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    Help me friends,,

    Haiii Friends,Sisters,

    I m new to this Penmai.com.

    Now i m facing one problem please kindly help me.

    I dont want to disclose my name here..sorry...

    I m 22 Years old working as Software Engineer in Bangalore...

    i have completed my studies in chennai only...i m 2013 Engineer Pass out...

    Ennoda problem enna na ennoda Class mate Ram...

    naanum avanum ore dept....ore Class....4 years studies together.....

    aana ennaikkume naanum avanum pesinathu illa....final year last sem la naan ennoda project panna Bangalore vandhutten,,,,,

    eppavume naan ennoda class boys kitta pesa matten...ennoda class girls um appadi thaan....etho oru friendship bond enga class girlskkum boyskkum eppovum irunthathu illa....maththa dept maadhiri....

    naan project panna bangalore vandha piragu thaan ram en kooda pesa arambichchaan....

    naanum friend ah than pesinen....naan eppadi avanai impress pannen nu theriyala...avan en kitta oru naal propose pannan....aana naan ignore pannitten....

    appuram 1 year naanga olunga pesula...eppavume avana pesinaa thaan naan pesuven....

    ippadiye till now we are...pesi pesiye enakku avanai pidichchu pochchu...this year Feb 12 avanoda birthday...enakku theriyathu..en friend phone panni sonna....avalukku mattum theriyum avan ennai love pandrathu....

    naan phone panni wish pannen....

    athukku appuram en kooda daily pesa arambichchan...nanum friendly ah pesinen...

    meendum love ai accept panna solli romba compel pandraan....

    enakku ennoda family ninaichcha payamaa irukku...ennoda family la love marriage kku oththukka maattanga...naan evvlavo solli parththutten...

    enakkum avanai pidichchu irukku...avan nallavan thaan....aana enakku payamaa irukku....

    daily ithuve enakku oru periya piratchchanaiyaa irukku....

    enakku enna pandrathunnu theriyala....as sister ah,friend ah enakku neenga oru vazhi sollanum...

    naan pesama vittalum...phone panni azhuvuraan....

    naanum evvalavoo solli parththutten...enakku eppadi avanuku solli puriya vaikkirathunnu theriyala...

    naan ethavthu thappu pandrenaa....ennala ennoda work la concentrate panna mudiyala....

    naan enna pannttum...konjam help pannungalen,,,,plssssssss





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    Re: Help me friends,,

    hi friend,

    ithu ella girls kkum intha agela vara problem thaan. if you trust him and if you trust in your love you can go and accept his love and success in life. life la mudiyathathu ethuvum illai. unga parents convince panna try pannunga. appadi illa unga parents happiness thaan ungallukku mukkiyamna forget the boy and dont get in touch with him even as a friend.

    ungala avangala frienda paarka mudiyathu kandippa love thirupavum varum and you will confuse again.

    all the best for your life.

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    Quote Originally Posted by sujavent View Post
    hi friend,

    ithu ella girls kkum intha agela vara problem thaan. if you trust him and if you trust in your love you can go and accept his love and success in life. life la mudiyathathu ethuvum illai. unga parents convince panna try pannunga. appadi illa unga parents happiness thaan ungallukku mukkiyamna forget the boy and dont get in touch with him even as a friend.

    ungala avangala frienda paarka mudiyathu kandippa love thirupavum varum and you will confuse again.

    all the best for your life.
    Hiii Suja,,,

    Thanks for giving such a nice advice..

    i ill try to do it...

    ennala ennoda appa kku ethira onnum panna mudiyathu....he is my god...

    Thanks again dear...

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    hi again,

    are you the only daughter or do you have any sibilings? did they are married?

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    Quote Originally Posted by sujavent View Post
    hi again,

    are you the only daughter or do you have any sibilings? did they are married?
    No...i have 2 siblings...i m the elder one in family...both sisters are younger they are studying....

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    Oh. ok. ok. So they will get upset if you marry him.

    If you have strong trust in the guy and in your love go ahead and convince your parents and marry him or else please dont worry marry a person told by your parents.

    Whatever it may be dont feel for the decision you take. Take right decision and be steady.

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    Quote Originally Posted by sujavent View Post
    Oh. ok. ok. So they will get upset if you marry him.

    If you have strong trust in the guy and in your love go ahead and convince your parents and marry him or else please dont worry marry a person told by your parents.

    Whatever it may be dont feel for the decision you take. Take right decision and be steady.
    Hiii Suja,,,

    Thanks for the Great Help....

    I ill be steady what ever decision i m taking....

    thanks again...


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    Re: Help me friends,,


    meendum love ai accept panna solli romba compel pandraan....

    enakkum avanai pidichchu irukku...avan nallavan thaan....aana enakku payamaa irukku....

    naan pesama vittalum...phone panni azhuvuraan....

    Hello friend

    the situation u r in ,almost most of them would have come across. this is my suggestion from what u have written -

    u should stand with ur family.. they would find a suitable match for u and u would live happy..

    reasons :
    1. ungaloda bhayam - going against family, proposal accept panratha vendama..
    2. avan compel panran, azhuvuraan - seriously that guy has to grow up and act matured.. entha oru vishyathlaiyum, pasangalukku confidence venum.. hope u understand the difference between convincing and compelling.. convincing a matured guy would do...

    u r working away from home and this may be the time u r on ur own.. oru silar paarthu entha stage la salanam varum.. stay strong..

    keep him in ignore mode if he is compelling u ...

    ALL THE BEST TO U

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    Hi friend,

    ungaloda problem romba common ippo. Even yen kooda work panra sila girls kooda idhu pola discuss panni parthirukken.

    Neenga ungala pathiyum, ungaloda feelings pathiyum clear aa Annalise pannikkonga.oru third person aa prachnaikku veliya irundhu think pannunga..

    Avanoda love a accept pannanumna

    1. Neenga solra andha paiyan yendha alavu trust worthy.....u r going to spend the rest of ur life with him.....andha alavukku avan ok vaa...

    2. Avana poruthavarai unga feelings level yenna.....oru velai avana marriage panlannaa....ungalala innoruthara kalyanam pannittu normal a kudumbam nadatha mudiyuma.

    3. Unga parents a convince panna mudiyaati ungaloda mudivu yennava irukkum. Adhai seyal paduthugira urudhi unga kitta irukka....

    4. Appadiye neenga urudhiyaa mudiveduthalum.....andha paiyanoda family,avan yendha alavu unga kooda iruppaanga....

    5. Andha paiyanoda familiyum othukkaadha patchathil , unga rendu peroda mudivu yennanvaa irukkum.

    6. Appadi neenga register marriage panna....marriage life ku thevaiyaana munnerpaadu, thanguvadhu yeppadi, yenna adhai patriya thelivu....

    idhai patriyelaam theliva thitta miduvadhu avasiyam.

    Unga veettai vittu varamudiyadhu.....unga appaavai meera mudiyadhu.....ippadiyellam feel pannuveenganna......ippa vey bye sollidaradhu romba nalladhu friend. Yaroda life um baadhikkadhu.
    piriyuradhunna once for all clear aa pirinjuduradhu nalladhu. Yendha contactum thevai illai. Avaru compel panradhukkaga othukka mudiyadhu. Ungaloda feelingsoda depth, urudhi ...idhai vaithu dhan mudivu seiyanum.

    Oru friend ku solra madhiri akkaraiyoda solli irukken....hurt panni irundha sorry pa....

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    உன் அக்கறை காதலை மட்டுமே சொல்கிறது......

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    Re: Help me friends,,

    ரொம்ப அலசி ஆராய்ந்து சரியா சொல்லி இருக்கே செல்வி... இப்போ நிறைய பெண்கள் எதிர்கொள்ளும் பிரச்சனை தான் இது.. சரியான வழிகாட்டல் இல்லேன்னா தப்பான முடிவுகள் எடுத்து பிறகு வருத்தப் பட வேண்டி வரும்... ரொம்ப நல்லா சொல்லி இருக்கே... டா..

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