How to dream and find your Dream girl

If you’re sitting patiently waiting for the girl of your dreams, here is a wake-up call: she’s not just going to saunter into your life! Just waiting around isn’t enough, you have to put in the long haul to make it happen gents! But don’t be daunted by the task at hand, there are certain things you can do to make her yours.

And contrary to popular belief, it ain’t all about pampering, preening and poetry (though it wouldn’t hurt your chances!). Here are a few tips for making your dream girl your reality.

Make a good first impression
Politeness, confidence, charm and general attentiveness are highly regarded by women-kind, and never more so than the first meeting. Don’t be rude or arrogant, and even if you’re shy, try your best to strike up a conversation. Girls dig guys who make the first move, and enjoy the attention. Most importantly though, don’t pretend to be anyone else. When you’re honest, your uniqueness is sure to shine through.

Good ol’ romance
Now, not all girls are explicitly romantic. Some will say they actually don’t enjoy being wooed and romanced at all. They are lying. Every girl enjoys a little bit of romance. Picking her flowers, sitting through her favourite, sappy movie, sending her a sweet text – it doesn’t have to be grand gestures, just something small to let her know you care. But do try to make an effort – it will be rewarded.

Be her friend

The only way you can really be someone’s dream guy is to be their friend. Learn her likes and dislikes, discuss her dreams and ambitions, ask her questions, remember her answers, share her sadness and her joy, and make sure you share all of yours with her too. It’s a two-way street, and the best relationships stem from, or evolve into, a great friendship. Drop your guard and inspire creativity and dreams that you both have.

Do fun things

There is nothing worse than falling into a ‘routine’. Though a lot of people pass this off as being ‘comfortable’, if everything you do together starts to feel like a chore, then you can be pretty certain she’ll be feeling bored too. Don’t forget to have fun and try different things every once in a while.

Call her!

A simple text, a scheduled phone call, or even a random phone call will make her feel special. It will also let her know she is on your mind, and there’s nothing more flattering than that. Forgetting to call or text your lady comes across as apathy and will make her feel unimportant. It doesn’t have to be marathon chat sessions; just a “thinking of you” text will do the trick.
You’re dream girl might seem like a fantasy right now, but being persistent, confident, and being yourself, can get you just that bit closer.

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