Read your man in bed
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9th Apr 2012, 01:01 AM #1
Read your man in bed
Read your man in bed
Your man will not share his feelings or express his desires in bed. But you can smarten up and decode his body language.
He's the mood setter
If he's the one to sweep you off your feet by lighting scented candles and playing sensual music, you're lucky. A man who makes an effort to set a romantic rhythm knows exactly what turns you on. He's sensitive and you can expect him to please you with a lot of pampering in bed. He is a master of soft-and-touchy sex sessions. If you want to go for a wild one, you may have to take charge.
He plants tender kisses
He wants to make you feel wanted, delicate and captivated and at the same time build an intense desire within you with his soft movements. He may be a little nervous about how to woo you. Do not misinterpret it as his lack of interest; it's just that he wishes to demonstrate his gentlemanly side by being more sweet than sexy and dirty.
HE is into Vanilla sex
Your man loves to go by the book, making him a stable, faithful and loving partner; someone you can rely on. Missionary (conventional) or man-on-top sex is like a conversation, with him being in the power position where you two can lock lips and eyes with ease. Just put your hands on his hips and guide him. If you believe in a steady relationship, he's your match.
He maintains eye contact
Men don't engage in foreplay, touch, or maintain eye contact during sex with women they're not attracted to. If your man looks into your eyes in the heat of the moment or gives you a daring gaze with a lingering smile, he's into you and wants a long-lasting relationship, something more than just a physical connection.
He prefers woman-on-top
He loves it when you take control in the sack. The sight of you playing cowgirl on his saddle is enough to burn him up with lust. He's playful and always looking forward to having a great time, yet he's thoughtful and attentive. For him, pleasing you is a priority and that's the reason he prefers this position, it allows you to achieve orgasm. Don't be shy and just hop on so you can both enjoy the ride.
Wheel barrow is his style
This position, of having sex from behind, gives him a feeling of domination and animalistic pleasure. It makes him feel like a king in the bedroom. Men who like this position are caring and confident and they love to take control. They can be reticent at times. In this position, you two can't make eye contact, so he doesn't feel like he's exposing himself emotionally.
He gives you a back massage
Your guy is into visual delights. A sensual massage works great in getting you primed for a steaming session. It is a pleasurable experience for both of you. He is turning himself on by checking out your hot bod while also making you feel good. You can return the favor by fondling and caressing yourself to further spruce up the night.
He's a spooner
Spooning is when you're both on your sides, touching and facing the same direction. If your guy is behind you clutching you all night, he's the protector in the relationship and loves intimacy. He's confident, but a little possessive. On the other hand, if your man pushes into you so that you're curled up behind him, he's a little insecure and wants to be taken care of.
He rolls away from you
Your man may be commitment phobic. When he rolls away he is essentially cutting himself off from you and creating more distance both emotionally and physically. Give him a little benefit of doubt, it's not that he doesn't want to commit to you. He may be wanting some space or may just not know how to give you the closeness you desire.
He likes side by side sex
Your man prefers the closeness and needs reassurance of your feelings for him. This position is perfect for languid lovemaking since his hands can explore even the most tucked-away areas of your private parts. Moreover, the fact that you're so close increases the intimacy. His enjoying this sensual stance further denotes that he's the sensitive and understanding type.
He sleeps in foetal position Hugging the pillow
Men who sleep on the side with their knees curled up towards their tummy are vulnerable and sensitive. He has the capacity to get into an intense relationship and often displays his creative side in bed. His clinging to a pillow for security shows that he needs assurance that his feelings are reciprocated before he gives himself completely in a relationship.
He sleeps on his tummy
Your man is full of passion and energy. He's strong-willed, focussed and goal-oriented. Covering the bed with his body is his way of controlling the space he's sleeping in. This tendency to dominate the bed can translate into a tendency to dominate the relationship as well. If you're the one who loves to be with a successful and punctual guy, he's perfect for you.