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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by gkarti View Post
    My dear Jay Aunty,

    I'm really very happy to read your cute/special ....... Ennakku Story nnu Solla thonala.. Neenga fill pannikonga Ungala last line remba pidichathu!!

    " Ennana, enga jaadhagathula, verum 3 poruthamdhaan irundhadhu." WE ARE SOUL MATES.

    My hearty wishes are always there for you.. So sweet of you Convey my regards to Uncle.. Thanks for Sharing!! Azhaga sollirunthinga




    Thanks Karthi.........andha last lines a SPECIFIC a dhaan potten.

    Ippavum niraya per(enga SILs,BILs ) engala eppavum kettute dhaan irukaanga......."EPDI INDHA MAADHIRI ORU SUPER COUPLES A IRUKINGA RENDU PERUM......nallavela, jaadhaga porutham romba illanu, stop pannama irundhangalenu"

    Naan inga idha sonnadhuku reason, yaarum indha oru reason kkaga , matha manaporutham ellam irundha, stop panna vendamnudhaan.



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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by pooo80 View Post
    hi jeyanthi ungaloda kadai nalla iruku. manaporutham irunthal podhum. jadagam irandavathuthan. 25th anniversary.now how do you feel about yoru marriage life. is there any difference between early days and now. sollalam endral sollunga illaiyendral vendam.



    Hey Pooo,


    Thanks pa.


    Kandippa unga kelviku badhil solla romba aasaipaduren.

    Initialla marriage aana konja varushathula irundhadhavida, every year enga intimacy increase aite vandhu, ippo innum naalukku naal, varushathuku varusham, intimacy increase aite iruku.

    Engalukkula periya sandai varave vida maatten. Sandai podaama irundha vazhkai swarasyamaai irukaadhu. Adhanaal, appapo chinna chinna sandai pottu, yaar adhuku kaaranamaa irundhaalum, naane samaadhana kodiya thookiduven.Enga sandai will last only for 5 min. or max. 1/2 an hour. Idhuku mela, ennala avorada pesaama irukave mudiyaadhu.

    Rendu perula yaar vittu kodukaradhunu pottiye pottupom. Avaruku endha timela, edha sonna kovam varumnu therrinju, adhuku etha maadhiri nadandhukuven.
    Infact, avaruku, engaloda important dates (like b.day, w.day) idhellam nyabagam irukave irukaadhu. Inga onnu solla aasaipaduren. Most of the boys may not remember these days, and we should accept it. Idhukkaga naama sandai poda koodadhu. Initialla, enakum , idha pathi konjam kashtamadhaan irundhadhu. Later, avar ipdidhaan (he doesn't remember even his b.day) apdinu sudharichutten. Apram niraya pera gavanichu paartha, almost ellarum ipdidhaan irukanga.So , from the second year of our mrg. naan idha pathi kavalai paduradhaye vittuten.Idha thavira , avarkitta oru kurai kandu pidika mudiyadhu.

    He is my FRIEND, PHILOSOPHER AND GUIDE.

    So, endha oru ethirpaarpum illama, anbai kodupadhaye mukkiya latchiyamaaga vachutu seyalpaduren.

    So, vazhkai vandi nalla odudhu.


    Jayanthy





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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    thanks for your guidance ka...

    enakku marriage munnadi ye en hubby yala ithellam nyabagam vachikka mudiyathu nu therinjiduchu... so, nanum already prepare agitten... en bday ku en family members fone panna piragu than en hubby "oh ennaku un bday va , happy bday" nu solli, celebrate pannar... light-ta kashtama irunthuchu.. his character nu nan sandai podala...
    unga post partha pinnadi, ella gents -um ippadi thana nu happy ya irukku..

    nangalum 1/2 an hr ku mela sandai pottathu illa.. but life long follow panvoma nu therila.. ippadi ye irukkanum nu iraivanai vendukiren...

    once again thanks for your guidance ka..



    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post

    Hey Pooo,


    Thanks pa.


    Kandippa unga kelviku badhil solla romba aasaipaduren.

    Initialla marriage aana konja varushathula irundhadhavida, every year enga intimacy increase aite vandhu, ippo innum naalukku naal, varushathuku varusham, intimacy increase aite iruku.

    Engalukkula periya sandai varave vida maatten. Sandai podaama irundha vazhkai swarasyamaai irukaadhu. Adhanaal, appapo chinna chinna sandai pottu, yaar adhuku kaaranamaa irundhaalum, naane samaadhana kodiya thookiduven.Enga sandai will last only for 5 min. or max. 1/2 an hour. Idhuku mela, ennala avorada pesaama irukave mudiyaadhu.

    Rendu perula yaar vittu kodukaradhunu pottiye pottupom. Avaruku endha timela, edha sonna kovam varumnu therrinju, adhuku etha maadhiri nadandhukuven.
    Infact, avaruku, engaloda important dates (like b.day, w.day) idhellam nyabagam irukave irukaadhu. Inga onnu solla aasaipaduren. Most of the boys may not remember these days, and we should accept it. Idhukkaga naama sandai poda koodadhu. Initialla, enakum , idha pathi konjam kashtamadhaan irundhadhu. Later, avar ipdidhaan (he doesn't remember even his b.day) apdinu sudharichutten. Apram niraya pera gavanichu paartha, almost ellarum ipdidhaan irukanga.So , from the second year of our mrg. naan idha pathi kavalai paduradhaye vittuten.Idha thavira , avarkitta oru kurai kandu pidika mudiyadhu.

    He is my FRIEND, PHILOSOPHER AND GUIDE.

    So, endha oru ethirpaarpum illama, anbai kodupadhaye mukkiya latchiyamaaga vachutu seyalpaduren.

    So, vazhkai vandi nalla odudhu.


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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    hi jayanthy
    naan erkanamae post panniten intha thread la.
    Neenga last sonnathu romba correct. en husbandkum en birthday niyabagam irukathu.. first nan class edukatha kuraiya solli parthen.. but correcta antha date wish seyya maranthuduvar... ha haha...here is my post

    Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

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    Ramya


    சந்தோசம் இருக்கும் இடத்தில் வாழ நினைப்பதை விட
    நீ இருக்கும் இடத்தில் சந்தோஷத்தை உருவாக்கு
    உன் வாழ்க்கையில் நிறைவு இருக்கும் ....

    Don't Worry............ Be Happy.......



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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Next stories are expected from SUMITRA, NALINI AND RAMYA.
    Come on friends, Start .
    Dear Jayanthy, neengal ungal kadhaiyai solliyulladhai padiththu migavum santhosa pattu indha kaalaththil idhu pondr oru adharsha thambathigalaa? endru viyappaga irukkirathu. ungalathu understanding bol amaivathu migavum rare. ungal kanavanarum neengalum idhu pondru vittu koduththu magizhchiyaaga nandraaga needoozhi vazhavendum endru vaazththugiren.
    ippodhu unglain vendugolukku varuvom. ennudaiya kathai svarasiyamaaga irunthirunthaal eppodho neengal ketkaamaleye ezhudhi iruppen. anyway because you have asked let me narrate my story:

    Naan year 1982 le B.E mudiththuvittu Bangalore le oru central government defense ministry thodarbudaiya public sector le velaikku sernthen. appodhu naan thaniyaaga roomellaam thedi kandupidiththu adhil irukkaamal, bangalore Indian Institute of Science le en friend oruththi higher studies padiththu kondirunthaal avaladhu hostel roomil thangigondu velaikku poi vanden. five years ippadi velaiye kannaaga irunthu kondirethen. oru naal june 1988 engal veetil (kanchipuram ) irunthu officeil phone moolamaaga theriviththaargal udane kilambi varumbadi. angu poi sernthapinbu thaan therinthadhu ennai pen paarka varapogiraargal endru. vazhakkam pol pen paarkum padalam mudinthu pen pidiththiragirathu endru maapillai solli ennaiyum kettaargal. nanum ok sonnen. avarukkum sontha oor kanchipuram. Bengalore le central governmentle velaiyaaga irunthaar. Sep 1988 kalyaanam nandanththadhu. piragu engal ore pen 1989 le piranththal. andha kathai erkaneve ezhudi vitten. andrilirundhu indru varai iruvarum velaikku poikkondu engal magalaiyum padikka vaiththu avalum ippodhu BE padiththu vittu velaikku poikondu irukkiraal. en kanavarukkum enakkum idaiye amaithiyaana thaambathiyam. ore ooril en veedum avar veedum iruppaththal siru problem. enna vendraal oorukku ponal yaar veetukku mudhalil povadhu endru. idhellam begining thaan. appuram ellaam sariyaagivittadhu. naangal vittukodhuththukondu kudumbam nadaththi varugirom. en kathai appadi ondrum swarasiyam illai. neengal kettadhal ezuthinen. nandri


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    first i will tell about my hubby....
    my hubby name: balasubramanian..naan short ah bala nu than kupiduvan....he completed B.E and M.E in annamalai university.. now doing Ph,d(over padipps......... ). working as a asoociate proffesor in mailam engineering college.....

    for him and me four years difference.......avar short and sweet ah pesuvaru.. naan pesa arambicha niruthavey matan... avar comedy ah rasipaar, naan comedy ah pesuvan....
    avar bayangara padipps, naan just B.E.......avarukku homely than pidikkum but naan konjam modern...

    ipdi niraiya vithyasam engalukkul... but affection engira onu enga rendu peraiyum kati pottu duchu

    ok let me start the story.............

    enaaku 2009 la irunthu mapillai parkka aramichanga.. apo naan yellow pages la team lead ah irunthan.. daily teynampet poittu varvan... yenaaku basic ah vey ponnu paakura padalam la pidikaathu.. veetula enaakum appa ammukum sema argument varum intha ponnu pakka varanganu sonale...

    appa neraiya mapillaiya filter pani ,atlast my dad selected bala.... college la naan lecturers ellam back bench irunthu baiyagarama kindal panitu iruppan.. kadaisila enakey oru lecturer mapillai vanthutare nu vendam nu sollitan.. but appa pidivathama bala parents kita ponnu parkka vara solitaaru..(jillu nu oru kathal padathula varamathiri nanum mapilaikku ennai pidikka kudathunu pray panan.... but nadanthathu vera........







    life is so beautiful....

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    2010 oct 31 bala ennai ponnu parkka vantharu.. Avar siser and brother in law mattum vanthu irunthanga... Naan simple ah an saree than kati irunthan,,, is orange colour( naan saamiyar aaga poran nu symbolic ah kamikka katinan)
    as usual ponnu pakkura padalam mudinchu pochu.. Bala oda friend oru naal enga veetukku call paniruntharu.. Appkita viji ku bala pidichi irukkanu kettaru.... Enga ponnukku pidichirukkunu enga appa oru kunda thooki potaru.. Enga appa kita orey sandai, innum one year pogattum appa, naan marriazge panikiran,,(unnai engala samalikka mudiyathu..)...... Appa strict ah sollitaru...... Sudden ah avanga veettula irunthu phone.. Naanga kudumbathoda ponnu paaka varom nu sonnanga...

    appa ennai office ku leave poda sonaru.... Naan over builp ah naan ilana office ah nadakuthu peer vitan..)just one day leave pou un vaala surutti vai nu sonnar appa...kovam vantha appa kia kaamika matan.. Seri pa seri pa nu thalaiya attitu, amma kita than en veembu, kovam yelathaiyum kattuvan....
    en brother amma, appa ellarum oru katichiya maaritanga... Naan thani maram ah ninan....intha pacha pullaikku suppor yarumey illa... En friends kum marriage fix agiduchu.... So nanum thapikka vazhiye ilai...(serious ah marriage na enakku oru bayam, pathatam)


    life is so beautiful....

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    THEN NOVEMBER 14 ANAIKKU BALA FAMILY VANTHANGA... ORU VAN FULLA VANHANGA...( YEPPA MUDIYALA SAAMI)... VANAKAM SOLLA SOLIYE ENNAI KONNUTANGA... BUT MY HUBBY YELLATHAIYUM AMAITHIYA PARTHUTU IRUNHARU.......
    APURAM ENNAI NADU HALL AH NIKAVECHU BALA va PIDICHIRUKANU NU KETANGA...MY MAGICAL I SAID "YES"....

    APURAM AVANGA VEETULA YELLARUM ENGA VEETULA SAAPITANGA..... HIS SISTER ASKED PERMNISSION FROM MY APPA THAT BALA WANT TO tALK WIH VIJI.. MY DAD SAID OK... NAAN EN ROOM LA WAIT PANAN.....BALA ENTERED MY ROOM.. I SAID VAANGA.. THIS IS MY FIRST WORD I SPOKE WITH BALA.. HE SAID HELLO.. AND CASUAL AH PESITTU IRUNTHOM... WHEN HE MOVED FROM THE ROOM HE GIFED ONE BOOK WITH HIS SIGNATURE(PERIYA HERO SIGN PANI KODUKURARU NAMAKU).....ANTHA BOOK AH INNUM BATHRAMA VECHI IRUKKAN..THE BOOK NAME"HOW TO REMAIN EVER HAPPY"..
    THEN AVANGA ELLARUM POITANGA.. NOV MID LA KARTHIGAI DEEPAM VANTHUCHU, APPO ENGA APPA MOBILE KU KARHIGAI DEEPA NALVAZHTHUKAL MESSAGE AVARU ANUPINARU.. EN NUMBER NAAN KODUKKAMA KONJA NAAL ILUTHU ADICHAN.. APURAM YEPADIYO EN NUMBER AH KANDU PIDICHITARU....



    Last edited by vijivedachalam; 25th Dec 2012 at 02:32 PM.
    life is so beautiful....

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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    daily morning message anupuvaru.... Night full ah message la chat panuvom...oruthara oruthar purinjikka nalla chance ah irunthathu.....

    then oru naal coat suit alavu kodukka enga veetukku vantharu.. Appo nana chudi potu irunhan...
    naan veliya varavey illai.. But his eyes roaming here and there.. Enaakku sirippu thangala.. By message he asked me wher are u... I said am inside my room..... Come out nu reply kodutharu.... But naan varala.he got wexed.... Then amma, tiffin kodukkum pothu ennai parimaara sonanga.. He got shocked..yennakku appo onnum puriyala..
    then we talked 2 or 3 words,,,,,then he moved from my home...

    then that nigh he phoned me...he said.. Hey nee chudi la school padikira ponnu mari irukka nu kindal panaru... Ipdiye jolly ah nalla friends agitom...
    jan 24 2011 engagement fix panga... Grand ah panom......

    afer engagement.... We got very closed........ Engagement ku apuram la irunthu en mobile ku top up panara kuthagaiya bala yeduthu kitaru....


    life is so beautiful....

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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    MARIGE SAREE YEDUKKA T.NAGAR PORATHA PLAN.. AVANGA VEETULA AVANGA SISER AND AMMA AND BALA YELLAM VANTHANGA.. INGA APPA,AMMA AND NAAN PONAN... NALLI SILKS LA THAN YEDUKKANUM NU BALA AMMA SONANAGA.. YENNAKKU POTHYS LA YEDUKANUM NU ASAI.. SERI NU VITU KODUTHUTAN.....

    YEVLAVO SAREE PARTHUM EN FACE LA YENTHA REACTIONUM ILA... BUT ORU SAREE LA RAMAR BLUE WIH FULL OF GOLDEN FLOWERS SARIGAI POTTA SAREE PIDICHI ATHAI YEDUHU PARTHAN.... SUDDENLY BALA PICKED THAT SAREE FROM ME AND ASKED THE ELDERS TO PAY THE BILL........HE MINUTELY NOTICED MY REACTION... THATS THE FIRST TIME I REALISED HIS CARE( MARRIAGE MUNNADI OVER CARE AH IRUPAANGA INHA GUYS)......


    THEN MARCH 24th 2011 we gOT married in his native thirukoilur…..….
    And 27th march reception in guduvanchery….

    Marriage is soul place ,where TrusT, forgive and more care and affection we have to geT and we have to give..equal sharing and caring and guiding each other will lead The life happily.. I feel happy satisfaction in my marriage life.. thats it friends

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