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Tips to have good relation/understanding with wife


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    Tips to have good relation/understanding with wife

    Both husband and wife will be very much excited , once they enter into the new married life. There would be lots and lots of expectations and at the same time, there would be some fears having heard about the experiences of others.

    Initially, both of you would be adjusting to attract each other . Later this may diminish.

    This should not happen. The same adjustment should be consistent throughout your married life.

    Letís see few tips for the husbands through which, they can have a very good understanding with their wife.


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    Re: Tips to have good relation/understanding with wife

    1. First and foremost is the assurance you need to give to your FIL, that you will take a good care of his daughter and give her full security throughout her life.

    2. You need to tell him, before and after marriage, when he leaves his daughter in your house. This will give great confidence not only to your in-laws, but also to your wife. She would feel secured right from that moment and admire your respect towards her parents.

    3. Every wife will surely want you to hear, to whatever she talks. Initially after marriage, you may seem to be attracted to her talks, whatever it may be. But later, you may get bored of her talks, and this will surely make her upset.

    4. Later, you will either be reading the newspaper or watching the TV, while she wants to talk with you. She may also interrupt your work by talking. To avoid the fight over this issue, you can follow this tip.

    5. Fix the time to talk, while you have the coffee, both in the morning and evening. You may ask her to note down the hints to be talked as the main issue. You both can sit together to have the coffee and talk over the things, which she wants to. This will surely make her happy and satisfied , that you are spending your quality time with her.

    6. Do not compel her for anything. If her wishes are different from you, try to adjust atleast with some of them.

    7. If she wants to see the TV programmes of your wish, say about politics or any other sports, which she was not interested earlier, don’t tease her for her ignorance about the subject, but teach her the way she could understand.

    8. Do help her in some of the household works, if she is a house wife. If she is a working woman, you ought to share, atleast half of the household works, which will make her happy and satisfied.

    9. You can look after the children’s needs by bathing them, keeping their bags ready to school, packing the lunch boxes, wash and dry the clothes from the washing machine, if the maid is not doing it.

    10. You can help in cutting vegetables, buying them from the market and disposing the wastes.

    11. Never tease her , her way of cooking, her way of dressing or about her physical stature, in front of anyone else. This will hurt her a lot. Instead you can tease her about these, , personally. When you do like this, she will certainly try to change herself, just to satisfy you.

    12. Never talk ill about her parents or siblings to her or in front of others, mainly in front of your family. Instead you can tease about some of the funny qualities of your in-laws, to her only in person.


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    Re: Tips to have good relation/understanding with wife

    13. Be careful about your children, when you do this. If they happen to hear, they may inturn tease your in-laws which will hurt everyone.

    14. If your wife goes on grumbling about your parents or siblings, please do not get angry immediately. Listen to her words and try to analyse about the characters of them. They may be true, when seen by a third person’s angle.If you feel that she is misinterpreting about them, try to make her understand after few hours. Don’t react immediately.

    15. You should always remember one thing. Ladies are always emotional. They cannot keep any emotions suppressed. They will spit it out immediately.

    16. By nature, men always keep calm during many situations, while the women don’t. It may be surprising for you, about the emotional approach of your wife, regarding many situations, which may be silly for you.

    17. Once when you understand about this, you should act accordingly. Never react immediately to their reactions. It may worsen the situation

    18. Most of the men are gifted with the Humour sense. Each and every wife, loves this character of their husband. So, whenever necessary, please handle the situation with your humor sense and make her happy.

    19. Finish off your arguments before going to bed. You can also come forward to finish it, though it is not your mistake.

    20. Both or you should learn to forgive each other. This is the main key for the successful marriage.

    21. A hug and the words “ I love you” will do the magic in most of the circumstances, whatever the age may be.

    22. When your wife is in any distress, a tight hug of yours will soothe her a lot. It will ensure your security for her at all times. No words are necessary. Only the hug will do.

    23. You can surprise her with gifts, once in a while. It need not be a costly one.

    24. Try to have a good knowledge about her likings in color, dishes and all the other things, which most of the men ,lack.


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    Re: Tips to have good relation/understanding with wife

    25. Don’t forget to remember her birthday and your wedding day, which most men do forget and almost all the wives tease and worry about their husbands for this.

    26. Come forward to spend equal amount for the presents to be given, both to your parents and siblings and at the same time to your all your in -laws . This will surely give a higher place for you , in her heart.

    27. Don’t forget to take the advice of hers, for all your new ventures.

    28. If you feel that she is spending more on luxurious things, the best way to tackle this is, give the power to spend for the family to her hands. This way, she will hesitate to waste the money.

    29. Don’t hide any of your income, and the ways you earn them.

    30. Please make her aware of all your savings in various modes, which will come handy for her, in your absence.

    31. Please be little broad minded about her way of behaving with your male friends.

    32. Do not always suspect her for each and everything, even If she has done some mistakes in the past.

    33. Never be intimate with her woman friends, even in her absence. Even if you were just talking with that person, the situation may be built up to an unwanted situation both by that person and also by your wife. Better avoid any such situation. Technology is also developed very well and many may take advantage of any such situations.

    34. Trust her always, in everything and assure your security for her and your children, which is the main quality, she needs from you. You need to trust her more than your friends. In your future life, she must be the most trusted person of yours.

    35. Take her and your children for surprise outings, once in a while. If you fulfil your wish once, try to fulfil her wishes also the next time.

    36. Never try to dominate her. Give her also equal importance. This is a must mainly in front of your parents, siblings, children and friends. She will reciprocate the same.


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    Re: Tips to have good relation/understanding with wife

    So, whatever the situation may be, only ADJUSTMENT is the key word of successful married life

    By following these tips, you are going to be the Best Husband and enjoy the best married life.


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