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Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்ல


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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்&am

    Hi sumitra sister what u have said is 100% true..its not neccessary to share our past with hubby............
    Quote Originally Posted by sumitra View Post
    hi viji, i fully agree with you. We should not feel guilty also for not telling everything to the husband. That is our past. We need not reveal everything to the husband. This is for the betterment of our own happy life. Thank you!



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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்&am

    Quote Originally Posted by sumitra View Post
    Hi thenu, forget the past. that is my principle. thank you!

    Even my principle also same.... But some guilty feelings will be there... thats what i'm telling...

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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்&am

    Quote Originally Posted by vijivedachalam View Post
    BUT KADANTHA KAALATHIL ORU PEN AVAL NESITHAVAN UNMAIYAANAVAN YENDRAALUM NIGHKAALA VAAZHKAIYAI ENNAI PAZHAYATHAI MARAPATHU NALLATHU.....ORU AAN THAVARU SEITHAAL AVANUKKU ENTHA PATTA PEYARUM VAIPPATHILAI..ATHUVEY ORU PENN THAVARU SEITHU VITTAL AVALUKKU INTHA SAMOOGAM NIRAIYA PATTA PEYAR KODUKUM.....PENGALAI KAAL MITHAIYAI POLA POTTU MITHIPPARGAL......SO NAAM NAM MANA THUYARANGALAI MANATHIL VAITHU KOLVATHEY SARI..ATHU KANAVANE anaalum solla vendaam

    சூப்பரா சொல்லி இருக்கீங்க விஜி....
    உண்மைதான் இந்த சமூகம் பெண்களுக்கு கொடுக்கும் பட்டபெயர் ரொம்பவே கொடுமை....
    பழையதை மறப்போம்.... புதிதாய் நேசிப்போம்....!!

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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்&am

    Yes thenu............namma past life la husband enter aagalai ..appadi irukka athai en hubby itta naama sollanum...sonnalum athai accept panra mentality yaarukkum kidaiyaathu.....athu mattumillama there should be some privacy for every women in the world..why we have to be open book.......so its better to dump in our heart....
    Quote Originally Posted by thenuraj View Post
    சூப்பரா சொல்லி இருக்கீங்க விஜி....
    உண்மைதான் இந்த சமூகம் பெண்களுக்கு கொடுக்கும் பட்டபெயர் ரொம்பவே கொடுமை....
    பழையதை மறப்போம்.... புதிதாய் நேசிப்போம்....!!


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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்

    Hi Sumi sister,

    u are correct.

    Everyone will have their own feelings. This use to happen in heart , not in mind. how we can say it's guilty feelings.

    Female will accept the situation and adjust to it.

    This is not guilty feeling.

    This is Sacrifice.

    Lakschellam


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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்&am

    Guilty ah feel panna enna irukku thenu..ellarume love appadingira oru life ah thaandi varuvaanga..its nature da.sila perukku kai kooduthu sila perukku nadakurathu illa..nadakkalanaalum athuvum nam vaazhkaiyil oru angam......naam nesithavar engo irunthaalum avar nalamaaga irukka vendum endru ninaippathu thavarillai.....athey samayam avargalidam naam communication illamaal nam nighkaala vaazhkaiyin mele seluthi nam vaazhkai vazhvathu iyalbu
    Quote Originally Posted by thenuraj View Post
    even my principle also same.... But some guilty feelings will be there... Thats what i'm telling...


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    Quote Originally Posted by vijivedachalam View Post
    Yes thenu............namma past life la husband enter aagalai ..appadi irukka athai en hubby itta naama sollanum...sonnalum athai accept panra mentality yaarukkum kidaiyaathu.....athu mattumillama there should be some privacy for every women in the world..why we have to be open book.......so its better to dump in our heart....


    yes viji....i accept your points...


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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்&am

    Quote Originally Posted by vijivedachalam View Post
    Guilty ah feel panna enna irukku thenu..ellarume love appadingira oru life ah thaandi varuvaanga..its nature da.sila perukku kai kooduthu sila perukku nadakurathu illa..nadakkalanaalum athuvum nam vaazhkaiyil oru angam......naam nesithavar engo irunthaalum avar nalamaaga irukka vendum endru ninaippathu thavarillai.....athey samayam avargalidam naam communication illamaal nam nighkaala vaazhkaiyin mele seluthi nam vaazhkai vazhvathu iyalbu

    நல்ல வேலை விஜி.....
    எனக்கு காதல் கைவிடவில்லை..... காதலித்தவரையே கைபிடித்து சந்தோஷமா இருக்கேன்....!!
    ஆனால் எத்தனை பேருக்கு இது வாய்க்கிறது , அதனால் கடந்த காலத்தை மறந்து நிகழ்கால வாழ்வை சந்தோஷமா வாழனும்....


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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்

    அவசியம் இல்லாதவர்களிடம்

    உண்மையை சொல்லாதீர்கள்....


    அவசியமானவர்களிடம்

    பொய்களை சொல்லாதீர்கள்....


    இரண்டுமே உங்களை காயப்படுத்தும்...



    எதை சொன்னாலும்

    காயப்படுத்த நினைப்பவர்களிடம்,

    எதையுமே சொல்லாதீர்கள்

    courtesy;''arangam


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    Re: Is it good to share your past with your husband? - கசந்த வாழ்க்கையை கணவரிடம் சொல்

    Can't understand a word here, please someone post in english. I need to have a look on this discussion.

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