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How to adjust with New Family?


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    good tips friends.


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Well said everyone


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    well said!!!!!


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Tips to adjust with new family after marriage:

    • Don't panic
    • Think of new home as your own
    • Confide in with mother-in-law
    • Pamper your father-in-law
    • Friends with sister/brother-in-law
    • Don't get into the competition mode with the female-in-laws at all
    • Avoid getting too familiar too fast
    • Try not to talk too much or too excessively
    • Yes, it is hard to not visit your parents frequently in the early days of the marriage but do try to keep your maika-visits limited at this time
    • You will gain more respect over time by allowing time to take its course while dealing with a lot of issues
    • It might seems like the only thing to do at times but try not to tell on your in-laws to your husband
    • Try not to be too quick to judge your new family


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    I would say a man who knows to treat the wife and mother in the same manner with respect will succeed in life. A wife should understand that her husband needs his mother equally as he needs her. A mother should know that her son is now someone else's husband and give that respect. Life succeeds when you know to understand.

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Cool dears Anbu sagalathayum sagikum . So be cool always husband unga better half so don't worry share your thoughts with them. Avanga appa amma Kita nalla paysunga chinna chinna surprise kudunga like birthday theringi vachu wish pannaradhu ,avangaluku pidichadha therinji vachi sollaradhu adhu madhiri, and one more thing love all....

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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    90 percent of the time issues are caused by problems outside the family. The husband or wife might not be directly the cause. Beware of such situations. From a TV drama to a neighbor gossip you need to know what to take and what to not We are not born with bad thoughts. The outside environment/ society shapes the perception.
    It is wrong to expect the new wife / husband only to adjust if the family is not adjusting


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    Giving in doesn't mean you are weak or losing. At the same time it should not always be the same person giving in. Reach a balance


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    Re: How to adjust with New Family?

    How ever long it takes. Everyone is different, every situation is different.

    “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.”



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