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    How to Make Him Never Want to Leave You?




    Every woman wants to keep her man, or men in some cases, by her side always and forever.
    But how many actually succeed? Here are a few tips to make him never want to leave you.
    May you keep him by your side for all of eternity.


    I - Do not cater to his attitude


    This is the thing – the more attention you will pay to a guy, the more you will inflate
    his ego. And once you commit this sin, there is no turning back. So now that you have your
    guy, never let him throw his attitude around, and he will be putty.


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    II - Make him jealous

    He is possessive of course, but what can you do to make sure that he always remains this
    way? Make him jealous, like really jealous. But do not overdo it. After all, if everyone
    else wants you, he will want you more. Simple!

    III - Dress soberly most of the time

    Try to portray that you are very simple at heart, but you can be a ‘hot chick’ when the
    situation calls for it. This is not only convenient for you, but is also convenient for him. How many times should the poor guy get in a fight because you are dressed uber-provocatively?

    IV - Text him a ‘hey’ in the middle of the night

    This way, not only are you keeping it light and fun, but you are also letting him know that
    he is on your mind all the time. At least you want him to think this way.

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    II - Make him jealous

    He is possessive of course, but what can you do to make sure that he always remains this
    way? Make him jealous, like really jealous. But do not overdo it. After all, if everyone
    else wants you, he will want you more. Simple!

    III - Dress soberly most of the time

    Try to portray that you are very simple at heart, but you can be a ‘hot chick’ when the
    situation calls for it. This is not only convenient for you, but is also convenient for him. How many times should the poor guy get in a fight because you are dressed uber-provocatively?

    IV - Text him a ‘hey’ in the middle of the night

    This way, not only are you keeping it light and fun, but you are also letting him know that
    he is on your mind all the time. At least you want him to think this way.

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    V - Always agree to whatever his mom says or does

    Even if you actually don’t agree, there’s no harm in pretending, right? Big for scoring
    brownie points! Just act like you are in agreement with his mom when you can, and it is not
    majorly against whatever you think, and he will be by your side! Of course, this goes
    only if he does not hate his mom, which is very rare!

    VI - Smell good

    Never ever should you stink, or not smell amazing to your man. Your looks apart, this is
    one thing that really gets a man’s attention. And the best part is, this is completely
    under your control. So go shop for some nice perfume and put it on!

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    Tips To Never Compromise On Your Self-Respect In A Relationship



    It is imperative to be in a relationship that does not suffocate you or make you feel small.
    No matter how trivial it seems, being able to be yourself with your partner has a
    significant impact on the way you live. Making small changes to your attitude and character
    are steps to building a good relationship, but you must not lose your self-respect and
    individuality in the process.

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    Here are some tips on how to avoid compromising on your self-respect in a relationship.

    I - Stand by your principles

    Despite the fact that compromises are healthy, there are several instances where you need
    to stand firm on your decisions. You may have some principles that you hold close to your
    heart. No matter how much your partner opposes them, it is important that you stick to them.

    II - Define the limit

    If your partner resorts to abusing you in front of his/your friends and family, you should
    not tolerate it. Do not shout back immediately, but discuss with your partner in privacy as
    to why such a behavior in public in unacceptable. Make him understand that being shouted at
    in front of others is demeaning for you and you will not tolerate it any further.

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    III - Make him realize the importance of your views

    If your partner goes about making decisions without consulting you, then you definitely
    need to put a stop to it. Make your partner understand that being in a relationship means
    giving importance and respect to each other’s opinions and views.


    IV - Don’t be a pushover

    It is okay to do things according to your partner’s wish from time to time, but if you are
    being constantly told what to wear or what to eat, then you may need to have a talk with
    your partner regarding this. You must be able to live according to your choices,
    preferences and likes.

    V - Never justify yourself or your actions

    If your partner does not trust you and constantly puts you in the spotlight by asking
    questions, then it is certainly not healthy. Trust is a very important aspect of every
    relationship. Having to explain yourself or having to justify your actions every time will
    certainly make you unhappy and result in your self-respect going down the trash. Do not let
    this happen in your relationship. Explain to your partner why it is important for him to
    trust you.

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    Ideas to Keep Love Alive Forever




    Are you in love? Have you ever been in love? Don’t you feel like making it last forever?
    All of us do! Trying to keep the spark alive is one of the most important things for a
    lasting relationship. No one wants to be with a boring person in an even boring relation.
    Every human seeks happiness and love at the end of the day.

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    Here are a few tips to keep that fire of love burning forever.

    I - Communicate

    This is the most important aspect of any relationship. You have to talk to each other
    about your relationship. Your problems, feelings, emotions, opinions etc. have to be known
    to him. Talk about how you can improve your relationship. Unless you both are telepathic or
    something, you have to talk. So do it and do it well.

    II - Give time and space

    No one likes to be trespassed or trampled upon. So don’t be stupid and stick to him/her
    like a thirsty leech. Give him enough space to have a life of his own. If he wants to relax
    and take a break, give him the time. You may think that this will spoil your relation but
    it will not. It gives you and your better half the time and peace of mind to think about
    other important things including your relationship.

    III - Go for adventures

    Nothing helps you both bond like a vacation, specially an adventurous one. Go skiing,
    trekking, scuba diving or bungee jumping. The adrenaline rush coupled with being with your
    loved one will ensure that the chemistry between you both lasts forever. Make sure you take
    good care of each other on your vacation. You don’t want to feel or make him feel that
    you’re vacationing alone, do you?

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    IV - Take up hobbies

    Find a hobby or an interest that you both share and pursue it together. It may be taking up
    dance lessons traveling or cooking. Whatever it might be, set aside some time for it and do
    it together. This will not only help you bond, but also help you understand each other
    better.

    V - Spend time together

    Don’t always be stuck up with work or whatever you’re busy with. Give sometime to your
    love as well. Catch a late night movie or a long walk with him. Try to keep the chemistry
    bubbling by doing something fun together. If you feel the time is right, then move in
    together. It might be a difficult decision to make but will be worth it at the end.

    VI - Show off

    Yes, you heard that right. Show off your love for him. Do something special for him.
    Throw a party on his birthday; plan a surprise vacation or a romantic dinner. This will
    ensure that he feels loved and special, which by the way is an amazing feeling. It will
    also make him reciprocate your gestures and in turn help keep the spark alive.

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