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    Re: How to run a smooth family

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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    Hi everyone,
    I am new to this site. I am very happy to have joined this site...

    This thread provides almost all details to avoid issues after marriage. But the sad thing is i am too late to have seen this info. I have commited all the mistakes that i should not have done. As a result having a tough time to sustain...

    Can someone also give tips on how to rectify the mistakes

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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    Quote Originally Posted by amnilakshmi View Post
    Hi everyone,
    I am new to this site. I am very happy to have joined this site...

    This thread provides almost all details to avoid issues after marriage. But the sad thing is i am too late to have seen this info. I have commited all the mistakes that i should not have done. As a result having a tough time to sustain...

    Can someone also give tips on how to rectify the mistakes




    Welcome to Penmai.....Lakshmi.

    Very sorry to know that you have made mistakes in your married life. At the same time, feel very happy, that you accept that it is your mistake.

    Once when you accept your mistakes, it is the
    first step for your success. So, please do not worry.

    Whatever be your mistake, PLEASE DO NOT HAVE THE EGO, TO REPENT FOR IT.

    Meet your husband alone in his house (it is actually your house) and repent for all your mistakes, and you may do this, whenever time permits, because, he may not believe you, with your initial talks.

    After repenting for 2 or 3 times, he will surely understand your love.

    Even if you have problems with your in-laws, you can repent to them, since they are very much elder to you.


    Please do this IMMEDIATELY , and you can enjoy your MARRIED LIFE as ever before.


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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    Hey amnilakshmi
    um, first accepting that you have done some terrible mistakes is a good start.
    now after accepting it, making your hubby, inlaws and all yhe persons who got hurt understand that, you really repent for your mistakes.
    Next you have makeup your mind to get some harsh words. It depends upon how deep the pain is for the opposite person. You should learn to accept the fact that time is a big healer and with your genuine instinct to reunite with the family without any ego , you have to keep on trying to gain their lost trust on u. Be patient, and do what you have to do genuinly.

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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    Married life with petty fights in between the couples, do add salt and pepper along with the flavor.

    Better, make an agreement, that the fight should not last for more than half - an - hour or so,it doesn't matter, whoever had started the fight.

    And the fight should be over within night, and shouldn't be continued in the bed.


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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    Good Morning Aunty!! Excellent Keep Doing your great job Thanks a lot!!

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    Re: How to run a smooth family


    Another important thing to be noted in the couple's life is:

    If you have a different perception in "love making", please do not tell this to your husband , BLUNTLY.

    Do not use harsh words, or negative words, to express your feelings.

    Because, the single word of yours, regarding this, WILL PSYCHOLOGICALLY affect him, and it may ruin his TOTAL CARRIER.

    Better keep this in mind, and you can tell him in a soft manner, in which way, he will not be hurt.


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    Re: How to run a smooth family

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    Good Morning Aunty!! Excellent Keep Doing your great job Thanks a lot!!

    Thanks Karthi

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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    Very good thread with lot of valuable points from lot of people especially Jayanthi Aunty and Lakshmi mam...Thanks for the wise and practical solutions acquired through years of experience in family life. I would say this is the greatest skill of all. It's more difficult to run a smooth family rather than running a corporate company.

    Keep up the good work!


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    Re: How to run a smooth family

    hi jayanthy ka
    good one... which should be kept in mind... thanks for sharing

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