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    Re: SHaring and CAring........

    Quote Originally Posted by rifan View Post
    Here are a few tips to keep that fire of love burning forever.

    I - Communicate

    This is the most important aspect of any relationship. You have to talk to each other
    about your relationship. Your problems, feelings, emotions, opinions etc. have to be known
    to him. Talk about how you can improve your relationship. Unless you both are telepathic or
    something, you have to talk. So do it and do it well.

    II - Give time and space

    No one likes to be trespassed or trampled upon. So dont be stupid and stick to him/her
    like a thirsty leech. Give him enough space to have a life of his own. If he wants to relax
    and take a break, give him the time. You may think that this will spoil your relation but
    it will not. It gives you and your better half the time and peace of mind to think about
    other important things including your relationship.
    thank u so much for this tips kuttyma


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    Most wellcome mahi. Make use of it. Y dnt you try....??
    Quote Originally Posted by mahis View Post
    thank u so much for this tips kuttyma
    Appuram ekku thappaanaa enna thitta koodaathu chellam....


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    Re: SHaring and CAring........

    Very nice & informative thread da Table manners for children is indeed very important.. and tips on relationships are too good dear

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    Thanks deeps
    Quote Originally Posted by deepa bala View Post
    Very nice & informative thread da Table manners for children is indeed very important.. and tips on relationships are too good dear
    Start young. Keep reminding them. The kids will remember the importants of manners when they become adults.

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    Ways You Unknowingly Hurt Your Boyfriend



    It is not that you don’t love him. It’s not even that you are some kind of a sadist who
    gets turned on when you see him suffer. It is just that your daily life is so stressful
    that you often tend to neglect your guy’s feelings.

    Here are 7 ways how you knowingly or unknowingly hurt your boyfriend in the bargain.

    --Refusing to acknowledge him


    In a desperate attempt to be secretive about your relationship, you often refuse to
    acknowledge your boyfriend’s presence when amidst friends. This is an outright insult of
    your guy’s feelings. It’s very natural of him to expect from you to openly proclaim your
    love for him. Disregarding him and his feelings in front of others will make him think
    that you are ashamed of him and you don’t love him.

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    --Behaving as if he does not exist

    When relationships begin, partners often make every attempt to do sweet things for each
    other. However, as time passes, they tend to take each other for granted. Your relationship
    is no exception to this. You too end up paying least attention to your boyfriend’s say at
    times. Even if it isn’t a regular occurrence, it may make your boyfriend assume that you
    don’t care for him. From your reactions, he may also conclude that his presence or absence
    means nothing to you.

    --Choosing your friends over him

    When you prefer your friends over your boyfriend, you tend to give him more and more
    chances to assume that he is unimportant to you. That does not mean, you cut ties with your
    friends but try to strike a balance. If you still think, your friends come before your
    boyfriend, you might as well break up with him. You will do him a big favor.

    --Comparing him to other boys

    You don’t notice this tendency of yours, but many a times, you do compare your guy with
    other boys. Don’t ever do that! Respect him for what he is. If you think, he is lacking at
    something, you do have the authority to advise him. But you certainly don’t have the right
    to compare him with anybody else, no matter what. This serves as a severe blow to a guy’s
    self-respect.

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    --Shouting at him in front of friends

    Be it in front of your friends or someone else, you are not supposed to yell at your
    boyfriend. If you really love and respect him, you must always raise any issue, which has
    been pricking you, only when you guys are all alone. Even if you are really mad at him,
    control your temper. He won’t mind it if you yell at him when it is just the two of you.
    However, when you do it in front of friends, you’ll be belittling him and hurting him big
    time.


    --Not taking an extra effort to impress his folks

    If he is serious about you, he will surely want his parents to love you. Even a tiny little
    attempt by you to impress them will be hugely appreciated. However, if you are just not
    bothered about whether his parents like you or not, he will be under the impression that
    you are not serious about him.

    --Criticizing him and his dreams

    When you are in a relationship, your guy will always want you to respect him and believe in
    him. If you constantly criticize him and show him that you don’t think that his dreams
    can be fulfilled, it will break his heart. You are his sweetheart, so he’ll always look up
    to you for motivation. Hence, you must always believe in your boyfriend’s ambitions and
    motivate him to achieve them. It will bring him closer to you.

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    --Making him feel horrible if it’s his fault

    If it is their boyfriends’ fault, girls often make them to literally beg for forgiveness.
    Now this is really mean. So what if he committed a mistake? Isn’t it human to commit a
    mistake? If you know that he is really sorry for his doing, you must forgive him and forget
    that incident. If you treat him like a criminal, you seriously don’t have a heart!

    --Beating around the bush

    In a relationship, it is important to be as straightforward as possible. Many a times, you
    don’t speak directly about your feelings to your boyfriend, and expect him to understand
    your feelings on his own. For heaven’s sake, he’s not some kind of a supernatural being to
    read your mind. Your silence and his inability to decode your mind will only leave him
    frustrated.

    --Dumping your boyfriend disrespectfully

    Girls tend to think that once it is over, they can treat their boyfriends however they wish.
    Whatever happened to ethics? You absolutely have no right whatsoever to treat your
    boyfriend like a garbage bag while dumping him. Respect the time that the two of you have
    spent together and peacefully part ways with him.

    Once you are done reading this, make a note of all the things that you tend to do.
    Make a serious attempt to avoid these mistakes,
    as they can spoil a beautiful relationship.

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    Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You





    Have you been too worried about your boyfriend’s behavior lately? Is he behaving in a
    weird manner that has you doubting his activities? Well, it’s never too late to find
    out what the truth actually is. Yeah, he may be going through a bad phase or something
    similar and if you talk to him, he’ll tell you. But if not, the stars are trying to tell
    you something. Try to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you or not.

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    These are some signs that should make you suspicious about your boyfriend and find out if
    he is cheating or not

    1. Cancels your plans

    You plan to meet this evening at 6 and he calls you up at 4 and says that he has to cancel
    the date. He doesn’t give you any specific reason for it. You think that’s okay.
    But if this happens quite a lot, then you need to be alert. This behavior is not usual
    for him to cancel going out with you every now and then.

    2. Remains unavailable often

    You are trying to reach his cell phone, but you get no response. His cell is ringing on
    and on. You then leave 4-5 messages for him saying, ‘Call me ASAP’. But all these go
    in vain. Well girls, that’s surely a significant sign to tell you that he’s up to something that’s not so good. If his friends and family also don’t know where he is, then it’s time to wake up girls.

    3. Gets ‘sick’ too many times in a month

    Your boyfriend was quite the macho type until recently. Even if not particularly macho,
    he was at least healthy enough to not fall sick every now and then. But if he calls in
    sick and cancels your plans quite often in a month, then there is something fishy going on.

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