumagala anapuram, sonthama indha questions kku answer panniduvennu ninaikaren....Adhuvarai Laali ma en kelvikana bathilai sollithan aaganum

    Oh, I'm sorry about u'r loss!!

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