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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    engagement sareeena colournu idea dear...

    thn advance wishes for the engagement dear...annan epa oorukku varanga??
    Quote Originally Posted by NivetaMohan View Post
    yes pa, preparation is almost completed da..only the things to purchase is engagement sareee......that we going to purchase tm.....

    nothing else....

    their what about u.....i mean marg preparations



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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Thank you daaaaaaa asii ma..

    mm color vanthu blue nu sollirkanga....naliku poi paartha thaan theriyum
    daa

    then avanga direct ah marg ku thaan varuvaanga dearrrrrrrrrrrrr...

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    Anbana Natpai nesikiren......

    Nesikum naptai kadhalikiren..!

    Natpu un meethu....

    kadhal un natpu meethu...!





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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    oh nice dear...enjoy....apa mrg annaikuthan annan kannuke therivaara super po athu varaikum wait pannu...
    Quote Originally Posted by NivetaMohan View Post
    Thank you daaaaaaa asii ma..

    mm color vanthu blue nu sollirkanga....naliku poi paartha thaan theriyum
    daa

    then avanga direct ah marg ku thaan varuvaanga dearrrrrrrrrrrrr...


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by devsakthi View Post
    hi friends. i am engaged and getting married on apr 21st. It is fully arranged marriage. i am so nervous about my new family. i dont know how to tackle the situation and everyone in the family. pls tel me how to behave with everyone in the family. what are all the things i should do to maintain good relationship with everyone. what are the things should be avoided? pls help me dears. Please tel me do and dont's to lead a peaceful life
    congrats mam.........

    advance wishes for ur married life.............

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by fahima View Post
    hacho nivi ennai paarthu ippadi bayapaduriye...!!!

    ennoda chinna advice husband kitta ego paarkka vena...always think .he is ur betterhalf not a third r unknown person...ithu first paadam pa..poga poga solren sarya....
    unna ennavoooooooooo nu ninaichen da.......

    but nalla tip than solra.........

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by fahima View Post
    ys nivi....
    athan naan first sonen avunga nammala paathinu think panniyachina..nee sonna maathiri ellame easy than.
    at the same time in- laws te namakku pidikatha character irunthuchina..dont take tis to ur hubby.antha complain panra vishyam kandipa hubbykulam pidikaathu..this is the advice i got frm my dad.
    super advice dear............

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    hi deva mam

    check this link also........
    Are you a Good Daughter-in-law - அத்தை...........நீங்களே சொல்லுங்கள் ...........நான்

    here our penmai members explained about how they overcomed this situation.......

    u can get tips from their experience..........

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Hi Deiva and Nivi,

    Congrats pa.. Advance wishes for a happy married life..

    To make a marriage a successful one, the first and foremost quality you need is lots and lots of patience. After all, its not fairy tale and we are ordinary human beings with positive and negative characters. It takes time to understand each other and evolve gradually. Nothing is 100 percent perfect in this world. So try to accept your spouse and relatives as they are without losing too much of your originality. Don't expect them to change immediately. As years pass by, you and your spouse will automatically know the good and bad of each other and intimacy will develop. There may be hiccups initially, but don't take it seriously. Keep going. I know its more easy to say than to practice, but still your life lies in your hands.


    People say that it takes at least five years for a marriage to stabilize and that's true.

    A mix of patience, understanding, unconditional love, positive thoughts, forgiving mistakes and being genuine will greatly help you towards a happier life and healthier relationship.

    Don't be scared and enjoy each and every day of life. Take life as it comes and be productive.

    Be cheerful girls

    Happaaa...periya essay ezhuthi mudichitten

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by NivetaMohan View Post
    Haiiiiiiiiiiiiii Deva,

    This Nivetamohan,....from


    naane intha thread start pannallaamnu irunthean happada naakau commpany ku friend kidachachu...


    irunga namma seniors ta ellam ketu well -versed agikalaammmmmmm

    friends ennakum aapidiye serthu guide pannunga paaa...

    Approm Nivi, Bala unga mama thaane...Neenga en bayappaduringa?

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by sujibenzic View Post
    Hi Deiva and Nivi,

    Congrats pa.. Advance wishes for a happy married life..

    To make a marriage a successful one, the first and foremost quality you need is lots and lots of patience. After all, its not fairy tale and we are ordinary human beings with positive and negative characters. It takes time to understand each other and evolve gradually. Nothing is 100 percent perfect in this world. So try to accept your spouse and relatives as they are without losing too much of your originality. Don't expect them to change immediately. As years pass by, you and your spouse will automatically know the good and bad of each other and intimacy will develop. There may be hiccups initially, but don't take it seriously. Keep going. I know its more easy to say than to practice, but still your life lies in your hands.


    People say that it takes at least five years for a marriage to stabilize and that's true.

    A mix of patience, understanding, unconditional love, positive thoughts, forgiving mistakes and being genuine will greatly help you towards a happier life and healthier relationship.

    Don't be scared and enjoy each and every day of life. Take life as it comes and be productive.

    Be cheerful girls

    Happaaa...periya essay ezhuthi mudichitten
    hmmmmmm nalla tips than sis.........

    thanks for sharing........

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