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COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples


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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by Lav View Post
    Hi Friends,

    I shared only good things. But in actual life - Happily ever after is not that easy.

    We went through so much struggle in initial stage of our marriage. My dad said he will not pay for the marriage arrangement or give dowry If I married Vino. Vino didn't want his dad's money in any part of our marriage arrangement. Vino started earning only the year before and he had his student load too. My BIL helped us a little, But my husband didn't want to take his money either, When i came to US, Vino had $5000 credit card debt, student loan and car loan. I was not able to work in dependent (H4 visa) either. I worked in a travel agency (only $7/hour - illegally). One year after i came to USA, I got visa, but didn't get job for 4 months. Most of companies wanted permanent employees in Chicago area, No one agreed to do contract to contract job. I got a job only in Lincoln, Nebraska. It is 2 hours flight journey or 10 hours car journey. I never stayed alone before that. My husband Vino was not willing to send me to Lincoln, he was begging me. My sister Vidhya was also not able to help much , she was stay at home mom with twins.
    She is like another mother to me, She was shouting at me and wanted to give her jewels to us.

    I was stubborn, I went to Lincoln in winter (January). It was bitter cold winter, I was sharing a apartment with some TCS girls, we worked for State govt. project. No one in our house had car. We (3 girls) used to go with guy TCS manager - Varadhan (very kind guy)/Some time 30 mins walk to get groceries. Vino travel every week long drive (10 hours/ some time with snow storm - 14 hours) stays in a motel near our apartment. 14 years ago, people are not open minded , Vino couldn't come to the house where only girls were staying.We went through lot of struggle for 6 months, Finally I got a job permanent job in Chicago downtown. One of the happiest moment in our life.

    I will update my struggle about the pregnancy soon.
    Hi Lavanya,

    Adhudhane paarthen, epdi oru problemum illama unga Love success aachunu......cha....paavam.....niraya per niraya kashtangala anubavikkathan vendiyiruku.....aana adhuku aprum kidaikira sandhosham irukke.....

    ADHAI VAARTHAIGALIL SOLLI VIDA MUDIYADHU......ANUBAVITHAALTHAN THERIYUM


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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    HI Lavanya..

    Tnks for the wishes! Jan 14th, 2013 is the due date...

    Like 'Murukku' snacks story for me...Mr.Vino had 'Chicken' story for u to start up with..ha ha..

    Just read...my best wishes to ur family!
    Jan 14th - Thai pongal in 2013. Do you know the Gender of the Baby ?
    My daughter born on Jan 15th - that day also thai pongal.

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Hi Lavanya,

    Adhudhane paarthen, epdi oru problemum illama unga Love success aachunu......cha....paavam.....niraya per niraya kashtangala anubavikkathan vendiyiruku.....aana adhuku aprum kidaikira sandhosham irukke.....

    ADHAI VAARTHAIGALIL SOLLI VIDA MUDIYADHU......ANUBAVITHAALTHAN THERIYUM
    Thats true Jay, Parents or siblings help kandippa venum (at least from one side).

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by Lav View Post
    Jan 14th - Thai pongal in 2013. Do you know the Gender of the Baby ?
    My daughter born on Jan 15th - that day also thai pongal.
    Wow..nice to hear that!

    Regarding gender, here they won't reveal...i wish to have a girl actually! As my wife is in my native now, daily call panni ore complaint! Sambhar, rasam, Spinach, other vegetables sapta baby sema tensionla vaithukulla kuthu kuthunu kuthudham...

    Chicken, Mutton nu nonveg sapta dhan amaidhiya irukkam!

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    "Don't be Serious, be Sincere."!!

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    Wow..nice to hear that!

    Regarding gender, here they won't reveal...i wish to have a girl actually! As my wife is in my native now, daily call panni ore complaint! Sambhar, rasam, Spinach, other vegetables sapta baby sema tensionla vaithukulla kuthu kuthunu kuthudham...

    Chicken, Mutton nu nonveg sapta dhan amaidhiya irukkam!
    Murukku and matha snacks ellamum saapida sollunga......oru vela amma madhiriye , romba pidikumo ennavo....ha...ha..ha....

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Murukku and matha snacks ellamum saapida sollunga......oru vela amma madhiriye , romba pidikumo ennavo....ha...ha..ha....
    eppadi ippadi correct ah sollitinga......

    ramesh athuvum spl ah neenga hyd la irunthu vangi anupina samatha irukum...........

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by rameshshan View Post
    Wow..nice to hear that!

    Regarding gender, here they won't reveal...i wish to have a girl actually! As my wife is in my native now, daily call panni ore complaint! Sambhar, rasam, Spinach, other vegetables sapta baby sema tensionla vaithukulla kuthu kuthunu kuthudham...

    Chicken, Mutton nu nonveg sapta dhan amaidhiya irukkam!
    Paarda ippovae non veg kekutha unga pappa....vangi than kudungalaen pa..saptutu potum...

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by Thamara View Post
    Hi Harsne,

    Very sad to hear what happened, be strong ma... You have got a wonderful husband an understanding MIL, keep them happy and get on with your life.

    Take care
    Thamara
    Hi Thamara,
    Thanks a lot for your wishes...

    HARSNE

    Be yourself..Everyone else is already taken...

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by sintu lingam View Post
    hi harsne,,,

    konjam prob vanthale, ippelam manasu udanji poiduranga,
    but neenga, really great pa...
    pala thadaigalai thaandi, unga hubby-a married pannitinga...

    life-ku understanding romba mukkiyam...
    ungakittayum annakittayum, athu niraiyave irukku...

    so, itharku piragu neenga kandippa romba romba santhoshama iruppinga...

    soon, u wil get a cute n healthy baby...
    antha baby mugatha paarkurappa, neenga patta kashttam yellam ungalai vittu oodidum...

    wil pray for u, harsne...
    santhoshama irunga...
    take care...






    Hi Sintu,

    Thanks for ur wishes and prayer..na neraya thadava bayathula vitralamnu yosichurukkaen.ana avar avlo determined ah irunthar.oru levelku maela than ithu than yen life ne decide pannitaen...avaroda anbukku munnadi thotthutae irukaen...

    oru famous quote than nyabagathuku varum,

    "Across the gateway of my heart,
    I wrote 'No Thoroughfare',
    But love came laughing by, and cried:
    'I enter everywhere' "

    HARSNE

    Be yourself..Everyone else is already taken...

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Loverís Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by harsne View Post
    Hi Sintu,

    Thanks for ur wishes and prayer..na neraya thadava bayathula vitralamnu yosichurukkaen.ana avar avlo determined ah irunthar.oru levelku maela than ithu than yen life ne decide pannitaen...avaroda anbukku munnadi thotthutae irukaen...

    oru famous quote than nyabagathuku varum,

    "Across the gateway of my heart,
    I wrote 'No Thoroughfare',
    But love came laughing by, and cried:
    'I enter everywhere' "
    unmaiyana anbu (kaathal) endrum thorkathu, harsne...
    athuthan (marriage) unga vaalkaile nadanthirukku...

    nalla santhoshama vaalnthu kaattuvinga...
    unga family-um unggalai oru naal perumaiya paarkum kaalam varum...
    (frm my heart)


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    what we did for this world is our gift to God...


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