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intimacy doubts. i am newly married


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    intimacy doubts. i am newly married

    hi

    i got married in september. but we still didn't have complete sex. i am feeling more pain and burning sense during intercourse and i am asking my hubby to stop. he is also understanding my problem. i am trying to bear the pain but i couldn't. i am worrying a lot about my hubby's satisfaction. how can i overcome this pain. please help me.

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    Re: intimacy doubts. i am newly married

    Hi friend,

    Welcome to 'Penmai'.

    Pls. go through the below link, where you can get remedy for your problem.

    Home Remedies for Painful Sexual Intercourse


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    Re: intimacy doubts. i am newly married

    Welcome to Penmai...Nithya.

    Congrats for your new marriage.

    Usually, applying the Vaginal gel will help you to overcome this pain and burning sensation.

    But in your case, you need to get pregnant too. So, I am not sure how far this vaginal gel will help in your case.



    So, it is better to consult a Gynaecologist immediately who could suggest the best methods to be followed during intercourse without pain . She will also check you and suggest the suitable method

    Please click the below link, in which few tips are given.

    But better consult the doctor as soon as possible. Nothing to worry about this. The doctor will give the easiest solution.


    Painful sex: The issue nobody talks about

    Last edited by jv_66; 16th Oct 2014 at 04:42 PM.
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    Re: intimacy doubts. i am newly married

    Hi Nithya, welcome to penmai.com! Congratulations for your new marriage!Better consult your doctor! thank you and All the best!


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    hi i am newly married. i am not interested in sex. i don’t like to have sex. but my hus is interested in sex. i am not able to cooperate him. what should i do?

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    Re: less interest in sex

    Quote Originally Posted by PRIYA SAKTHI View Post
    hi i am newly married. i am not interested in sex. i don’t like to have sex. but my hus is interested in sex. i am not able to cooperate him. what should i do?
    Congrats Priya for your new marriage.

    Many newly married girls will surely have the fear about intercourse.

    You may think this fear as, not liking it.

    All the men and that too newly married husbands will be very much interested in sex.

    You can tell your husband that you have little fear and that is why you are hesitating to have sex with him. And he may remove your fear little by little and then you will surely co-operate with him.

    Ask him to touch you little by little (part by part of the body) and then proceed further slowly.

    Daily, before going to bed, you should tell to yourself, that you will surely co-operate with your husband and this activity will surely make both you and your husband very very happy .

    This thought will surely remove your fear and will help you to co-operate with him.

    From the next few days you will also start to enjoy this.

    If suppose, you still have the same feeling after trying all these things, then please consult a Psychiatrist (preferably a woman) if necessary. Please do not think that only mental patients should visit them. normal person having smaller problem also can visit them.

    Some childhood memories might be suppressing you and the doctor could help you to get relieved from them.

    But this is the final remedy. Yours may not be such a serious one.

    Initial fear will be there for all the women and this is not a hatred towards sex.

    All the best.

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    Re: intimacy doubts. i am newly married

    how to i know whether i have complete sex or not? can i feel my husband's sperm release? i can't feel it. my husband only inform me. is it normal? any problem with me. i am newly married. please help me.


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    Re: intimacy doubts. i am newly married

    Quote Originally Posted by agalyaravi View Post
    how to i know whether i have complete sex or not? can i feel my husband's sperm release? i can't feel it. my husband only inform me. is it normal? any problem with me. i am newly married. please help me.
    Hi Agalya,
    Its just how you both feel. Completion just depends on how satisfied you both are about your intimacy. Its normal that you don't feel the sperm release.
    Don't worry too much. And never ever compare your experience with others.

    All the best with your new married life!!!!

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