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my hubby is not giving money for my personal expenses. how to talk him about it


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    my hubby is not giving money for my personal expenses. how to talk him about it

    dear ladies, this is preethi married before 5 months. i was working before my marriage, i left my job after my engagement. now i am house wife.my husband is not giving money for my personal expenditures. he gave his full salary to my mil, and asked me to get amount from her for my personal use. i am usually shy type.When ever i need money i have to ask her only. i am feeling very bad about this habit. how can i speak about this to my hubby? actually i dont have any issues with my mil. i like her and respecting her. but i dont like this habit only. i am very much worried. if he misunderstands me, then our life will not be fine. how can i talk about this to him. please help me.

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    Re: my hubby is not giving money for my personal expenses. how to talk him about it

    preethi eppothum namakku enna venum apdingarathai namma avanga kitta sollanum.sonnalthan avangaluku therium. ithula ethuku ego paarkiringa.kelunga kandippa tharuvaar.so u don't woory.feel happy enjoy married life.

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    Re: my hubby is not giving money for my personal expenses. how to talk him about it

    preethi,

    ungala maathiri pirachchanai niraiya idaththil irukku...aathanaa neenga kadipidikka

    vendiyathu muthalil "porumai"...marrage aagi 5 months thaane aaguthu... neenga

    house wife...athanaala ungalukku athigappadiyaana panath thevaigal irukkaathu...

    so, neenga konjam vittu koduththup pongal...ungaludaiya thevaiyai neenga porumaiya

    avarukku yeduththu sollanunga...kanavan manaivikkul veru yaarum vanthu pesum

    badiya nadanthukkaatheenga...& chinna vishayangalai perithu paduththaatheergal...

    ungaludaiya hubby santhoshap padumbadiya nadanthukkollungal....ippadi neenga

    tri seithu paarunga...appuram unga hubby unakku enna vendum preethi'nu

    kaetpaar paarungal.....life'i enjoy pannungapa....

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    Re: my hubby is not giving money for my personal expenses. how to talk him about it

    do not talk about the full salary now... that will definitely give a very bad impression... just tell your husband very casually that you are in need of some things and desperately you need to buy those.... make him to understand that you need money to buy those things....

    either he will give you the money or he will tell you to get it from your MIL... exactly at that time you tell him very softly that you are feeling uncomfortable to ask money from your MIL .


    please do not use any harsh words dear friend...and take care while talking about your expenditure....your husband and MIL should not feel that you are spending unnecessarily.


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