expecting for child

[raji narasiman]

am raji,

am raji, i really need your advice in bearing child. my hubby is not ready to have child right now, i have been married 2 years back. my in-laws were expecting for a child, and they are insisting me. i find a break with my in-laws due to this. though i already informed my husband regarding this, still he is not responding to the situation. please help me.

[nlakshmi]

Hey raji,

Its purely your and your husband decision to when to have your child... In laws are like that only... Its just their curiosity.. dont take it personally...Its very delicate matter and sometimes its better not to discuss with parents and inlaws...you guys will have your own reasons when to have the child and those things doesn't need to be discussed even with your parents or his. Just tell them.. Its his decision and he is firm..
you dont take charge of the situation.. just point towards him and escape from it...

[rubesh]

Good advice from nlaksh to raji...

[nlakshmi]

thanks rubesh...

[raji narasiman]

thankq nlakshmi. i think your direction will lead me rightly. once again thankq so much.

[nlakshmi]

Hi raji, Its a friendly suggestion...but remember to go along with circumstances..

thankq nlakshmi. i think your direction will lead me rightly. once again thankq so much.