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    4. Acts distant

    If your boyfriend has recently started acting quite distant to you, it may be because he is
    too busy with someone else. He always used to call you, talk for long hours and meet you
    quite often. But now all that has steadily decreased. He doesn’t even seem to listen to
    you, when you say something. He acts dreamy as if he’s in another world. This might be
    because he is in another world thinking about someone else.

    5. Unexpected emergencies crop up

    He might be canceling too many plans due to whatever reasons he tells you. Sometimes
    it may be that his mother has fallen ill, his boss told him to work overtime or his
    friend has been involved in an accident and such things. These can be termed as normal,
    but if these ‘emergencies’ crop up too many times, then warning bells are ringing for you.

    6. Doesn’t appear much interested

    If he’s no longer interested in your talks, your appearance, your activities and other
    things that are related to you, chances are that he is too busy in thinking about
    someone else.


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    7. Spends less time

    This is a sure way of knowing that your boyfriend is spending his time somewhere else.
    If you both were meeting everyday or at least every alternate day and now that has
    changed to meeting once or twice a week, then it’s time to find out where your boyfriend is
    rest of the time. This may point out to the fact that he may be cheating on you.

    8. Turns insensitive towards you

    If you’re sick and he doesn’t bother to call you or even see you once, there’s something
    cooking girls. Other things that may suggest that he’s cheating is that he doesn’t worry
    about your problems anymore like if you scored low in some test, your mother just
    shouted at you and so on. This means he may not be interested in you anymore.

    9. Gets unusually caring

    This is reverse psychology, girls. If he is cheating on you, he might feel guilty about it
    . Yes, weird though this seems, but guys do tend to feel this. So to ‘compensate’ the fact
    that he is cheating on you, he becomes excessively caring at times. It’s time to think now
    girls, especially when he’s not the type to care for you in that way.

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    10. Changes the way he looks

    He might do this if he wants to change his appearance for someone else. You know the way he
    dresses, simple T-shirts and jeans. But if he suddenly changes his style and starts
    wearing shirts, some funky tees and also changes his hairstyle, there are chances that
    he might be cheating on you.

    11. Is cautious in public

    He might be looking around more often than he looks at you. He goes to drastic measures
    to see that you both don’t go to very crowded places and if you do, he’s very nervous and
    keeps looking behind and all over the place. Well, these are sure signs that he’s checking
    out whether his other girl is around and might spot him with you.

    12. Excuses himself when his phone rings

    You know he will tell you it’s a business related call. But you know better, when these
    business calls turn into the other girl’s calls. You need to ask yourself whether he always
    went to another room when he got a business call. More importantly, did he ever get
    business calls earlier?

    Well girls, these are signs that may help you to know whether your boyfriend is cheating
    on you or not. Be cautious and don’t jump to conclusions before you have significant proof.

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    Re: SHaring and CAring........

    Quote Originally Posted by rifan View Post
    V - Encourage your child

    Child psychology specialists are of the opinion that most parents fail to encourage
    their kids in a positive manner. Appreciate your child’s qualities. If she/he has done
    well in painting class, then stick the painting up on your refrigerator door!


    VI - Keep your promises

    A child will only be encouraged to do better if you keep your promises. For example,
    if you have promised your child a trip to the zoo, make sure that you keep up to it.
    This way the kid will know that her/his parents care.
    Thanks for sharing this particular tips Nathasa. I agree with these points.

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    Hi Sumika....
    Quote Originally Posted by sumathisrini View Post
    Thanks for sharing this particular tips Nathasa. I agree with these points.
    Exactly sumika. Its truly important. We should keep our promisses. Manners are so important!

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    Reasons Why Men Cheat




    Where there is a relationship between a man and a woman, there might be a slight chance
    that the man is cheating. However, it is important to understand that such issues are not
    universal and being paranoid is futile. But when you recognize a red flag, be careful and
    wary about his movements. There are many reasons why men cheat.

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    Compiled below is a list of such common reasons or excuses cited by men who cheat.

    I - He feels his partner is no longer attractive and finds someone else satisfying his
    physical and psychological needs.

    II - He hates arguments and the partner he stays with gives him plenty opportunities to
    argue. He finds another lady who does not necessarily have to put up with his temper
    tantrums and hence there is no room for argument.

    III - Men also cheat when marriage becomes a warlock. If men stay in a relationship only
    for the sake of children or society, their excuse is to seek solace in other women for
    platonic or sexual relations.

    IV - When the man feels that other women desire him as much as they did a long time ago;
    he becomes thrilled and excited to explore his options. In this way, his ego is boosted,
    which may not be happening with his partner.

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    V - Most men are psychologically made in such a way that they get drawn towards beautiful
    women. Blame it on their hormones, but it is a great excuse for them to cheat.

    VI - Men cheat when romance in a committed relationship becomes chilled or cold. This is a
    very common scenario that routine responsibilities take over romance over a period of time.
    When romance steps out, the man seeks pleasure elsewhere.

    VII - Extramarital affairs have become so commonplace today. All the more reason for men to
    cheat. Women are easily available to offer and seek pleasure from a man.

    VIII - Women are increasingly becoming career oriented. The time they spend with their
    partner is therefore reducing. Men begin to stray; it is just that they have another excuse
    to state.


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    IX - Another popular excuse men state for cheating is that their partner has changed
    drastically with time. She is no longer the person she used to be. They never think about
    the change that has come over them.

    X -When women gain weight or become fat due to hormonal changes, lack of exercise or
    pregnancy, men find a reason to complain and hence cheat. On the other hand, they may look
    like a lump of clay but still expect perfection from their partners.

    XI - A nagging wife drives the man quicker into the arms of another lady.

    XII - Men find it easier to work out their chemistry with another woman rather than the
    one they have been with most of their life.


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    XIII - Some men do it just for the thrill of having an extramarital affair.

    XIV - There are too many distractions and mediums for them to find love. Internet is a great
    alternative to seek pleasure.

    XV - Women are more forgiving of men’s infidelities. They give them the opportunity to
    explore further since no stern action is taken.

    Reasons are abundant for men to cheat. Finding excuses is not a complex task and a smart
    man can do it in a way that he thinks is appropriate.


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