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    pls help me

    not interested to do marriage..want to join in ashram and do social service..any 1 can help me please???





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    Re: pls help me

    Hi Subha,

    Why such a frustration in life?

    No need to worry dear. If you happen to get a good husband, you can win the whole world, and you will be satisfied to the utmost, having him and wonderful children.

    Even after getting married, you can help others and do many social services. There are many persons known and unknown, who are married (both male and female), and are fully engaged in social services.

    The best known couples are NARAYANA MURTHY and his wife SUDHA MURTHY ( who was the founder of INFOSYS).

    The list may go on.

    The main thing, you should do is, without any hurry, try to find a partner, who is also interested in social services, so that , he will not resist you in future, when you indulge in social services.

    With such a partner, you can do all kind of social service and both your mind and heart will be contended.

    So, ALWAYS BE OPTIMISTIC IN LIFE.

    Even though, some people of your near and dear ones, might not have succeeded in marriage life, YOU MAY SUCCEED. So, please don't get frustrated, and all of us pray for you to get a very good partner and beautiful children.



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    Re: pls help me

    Dear Subhabala, don't lose your self confidence. I would like to give you a small write up on the need for self confidence in the today's modern life.

    பாட்டி சொன்னாள்
    நாங்கள் அடுப்படியில்
    அடங்கிக் கிடந்த காலம்
    பொற்காலம் என்று!
    பேத்தி சொன்னாள்
    நீ அடங்கி இருந்ததால்
    தாத்தா ஐந்தாறு பெண்களை
    அஞ்சாமல் மணந்தார்!
    என் கணவர்
    அடுத்த பெண்ணிடம்
    பேசுவதற்குக் கூட
    என்னிடம் அனுமதி கேட்பார்!
    எங்கள் வாழ்வில்
    ஒருவனுக்கு ஒருத்தியாய்
    ஒற்றுமையாய்
    காலம் கழிக்கும்
    எங்கள் காலம் தான்
    பொற்காலம் என்றாள்!
    பாரதியின்
    புதுமைப் பெண்கள்
    புதுயுகம்
    படைக்கின்றனர்!
    பாரிதிதாசனின்
    புரட்சிப் பெண்கள்
    புதுயுகம்
    படைக்கின்றனர்!
    பாரதிதாசனின்
    புரட்சிப் பெண்கள்
    சாதனைகள் சாதிக்கின்றனர்!
    மதியோடு
    பெண் இருக்கிறாள்
    அதனால் தான் மதிப்பெண்ணிலும்
    முதலிடம் பெற்று
    மதிப்புப் பெறுகிறாள்!
    பணிப் பெண்கள்
    பணியைப் பாங்காய்ச்
    செய்வதனால்
    எல்லாப் பணியிலும்
    பணிப் பெண்ணே
    இடம் பெறுகிறான்!
    பெண்கள்
    யாரையும் நம்பியதில்லை
    தன்னையே நம்புகிறாள்!
    ‘தன்னம்பிக்கை’ இருப்பதால்

    I don't know what was the reason behind your extreme decision to join an ashram and do social service. the decision is very fine and the motive also very good. But if that extreme decision is due to momentry failures, dis-satisfaction, lose of self confidence, ill-treatment by the members of the family, frustration and what not, then the decision is not recommended. Hence be patient in life. Definitely the God, the Almighty will bless you with whatever you want and you also will face the happiest moment in the life. I pray the God to bless you with all the things you wanted. I submit my sincere thanks in advance to the God for having blessed you. Be confident and cheerful. thanks

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