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    V - Encourage your child

    Child psychology specialists are of the opinion that most parents fail to encourage
    their kids in a positive manner. Appreciate your child’s qualities. If she/he has done
    well in painting class, then stick the painting up on your refrigerator door!


    VI - Keep your promises

    A child will only be encouraged to do better if you keep your promises. For example,
    if you have promised your child a trip to the zoo, make sure that you keep up to it.
    This way the kid will know that her/his parents care.


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    VII - Avoid overexposure

    Although mediums such as television and the Internet are treasure troves of information,
    make sure that you exercise caution. A child’s psychology is easily colored by the many
    images that are floated around quite callously.

    VIII - Involve your child

    A sign of positive parenting is the fact that you involve your child in the day-to-day
    running of the household. Take them to the supermarket for example, and ask them to pick up
    the cereal. These little responsibilities will make your child feel wanted

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    IX - Give them space

    Even a child needs her/his space. Do not become a hyperactive parent monitoring every
    aspect of their life. Let them take certain decisions. However, this in no way means that
    you leave everything to them. Guide them always.

    X - Let a kid, be a kid

    Finally, your child is after all a kid. Let them be one. Let them make their mistakes and
    learn from them. Do not expect them to be adults who are aware of all the consequences of
    their actions.


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    Re: SHaring and CAring........

    nice rifan,

    must to know facts for all the parents. continue with it..

    table manners for kids also continue it. just the photos i have seen. if it is with some description it will be better i think so

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    Hi lakish most wellcome. i' try to do so.....
    Quote Originally Posted by lakish View Post
    nice rifan,must to know facts for all the parents. continue with it..table manners for kids also continue it. just the photos i have seen. if it is with some description it will be better i think so
    Keep reading and Make use of it......


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    Great Ways to Make Your Wife Happy




    Marriage works only when both husband and wife are happy in the relationship. And if you
    have landed on this page, then you must be a husband who wants to keep his wife happy and
    make his marriage a success. Well, we are here to help you!

    I - Appreciate your wife in public

    Whether it is for a party she recently organized or her promotion at office, bring it up
    when you are with family, friends and relatives and boast about your wife. This will
    surely make your wife happy, and love you more!

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    II - Use a nickname

    Rather than calling your wife by her name, or the usual “Sweetheart” or ”Darling”, invent
    a cute name just for her and call her by that. Invent a name that will go with her
    character and mean something. And of course, keep changing the name every now and then.
    Whether you want to address her by this nickname in public also, is totally your choice!

    III - Give priority to her needs

    Not always, but as and when you can, make sure you give priority to your wife’s needs,
    demands and wishes. Some of her demands may be silly, while others unreasonable. Just work
    through them and identify the ones that you can get done for her. No matter how difficult
    it is for you, don’t ignore the ones that are important to her.

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    IV - Notice the details

    Whether it is a new hairdo or her new sandals, make sure you pay attention to the tiniest
    of details about her. Whenever there is a change in her, bring it up and talk about it.
    Whether it is negative or positive, make sure you put across the comment in the best
    possible way which will make your wife happy. Even if you don’t like her new hairdo,
    say “Oh! You have got a new hairdo. You look great! But you know what? Your previous
    hairdo highlighted your eyes and made them gleam.”

    V - Woo her

    Most husbands get too busy playing the role of the husband, consequently forgetting to be
    the boyfriend. The romance, spice and lust have to be brought in! Pat her butt, give her a
    hug from behind when she doesn’t expect it and take her out on a surprise date to the most
    fancy restaurant in town! Please her in bed by doing the things she likes and learning new
    & sexy moves. These ought to make your wife happy.

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    Tips On Improving Relationship With Your Teenage Daughter




    The dress she wears, the kind of music she listens to, the guy she hangs out with, and
    many more things that your teenage daughter does. Do all of these things give you a
    nightmare? Well, you are one of those moms who still see their daughters as little children
    and not friends. The life of a teenage girl is hard and very unique. A lot of issues that
    creep up everyday make her life challenging. At this point, instead of being friendly to
    your daughter, constantly scolding her or disapproving of her ways and means will just ruin
    her precious teenage years. It is important to understand her as a friend and develop that
    friendly relationship which enhances your mother-daughter relationship.


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    I - Empathize with her

    Put yourself in her shoes. You were a teen once. You had your own issues and there is
    no doubt you were equally revolting by nature during your teen years. With this in mind,
    the relationship between you and daughter will head for a better one.

    II - Lend a ear

    Listen to what she has to say with full attention and do respond carefully, with the right
    words. Your daughter will be looking up to you for the answers. Set a good example for her
    to follow and learn. Communication is very important here. Observe and learn her style of
    communication, this will help communicate and relate better.

    III - Gift her freedom and space

    Give her the freedom and space to experience. Don’t keep her in the closet. She needs the
    outside world and most importantly her friends. Show her that you respect her interests
    and friends. Treat her friends with the same respect and friendly approach.

    V - Allow her to share

    As a woman, you should be able to relate to her better. There are certain things that are
    best shared only with you. Make the best of this to ensure that she always seeks you when
    she needs help.

    Teenagers see themselves as adults and not children. So respect their ideas and interests.
    A teenage daughter has a lot of questions and needs you more than ever now.
    So make sure as her mom, you are always around.

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