How manly are you
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10th Dec 2011, 05:05 AM #1
How manly are you
How manly are you
It's not just about being talk, dark and handsome, there are certain 'manly' qualities about guys that can make any woman go weak in the knees. And while you may think it's all about the looks, guess what? There's more. It's a potent mix of both, physical attributes and of course, that all important emotional touch. Here we tell you about six points you need to heed.
Yes, we said tall but the reality is that height is really not as important a factor as how you present yourself to us is. Just like guys like a women who is well turned out, women too dig guys who ensure that they are perfectly groomed a la Leonardo DiCaprio. The basic funda we believe in is that if you are careful enough to take care of your self, we can trust you to take care of us. So remember guys, sloppy dressing, uncombed hair, dirty nails, smelly socks, stained shirts or jeans and the likes are an absolute no when you are trying to make that all important impression on someone from the fairer sex.
A sense of style:
We'd rather have you splurging on us than on obscenely priced designer wear. So, even if it's a typical raste ka maal style that you swear by, make sure you adopt a certain classy and stylised look and maintain it. We're not really asking you to be a picture copy of a Pierce Brosnan or a David Beckham, but trying to imitate their stylish will sure up your popularity quotient among the ladies. Keep yourself updated on the latest trends. Also, just as you have your reservations against the 'nun-type' dressers, we women too hesitate when it comes to the boring office type dresser.
Laugh it out:
One of the most important trait that woman dig is a sense of humour. We have more than enough problems to deal with and we don't really need the company of another equally depressed soul. Yes, you have your bad days, but it does go a long way if you have a good sense of humour, and clean humour at that. Beware, taking a dig at others and constantly putting others down does not really spell fun for us. And we can't tell you enough how much we love people who can laugh at themselves and their own mistakes.
Show us you care:
Women need to be constantly reassured that they are loved and cared about. Holding our hand while walking down the road or watching the sunset, an occasional hug and peck on the cheeks, making sure that we cross the road safely, etc means that you are proud to be seen with us and care. Remember, not displaying your affection openly is a sign that you are ashamed of who you are with. However, beware of being crass while displaying you affections.
A sexy smile/wink:
There's a reason why women absolutely adore a Richard Gere or Hugh Jackman and it has a lot to do with the way that they smile or that glint in their eyes. Believe us when we tell you that if you look at us and smile like that, it does make us feel very special, like we are one in a million.
Woman are known to be harrowed and frenzied. Yes, we do tend to get hyper very easily and that is the precise reason why we need you to be the calming factor in our lives. It really doesn't help if you too get stressed out or fly off the handle at any and every incident. Your sex appeal lies as much in your looks as it does in your attitude - we dig guy with a cool and peaceful attitude, the one who is able to calm us down and reassure us that all is well.
Last edited by Parasakthi; 10th Dec 2011 at 09:38 AM. Reason: Alignment