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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    hi suji... your points are very very nice. accepting them as what they are. it is a good thing. so much of patience is needed.

    unconditional love, mutual understanding, forgiving mistakes all you said are very much needed for happy married life.


    Quote Originally Posted by sujibenzic View Post
    Hi Deiva and Nivi,

    Congrats pa.. Advance wishes for a happy married life..

    To make a marriage a successful one, the first and foremost quality you need is lots and lots of patience. After all, its not fairy tale and we are ordinary human beings with positive and negative characters. It takes time to understand each other and evolve gradually. Nothing is 100 percent perfect in this world. So try to accept your spouse and relatives as they are without losing too much of your originality. Don't expect them to change immediately. As years pass by, you and your spouse will automatically know the good and bad of each other and intimacy will develop. There may be hiccups initially, but don't take it seriously. Keep going. I know its more easy to say than to practice, but still your life lies in your hands.


    People say that it takes at least five years for a marriage to stabilize and that's true.

    A mix of patience, understanding, unconditional love, positive thoughts, forgiving mistakes and being genuine will greatly help you towards a happier life and healthier relationship.

    Don't be scared and enjoy each and every day of life. Take life as it comes and be productive.

    Be cheerful girls

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by devsakthi View Post
    hi suji mam... thanks for the wishes. your tips are excellent. you have told very useful points for new brides. thank you so much



    Thanks for extending your helping hand for us.
    Thank you Deva....Wishing you all the best and may all your dreams come true in future.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by sujibenzic View Post
    Thank you Deva....Wishing you all the best and may all your dreams come true in future.....
    Thank you dear.

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Hi Devasakthi,

    First of all let me congratulate you for your marriage.I may not be very senior or authoritatitive enough to give tips.But certainly from the experiences one can learn to mould him/her life nicely.

    1.Always our individuality should be maintained and should be loved.

    2.There may rights and wrongs in anyone's work.The perception varies.So try not to be judgemental but sensible enough to understand the situation.

    3.I know it is very difficult to be diplomatic in a family but sometimes it will help you save from unneccessary problems.

    4.Let our heart not be made of glass which is easily broken.But be of elastic so that elasiticity decided how far one can get elongated.

    5.Let us not take advantage of anybody and never let others take advantage of us at any cost.If we are right and follow the humane practices certainly we are in the good books of the persons in the family.

    6.Fear not to address your health or any problems related to the ones with whom you can invest confidence in the family.the one may be your husband or in laws or co sisters.

    7.Always be positive and enable everyone to feel positive about the new way of life whic you are going to live.Who knows you may be the trend setter.

    8.Last but not the least never ever forget parents and our sisters or brothers who have taken us to this level.

    9.Always try to ensure a positive relationship with them by talking and making them feel that you are there for them.


    Thanking you for patiently reading this.


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    nice,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nandini83 View Post
    Hi Devasakthi,

    First of all let me congratulate you for your marriage.I may not be very senior or authoritatitive enough to give tips.But certainly from the experiences one can learn to mould him/her life nicely.

    1.Always our individuality should be maintained and should be loved.

    2.There may rights and wrongs in anyone's work.The perception varies.So try not to be judgemental but sensible enough to understand the situation.

    3.I know it is very difficult to be diplomatic in a family but sometimes it will help you save from unneccessary problems.

    4.Let our heart not be made of glass which is easily broken.But be of elastic so that elasiticity decided how far one can get elongated.

    5.Let us not take advantage of anybody and never let others take advantage of us at any cost.If we are right and follow the humane practices certainly we are in the good books of the persons in the family.

    6.Fear not to address your health or any problems related to the ones with whom you can invest confidence in the family.the one may be your husband or in laws or co sisters.

    7.Always be positive and enable everyone to feel positive about the new way of life whic you are going to live.Who knows you may be the trend setter.

    8.Last but not the least never ever forget parents and our sisters or brothers who have taken us to this level.

    9.Always try to ensure a positive relationship with them by talking and making them feel that you are there for them.


    Thanking you for patiently reading this.

    Well said & nice tips Nandhini, thanks for sharing your views.



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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Thank you everyone for liking my comments.

    Nandini


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nandini83 View Post
    Hi Devasakthi,

    First of all let me congratulate you for your marriage.I may not be very senior or authoritatitive enough to give tips.But certainly from the experiences one can learn to mould him/her life nicely.

    1.Always our individuality should be maintained and should be loved.

    2.There may rights and wrongs in anyone's work.The perception varies.So try not to be judgemental but sensible enough to understand the situation.

    3.I know it is very difficult to be diplomatic in a family but sometimes it will help you save from unneccessary problems.

    4.Let our heart not be made of glass which is easily broken.But be of elastic so that elasiticity decided how far one can get elongated.

    5.Let us not take advantage of anybody and never let others take advantage of us at any cost.If we are right and follow the humane practices certainly we are in the good books of the persons in the family.

    6.Fear not to address your health or any problems related to the ones with whom you can invest confidence in the family.the one may be your husband or in laws or co sisters.

    7.Always be positive and enable everyone to feel positive about the new way of life whic you are going to live.Who knows you may be the trend setter.

    8.Last but not the least never ever forget parents and our sisters or brothers who have taken us to this level.

    9.Always try to ensure a positive relationship with them by talking and making them feel that you are there for them.


    Thanking you for patiently reading this.
    nice tips mam........

    thanks for sharing with us..........

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    congrats friend
    our elders has taught us simple method to friend any unknown person, wedded life also in the same way
    clear communication in body langauge, verbal
    respect others views
    be polite
    respect elders
    be with smile
    clarify doubts then and there
    appoach any with open mind
    be flexible
    appreciate good things , then and there
    do not make small mistakes of others as big one and forget, forgive them

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