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    Re: Help me to solve my family probs

    Quote Originally Posted by Karpagagomathi View Post
    Hi Vasanthi,

    Problems with MIL is very common. Don't feel down for that. The main reason for all the problems between MIL and DIL is mere possessiveness. Your MIL will be of a thought that her son's affection towards her will be reduced just because of your arrival. So dont take her words to your heart. She may not be a good MIL at times. But always she will be the best grand parent for your child. Offcourse, best mom for your husband. For their sake atleast, you must be patient. Foresee the things and you will realise that she is very important for your family(i.e husband, child).

    So whenever she says something which hurts you, Dont mind. Leave it and move on. Don't argue. If you really have a problem or something hurts you, just explain your situation to her in a soft manner. Even then if she is not satisfied, if you feel so much irritated, share that to your closed ones and forget about that. So that your envy or anger will be obviously reduced.

    Because each and every relationship is important. As a DIL, perform all your duties to her. 'Kaalangal maarum, Katchigal Maarum'. So be patient and drop the idea of a nuclear family, unless it spoils the relationship between you and your hubby.
    Nicely expressed your views Karpaga, what you told are 100% correct. Good counselling. Thanks dear.


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    Re: Help me to solve my family probs

    Quote Originally Posted by sumathisrini View Post
    Nicely expressed your views Karpaga, what you told are 100% correct. Good counselling. Thanks dear.
    You are welcome Sumathi and thanx for ur encouraging response..

    Karpaga Gomathi

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