pregnancy after miscarriage

[sangini]

iam sangini,
for the first time i am posting here,till day i was a silent viewer only.i got married in jan 2010,my first pregnancy got confirmed on april 2011,got miscarried in sept 2011,4 months 3 weeks.it was unexpected,all happened suddenly,y it happened dont knw ... all my scans till 12th week was normal,med report for me n baby was normal.Dr told baby is normal. no pain nothing,but in evening i found spotting ,Dr askd to have scan report immediately.took scan report said fetus grwth is only till 13th week but according to mt lmp date i was 19 weeks,had spontaneous miscarriage there itself.had bleeding till 10days.after 5-6 days gap again spotting ,dont understand wats happening.MY Dr askd me to come after i get my first periods,n advised me to try for next preg after 3 months. my mil gt me to some other Dr too,she advised to try after 6 months,i am fully hurt devasted brokenfrm inside..i need to knw does any one came across the issues like this ...pls guide me,can i be pregnant again? will i have my baby again? does any one got successful pregnancy after first miscarriage.

[nlakshmi]

Hi sangini,
I am sorry for your loss, but just hold your willpower and be positive. Of course its devastating but give some time until you and your body heals both physically and mentally and prepare for the next episode. I have lot of friends who has miscarriage first and got pregnant again and delivered beautiful babies. So dont worry. Dont stress. Be cleat with your doctor what caused the miscarriage, so you can avoid or extra cautious next time..

Just keep in mind"ithuvum kadanthu pogum" and think positive for yourself and people around you. You are young and you have a lot of time. Eat heAlthy and exercise and keep your body fit.
About waiting 3/6 months is because your uterus has to heal and retain its shape and get back to normal..so dont rush. Take it slow and am sure you will be blessed