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6 new age marriage fundas


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    6 new age marriage fundas



    With changing times, advice on how to make things work in your marital life has also changed. Brush up on them.

    How long did it take you to realise that a happymarriage is not a walk in the park? Well, before you start experimenting with the traditional recipes for a happily ever-after, remember this: Old rules need not necessarily work for modern marriages. In fact, itís better to rewrite some of them. Here are some new-age fundas to make your marital life stress-free.

    Sleep over your issues
    You have always been told to sort out your issues before you call it a night. But now, relationship experts say itís better to re-think and take your time before you end an argument. This gives you and your spousethe time to reconsider the problem.

    Itís alright to holiday apart
    Unless youíre on your honeymoon, thereís no reason to travel together all the time. There could be places that you are keen to visit, but doesnít interest your partner and vice-versa. In such situations, it would be better to holiday with your friends.

    Keep an account
    A recent report says many couples prefer to maintain separate bank accounts instead of the traditional joint ones. This does not mean that you donít trust your partner, itís just a way of ensuring control over your finances. And yes, it is a blessing for those with an independent streak.

    Spouse neednít be shopping buddy
    Itís common for women to complain that their husbands refuse to shop with them. On the other hand, men hate the long hours their wives spend at malls while shopping. Itís always better to shop with people who enjoy it. If not your spouse, tag along some gal pals the next time you are in a mood to splurge. While most couples have a set of common friends, it isnít necessary to abandon those youíve known before marriage. On the contrary, having different sets of friendswill give both of you some space in the relationship.

    Donít expect her to cook/clean everyday
    Men must understand that their wives work as hard as they do. Itís impractical to expect your wife to do all household chores. Donít expect her to be happy about toiling away in the kitchen while you lounge on the sofa, watching a match. If you want home-cooked food, help her out in the kitchen.

    Itís healthy to have some Ďme timeí
    Donít feel guilty if you feel the need to spend time by yourself. Doing things for yourself doesnít mean that you are ignoring your relationship. In fact, by doing this you will be happier in your relationship. Also, keep the same in mind when it comes to your spouse.

    Source : Times of India


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    Re: 6 new age marriage fundas

    fundas are really very good. thank you Sumathisrini!

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    Superb Sumi Kaa

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    Re: 6 new age marriage fundas

    Its absolutely true....nowadays not only we have to change our lifestyle but our expectation from our spouse.....

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    Oh....timely changes are necessary in life.....it is true

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    Re: 6 new age marriage fundas

    Nice article &very relevant suma sis

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    Thank you & welcome friends.

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