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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by Lav View Post
    Thanks a lot for the wishes Saran. I showed my earlier posts to Vino. Vino asked me to post the struggles, He doesn't want to give the false hope to youngsters about Happily ever after.
    yeah,,, wat anna (shall i call) said is correct.. keep posting..
    let us knw how much pain has to get over to succeed..
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    Quote Originally Posted by mahara View Post
    Hi lav,

    Even though i already know the details, It is sad to read. God bless you and the family. Waiting for your next post, Narmada aunty pathi yalutha poringala ? Nikhil is asking about Aarya anna and Riya baby, Are you coming to Chicago in November ? Call me if you get some time.

    Thanks,
    Jothi,
    Thanks for the wishes Jo. No question about November visit , we always come for thanks giving weekend. Surya & Aarya are missing chandu uncle and their foot ball , Pictionary games. Convey my regards to all. I will call you soon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saranyaraj View Post
    yeah,,, wat anna (shall i call) said is correct.. keep posting..
    let us knw how much pain has to get over to succeed..
    thanks dear
    Anna sollalam, Onnum thappu illa, He just turned 40 last month. I will post about pregnancy soon.

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Hi Harsne..

    Ur pains are well understood as many of those are experienced in mine too..grt that u revealed here!

    Life will look so meaningful for those who struggled & fight hard to recover from that! That too when Love comes as a subject..

    Everything will be fine from here..

    My wishes & luv for both of u!

    Will be waiting to hear the gud news from both of u soon!




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    "Don't be Serious, be Sincere."!!

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    hi harsne,,,

    konjam prob vanthale, ippelam manasu udanji poiduranga,
    but neenga, really great pa...
    pala thadaigalai thaandi, unga hubby-a married pannitinga...

    life-ku understanding romba mukkiyam...
    ungakittayum annakittayum, athu niraiyave irukku...

    so, itharku piragu neenga kandippa romba romba santhoshama iruppinga...

    soon, u wil get a cute n healthy baby...
    antha baby mugatha paarkurappa, neenga patta kashttam yellam ungalai vittu oodidum...

    wil pray for u, harsne...
    santhoshama irunga...
    take care...







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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    Thaikulangaley andha ammanji apapo jumanjiyakoda maaruvanga..epdi irundhalum ennodadhakkum!


    Good one

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    Hi Harsne..

    Ur pains are well understood as many of those are experienced in mine too..grt that u revealed here!

    Life will look so meaningful for those who struggled & fight hard to recover from that! That too when Love comes as a subject..

    Everything will be fine from here..

    My wishes & luv for both of u!

    Will be waiting to hear the gud news from both of u soon!


    ​Well said Ramesh........Happa.....enna nidharsanamaana kavithai by KAMAL THE GREAT.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    May 2009:
    All went well n fine so far. We knew that both of us are in that metastable state (between friendship & Love). My heart didn’t say still that she is the one. I wanted to say but the factors like caste, parents, etc didn’t allow me to…God alone can stop time isn’t! Days moved on… (last week of May).

    In-between I informed my mom about her. My mom didn’t take it seriously and said “unaku vera velaye illada, evalayachum pathutu vandhu nallarukanu soluva, apuram vera oruthiya solradhu; appava pathi theriyumla? Olunga irundhuko , manatha vangidadha, un mela romba nambikai vachitukom, needhan veetuku moothavan apuram naalu per moonjila mulika mudiyadhu (andha naalu pera naan thittadha naale illa), namma castena pakalam adhuvum vasadhiya nalla familya irukkanum illana no chance, unna thala muzhugiduvom”, ketavudane shock agala naan coz I knew they will say the same. They actually are.


    I Received interview call from Hyderabad (where I am now). Informed her regarding the same. She felt happy...pretended actually.

    June 1st 2009:
    Attended the interview. I knew I will be selected (but before that she told me the same when I started from Chennai central to Hyd).The same day evening I confirmed her wishes, that I got selected. She requested me to meet her when she come to her home town (the place where I was working as lecturer).I agreed. Meantime I assured that I will join on July 1st, to the company where I am now.

    End of Jun 2009:
    Received relieving letter from the college I worked. One more week to go for July 1st.As promised we met each other at a juice parlour. Had grape juice, didn’t talk much. She asked me , “Why can’t u say to ur parents that u like to marry me?” That was the proposal actually. Knowing about my parents, I just said that they will never accept. I replied that I told them already. Looking my face she understood what might be my parents reply.

    She came in her cycle, we walked for a while in the bazaar. There came an auto which is on the way to bus stand. Yes, I need to move away from that town to my native. I got into the auto with my bag and it started moving from her. I watched her from the carpet opening that is available on the back of the auto. She is riding the cycle towards the same road where my auto goes. But still the gap..the distance increases every second.


    I felt weak in my knees….


    My heart felt like a sponge filled with water..


    That moment;


    I started giving my dream girl…. a face

    Her name…Divya


    I realized that now from the bottom of my heart that, She is the ONE! My Love!

    Well said, Congrats to you and Divya, When is Due date ?

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by Lav View Post
    Well said, Congrats to you and Divya, When is Due date ?
    HI Lavanya..

    Tnks for the wishes! Jan 14th, 2013 is the due date...

    Like 'Murukku' snacks story for me...Mr.Vino had 'Chicken' story for u to start up with..ha ha..

    Just read...my best wishes to ur family!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    March 2011: Chennai central
    I reached early in the morning. 6th enga pudhumanai puguvizha. Sonna madhriye she was waiting for me in park station. I asked her to bring a ¾ sized photograph of hers. Earlier I asked to call me when she go for taking the photo. (Madam epavume photola pathengana, china pullainga azhuga varamadhri nipangale apdiye iruppa) She called me from the studio just couple of days before I started towards Chennai. I told her one thing, “Photo edukrapo just think that I am standing infront of u”. She agreed.

    Andha photodhan enoda trunk card nu apo avaluku theriyadhu. I saw the photo. Her best one so far. Meantime I called all my relatives through phone and conveyed them about her. They too said “let us see in our function”. I made it public. Now it is a news.

    March 05, 2011:
    The full day I was roaming with my dad for arrangements to be made for the function, relatives started coming one by one..andha crowdlayum enkita pesadha en amma. En mama ponungalam vandhu nicea “Mams enga Divya photo?” nu oru pakam,Pathutu Ohhhhh! Supera irukanga’nee kavalapadadha nanga pathukrom” nu avanga mobilelam clicked. Chinna china podisungalam vandhu,” Ramesh mama aunty photo katunga?..”ei inga paru sema supera irukangalla” enga vayasana aunty oruthavanga, “enapa ore vellaya iruku?”, pakathula nama 8 vayasu cousin ,”Aiyo paati, photova thirupi parunga”nu sola..idhu elame an ammavuku theriyama nadakudhu. But she can track whats happening around.

    Some of my Aunt told me to do as per parents interest or try to convince them. They all liked her very much. That days night me and my dad were resting in the portico area after a long days roaming.

    Time crossed 11.00 pm. I started dragging the conversation onto my topic. He tried his best to convince me, he bothered more for mom, I said all about her qualities. (time 3.00 am) Slowly he tried to understand my point; atlast I said, “ Neenga pakra ponna kalyanam panitu edhum problemna ungalala porupu ethuka mudiyuma” but “I will take the responsibility on marrying her; whatever I face, it may be gud or bad, I will not complaint u” .(After so many dialogues) “ Naanga andha kaalathu manushanga pa; udane mathika mudiyadhu, konjam time kodu” dad’s words gave me a real breath. But Jadhagamlam enaku nambikai undu, adhula problemna , I am sry” nu solitaru.

    For now My dad came to my side, atleast he agreed. But not my mom.

    March 06:
    Function supera mudinjudhu. Relatives elarum kilambitanga. Some talked to my dad n Mom about my marriage. Me, Dad, Mom and my brother matumdhan irukom, that night. My mother fumed like anything to me. Even if dad agreed I will not. What the hell do u think of? How dare u told this to all? Till that time they didn’t see her photo. Next day early morning, 6.00 am I am about to start back to Chennai. After getting ready always will worship in pooja room n then we use to start wherever. Same I did, and gave the photo to dad n left the house.

    (When I was in Hyderabad, my dad was convinced about her, my mom though she shouted, showed the photos to neighbours….even to grocers n all gave a green signal, but she is not convinced, Jadhakam seems to be ok, mukyamana poruthamlam nalarukunu sonangalam. My family astrologer told that “Avanga manase onnayidichu ini jadhagamlam pakuradhu waste; arimugam illadhavangalukudham indha poruthamellam pakanum”) But still my mother stood on her point….caste.

    07 August 2011 (15 th Deadline)
    Received enough number of alarm from her. Her father said the same, “parents rendu perum samadhikanum”, relatives too thought of my mom and they couldn’t do anything. Mom innum marala.

    “Love panrapa friendsaye pakathula sekadha nama pasanga, adhe loveku oru problem na anangakitadhan lastla varuvanunga”. I am no exception. But inga idea solradhe nandhan.

    Salem: (I worked there for 3 yrs)
    Two of my close friends. They knew every thing. I updated the status. All three we reached my native. (pasanga irundhangana ammata romba thitu vanga matomla adhan).

    My Native:
    But avanungala ammaku nallave theriyume, “Dei Prasad,Maadu madhri valandhrukiye avanuku konjam orakira madhri sollungada, nee evlo nalla pullaya iruka! (DAMAL…my heart) Ivan mattum yenda ipdi aitan,che enakunu vandhrukane”

    Meantime I asked Divya to be ready whatever the consequence, even if my mom didn’t agree; I will come in a car, We can go to register office…she agreed half heartedly.I have no choice.

    Luck favors the brave!

    That day night both my friends talked to my parents..”Amma ivan collegelerndhe niraya ponungalta pazhaguvan”nu prasad sola, “Dei adapavingala , neenga vandha objectivaye mathitengaleda..amma kaiyala meen kulambu saptavudan ipdi aapu vachutengaleda” nu nenakirapave, chandru “but ivlo seriousa irundhu nanga pathadhe illa”. Night romba neram pesite irukrapo, appavum lighta , “ Sari neeyum poyi pathutudhan vayen; pasangaloda po, pudikalana un ishtamdhan” nu trigger paninar. Oru vazhiya amma “Mm..polam” nu solitanga.

    Anga vandhu sanda poduvanganudhan theriyume.

    Endha car avala naan matum kotitu polamnu plan potomo adhe carla ammava kotitu ponom. (Adhukula amma niraya changed, poravazhilaye Flowers, Divya ku enna sweet pudikumnu ketu Jangri vangitu, chocolates etc) Saamitalam vendikiten but mudilaye, lesana polambal irundhadhu.
    I informed them about our arrival. Amma varanganu sonadhum avanga veede udharal. Appa varamudila coz of some office work.Just pathutu varadhukudhanenu ammava matum poga sonar.

    Evening 4.00 we reached. Suthukatu veedu..Divya uncles, her dad, mom all invited us. Ulla vandhadhum, “engada nu enna ketanga” , avanga amma adhukula purinjitu ulla roomku kotitu ponanga, sema tensionla naan. Roomlerndhu varapo divyava kaipudichu kotitu vandhanga vegama.

    Amma to divya, “Enna ena patha bayama irukka; don’t worry needhan enga veetuku marumagal..ok!”..kumkumam vachi vitanga. Madam thiru thirunu mulichitu pavama irundhal.

    ‘Pursuit of Happiness” padathla vara climax scene parunga..avlo sandhosham enaku. “Udane oknu sonna ivan rumba thenaveta aiduvan adhan sollala; but enaku photo pathadhum pudichidichu, ungalayum pudichiruku” nu amma oru bit potanga parunga..anga 2 DAMAL…(en friendsoda heart).

    We spend some time there…When we left Divya called me , “Mama..
    enna mama athaiya patha china ponnatam ituku, aiyo supera irukanga” nu solla, adha naan enga ammata solla. Sirichite vandhom. ’Nalla lakshanama iruka, avanga parentsum enaku pudichruku”, sari oru nalla naal pathu Appa, mamavoda poitu pathutu varom nu amma solla.

    ’Busla murukku kodutha ponna ipdi madakitiye bossu” nu yaro solramadhri irundhadhu. Thalaya thotu parthen....kombu illa.....

    Apuram enna nadandhadhunudhan ungaluke theriyume.....Feb 6th, 2012 Marriage. Sutramum natpum soozha vandhu vazhthunanga.

    Divya engaveetla oru ponnu ipo.
    My parents liked her very much. Avanga veetlayum sandhosham.

    Jun 2012: Hyderabad
    Divya’s uncle in phone, “ Enama epdi irukka, udamba pathuko, ipodhan 3 masam, stepslam nadakadha, valayagaapu October, novemberla vachikalamnu pesitrukanga. Sarima ipavachum solen neeyum maapilayum epdi meet panuneenganu?,.

    she replied , “Adhu…. Adhu…naan oorla vandhu solren” endral sirithukonde…….Kaiyil murukkudan!


    AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY FOREVER! (unga wishes & BlessingS odadhanga!)



    Ramesh, Kulanthaiku niraiya murukku vangi kodu, If possible, ask your MIL or Mom to prepare murukku to avoid the heart burn.

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