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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    Hi jay,

    ungaloda marriage charithirathai(vazhkai History) padichen pa, super, u r so lucky to have a better half like, this, god bless u to celebrate 50th anniversary and so on, ennodadhum arranged marriage than, 27 yrs agividathu, annalum still we r young couples by heart, eppo enga ponnalum rendu perum sernthu than povaom (mosta) en pasanga solluvanga, appa amma rendu perum ore mathiri than think pannu vanganu, avang kettu ethavadhu avoid pannanumna nan solluven appata kellunu, adhey mathiri avar solluvar amma kitta kellunu, i am so, lucky n blessed to have a hubby like him, he is so humarous n jolly type, konjam munkobam adhigam, analum udane marandhiduvar, entha mattera irundhalum en kitta discuss pannuvar, so thank u very much for u to recollect my memories about my hubby, ennoda storya fulla sollanumna nanum thodar kadhai than ezhudhanum adhanal elloraunm bore adikka virumbavillai, ithoda niruthikeren.


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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    hi friendsssssssssss............ i'm infaa............ infanta........... en mrg-m arranged mrg thaan............

    inge en malarum ninaivugalai ungaludan pagirnthu kolgiren............ok............

    aana konjam..............illai............. pon paakka vantha appo rombave kastap pattutten athayum ungalugan pagirnthu kolgiren.............

    ennai ponnu paakka avar, avaroda anna, avaroda aththaan(sis oda huppy), avaroda friend ivanga ellorume same age...............(en nilamaya yosichchu paarunga) naan avaroda photo kuda munnaadiye paaththathu illa..............

    coffee eduththuttu ponen............. ange................(en nilamai.......... haiyo)

    (ippo inga power cut so meethi naalaikku ok)



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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    sorry friendsssssssss.............. ungalai romba naal kaakka vachchutten............ ippo meethiyai soluren ok..............


    naan coffee eduththuttu anga pona............... 4 per same age-layum avaroda appa, anni, thangachchyum irunthaanga................

    ellorukkum coffee kuduththu mudichchathum............ avanga anni en kitta.............. unakku maappillayai pudichchu irukkaannu anga vachche kettaanga..............

    enakku kaduppunn kaduppu............... manasukkullaye.............. mavale un purusanathaan pudichchu irukkunnu sonna ennadi ninaippannu ninachchukitten.............

    onnume sollaama ninnu kittu irunthen............. en appa, anna kuda pesaama irunthaanga.............. manasukkullaye avangalayum thaalichchukittu irunthen...............

    kadaisiya en appa naan ninna nilayaip paaththu nee ulla pommaannu sonnaar.............. vittaal pothummu oodiye vanthutten...............

    ulla vanthu en ammavai ore thittu.............. enna ninachchukittu irukkaanga.............. maapillai yaarunne sollala............. ithula pudichchu irukkaannu kekkuranga ippo anga poi pudikkalannu sollap porennu ore kaththu..............

    naan kaththunathap paaththu en amma............... un kaalil venna viluren avanga pora varikkum vaayave thorakkaathannu solli ore pulambal............. appuram en paattukku kitchen medayil ukkaanthukitten...........

    en amma jannal vazhiya paaththu en annaavai koopittaanga.............. avan vanthathum yaaruda maappillai un thangachchi inga vanthu saami aadittu irukkaannu sonnathum..................

    en anna antha brown colour shit pottu irukkurathuthaan maappillainnu sonnaanga................



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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    anga poi enna sonnaannu theriyaathu............. konja neram kalichchu avar, avaroda anni, thangachchi mattum hall-a irukkum pothu en anna vanthu ennai koottittu ponaan..............

    anga avanga kitta chair-la ukkaara vachchttu avanum sssssssssssss............. seri kaduppu................

    appuram avanga anni kettaanga avaraip paaththum ennaip paaththum.............. unngalukku pudichchu irukkaannu.............

    naan onnume sollaama pesaama irukken............ avar udane enakku double ok-nnu sollittu.............. avalukku okyaannu kelungannu sonnaar.............

    enakku appadiye elumbi oodidalaam pola irunthuthu............... avanga anni ennai paaththathum naan sirikkava vendaamaannu oru sirippu sirichchen............

    (ithoda baathippu ippo varaikkum naan avarai udane pudichchuirukkunnu sollalannu kurai solluvaar).

    avanga amma varaathathal en photo kettaanga............ appo thaan avanga amma oorum en amma oorum ore idamnu therinjuthu..............

    avaroda ammavum en ammavum ore school, ore church-la chatichesom padichchvangalaam...............

    en ammavukku udane ore santhosam.............. intha sambanthaththai vidave koodaathunnu..............

    en amma en maamiyaar paththi muthalla sonna vaarththai................ un maamiyaarai maathiri gunam ulla oru maamiyar ulagaththulaye kidayaathunnu..............

    romba sari............ enakku en aththayai romba pudikkum............. realy nice lady.............. enakku en amma eppadiyo appadithaan avangalum..........

    en mater-kku varen...............

    kadaisiya avarukku naan hight kamminnu ninaippu vanthuduchchu pola............ avaroda thangachchiya maathiri hight venumnu solli ennai nikka vachchu alanthu paaththaanga..............

    enakku ellorayum suttuk kollura alavukku kobam.............. onnume seiya mudiyaamal pesaama irunthen................



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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    appo naan heals chappal pottu irunthen............. saree katti irunthathaala yarukkume theriyalai..............

    appuram hight ok-nnu sollittu poitaanga avaroda thangachchi.............. naan sirichchukitten.............. mavane maattuniyaannu...............

    piragu engagement-kku date kurichchuttu poittaanga............. feb-19th engagement nadanthuchchu.............

    appove mrg date may-9 th kku kurichchaanga........... enakku antha date okyaannu amma kettaanga...............

    itha yeammma enkitta kekkingannu kettathukku enakku vivarame paththaathunnu thittu vera............. en neram................

    engagement mudichchu kilambum pothu ellorum bus, sumo-la erittaanga ivar mattum erala.............. ellorum solla solla kekkaama ninnu kitte irunthaar..............
    ivar kilambunathukku appurama room-kku ponnu appa sonnathaala ninnu kitte irunthen naanum.............

    kadaisiya avanga anni........... kolunthanaare.......... 3 maasamum ingaye nikkiratha ninaippaannu kettaanga................ ellorum ore sirippu...........

    en............. me pochchu.............. pallai kadichchukittu ninen........... kadaisiya naan mmmmmmmmm-nu irunthathaip paaththuttu udane kilambittaar.................

    3 months time irunthathaala............. eng-kku appuram daily call pannuvar............... appo avar bangalore-la irunthaar............... LG company-la............

    avarkku monthly ph bill 3000 aagumam.............. avvalavu pesinom..........

    may-9-m vanthuchchu............. enga mrg-m mudinjuthu............ ashish, akash-nnu 2 pasanga............ ashish UKG padikkaraan akash 1 year old baby..............

    life appadiye poikkittu irukku.............

    solla maranthutten............ naan physics teacher-a work pannuren............ en huppy ippo Macmillan bublishers india Ltd-la manager-a irukkirar............avaroda name Dominic Alocious.

    vaazhkkai konjam sandai, konjam oodal, konjam koodal........... ippadi poikkitte irukku friends...............

    romba bore adichchuttano...............

    At last thanks for the Almighty God........................


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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    Hi Friends,
    As our friends asked, i am going to tell my story in detail..

    nan ennavar foto mail la than parthen from matrimony..
    ennavurukkum ponnu parthu bajji sojji lam sapida pidikkala...
    So avar common place la meet pannalam nu en appa ta solli irunthar...
    antha week en akka payan ku mottai adichu kaathu kuthura function nala appa athu mudichittu pesalam nu irunthar...
    mean while, my appa gave my hubby number to my BIL..
    They talked over phone..
    my BIL invited him for that function, that we dont know...

    29 August 2010:

    en BIL oorla enakku yarayum theriyathu.. so kovil amaithiya nalla ponnu mathiri ukkanthu irunthen....
    mama avara kootittu vanthar...
    my chithi asked me who s the handsome guy coming with my BIL nu
    enakku engayo partha mathiri irunthuchu....
    that time i realised that he was the guy that my parents showed me...

    amma ta en ma sollala nu sandai potten..
    actually amma ke theriyathu..
    she explained me and asked my BIL.. mama nan than vara sonnen nu sonnar..

    actually my parents love marriage pannavanga..
    my BIL told him abt that..
    ennavar enakku caste , jathagathula lam nambikkai illa... manusanga than venum nu sonnar..

    then antha function mudinji saptuttu kelambittar..
    next week veetukku vanga, appadi nu en parents-sa invite panninar..

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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    2nd Sep 2010:

    en parents ta en hubby avarukku jathagam illa nu solli irukkar.. (he doesn't like jathagam matching and all)

    appa family parpom then, vera ethachum try panni match pannalam nu sonnar..
    so my parents went to their place..

    anga avanga family ku ore shock..
    my hubby told like "friends are coming, so lunch arrange panni vainga" nu...
    they didnt expect a family..

    anga pesinappuram than en inlaw family ku ponnu veetu karanga nu therinju irukku.. (ennavar evlo poi pesi irukkanga parunga -- shock number 1)

    appa jathagam illa nu sonnar nu etho arambikka , en mamanar nanga jathagam pakkama kudukkka mattom nu sonnar.. yar sonna jathagam illa nu solli jathagam eduthu kuduthar (shock number 2)

    amma nanum en ponnoda jathagam eppovum vachi iruppen nu solli jathagam exchange pannittu vanthuttanga..

    His family is very nice family.. avlo periya shock layum they behaved decently..

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    கண்ணனே காட்டினான் கண்ணனே சாற்றினான் கண்ணனே கொலை செய்கின்றான்!!!

    பரித்ராணாய சாதூனாம் விநாசாய சதுஷ்க்ருதாம்
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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    enakku poi sonnale pidikkathu..

    en hubby starting laye ivlo poi solli irukkarunu ivar venuma nu enakku ore yosanai.. en friend kitta solli polambittu irunthen..

    en friend "amma appa namma nallathukku than solvanga... avanga manasa kashta paduthuvillai nale nama santhosama iruppom..avanga ashirvatham unna happy ya irukka vaikkum, so accept pannu" nu sonna...

    nan ethum en parents kitta share pannala... avangalukku en hubby family romba pidichu pochu..

    en in-law family ku intercaste marriage la no interest..ithu engalukku marriage ku munnadi theriyave theriyathu...avanga oorlaye periya alunga vera..

    en hubby antha ponna than kalyanam pannuven, illana no marriage nu solli meratti, en 2 sister-in-laws and my FIL-la kootittu vanthuttar..
    en MIL ku travel panna mudiyathu..kal la konjam pblm.. romba thevai na mattum kootittu varuvanga..

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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    5September 2010:

    they came to see me.. en siater-in-laws (2) enna pakka en room ku vanthanga.. avangalukku en hubby mela romba pasam...they only convinced their parents.. neraya pesinanga.. samakka therila na kavala padatha, en thambi nan samaikka kathu kuduthu irukken.. appadi nu sonnanga..

    (ulaga maga poi da ithu.. enakku marriage ana puthusula, help pannunga pa, konjam vengayam urichu thanga, neram achu nu sonnen... sonna namba matteenga, 2 hrs la 4 vengayam urichar... atha parthu avarukku kaneer vanthucho illayo , enakku ratha kaneere vanthuduchu.. ithu thanga avara samayal thiramai.. nalla suda thanni poduvar)

    actually avanga family parthu than, nalla family.. nalla family la poranthavanga thappu panna mattanga nu nan marriage ok sonnen...
    athu veen poga villai..

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    Re: Special thread for Arranged Marriage Couples

    then marriage date 18November 2010 nu fix pannaga..

    nanum en hubby enna contact pannuvar nu wait pannen pannen.. he didnt call ma..
    ennada ithu oru velai, avarukku nammala pidikkalayo nu yosichen..
    but partha, en family la amma, appa, brothers, BIl ellartayum pesurar...

    enakku kulappam, en enkitta pesala nu..

    en friend nee pesu nu sonna.. nan pesina en dignity(gethu, ego, etc.,) enna agurathu.. mudiyathu nu sonnen..

    ava marriage time la ava hubby ku phone pottu nan kalaichen.. so iva en hubby ku fone pottu kalaicha..

    appo en hubby aval ta number vangi pesinar..

    en ivlo naal pesalanu ketta, avar avanga akka kitta number vangi thara sonnaram.. my SIL told like, antha ponnu pavam, enga kittaye yes or no type la ans pannuthu.. avala pesi payamuruthatha nu.. (enna kodumai sir ithu..)

    en parents ta pesina, thanave number tharuvanga nu nenacharam.. (ippadi oru appavi manusana)

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