teer clear of the 'you are mine' type

As and when you intend to date, make sure you take the right decision.

What do you want when you wish to date? A good, fun-filled relationship. So, you need to assess the person you intend to go out with. After all, you must make sure that your relationship doesn't go haywire, turning your dream into a nightmare.

To make sure - well, almost sure - that you have a rocking relationship, this is what you must keep in mind when somebody seems like a potential partner.

Do you have money, honey?
That is an avoidable kind, he being the sort of man who likes to go dutch or even asks you to pay on the very first date. No matter how affluent a girl might be, she likes her man to take care of the bills on the first outing. If that doesn't happen - or even if he creates a situation for part-payment - he is not your kind of man.

I, me, myself
Does his world centre around himself? Doesn't he have anything else to talk about barring where he has been, what he has done, how much people love him and so on? If so, he is bad news.

Everybody has the hots for me
Classic example of a chauvinistic, confused male. He believes that all girls lust after him, and he can date anyone he wants to just about anytime. If that is what he tells you, tell him what follows. Sorry.

You are mine, just mine
Everybody needs a little space. So, if you come across a guy who is overly possessive, flee. His attitude might seem very romantic at the outset. Later, it can get claustrophobic.

The victim
He sobs and sobs. He needs a girl to babysit and mother him. Do you wish to be an agony aunt? If not, you know what to do.

Be my wife!
Taking the relationship to the next level should come with time and not in the first date itself. There are those that come with a wedding ring on their first date...almost! Good guy to know? Certainly, if you are horribly desperate.

Before you start dating, keep a few pointers in mind. After all, making a good decision matters, if you wish to have a long-term relationship in the long run.

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