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    2008 la nadandhadhu:
    Uyir vazhvadharku inriyamaiyadha kaatru, thaneer pol, B’lore la survive agaradhukku enakku Aakashum thevapattan…English la sollanumna, my basic necessities included food, clothing, shelter and Aakash. What I meant is I have become so dependent on him to the extent that whenever my PC password expires in office, I need him to tell my password….Adhuvum chummalam othukka maatten….Indha PW pidikala, idhu bore a irukku, appadinu naan ethir paarkira madhiri sollra varai vida matten….B’lore la engavadhu poradhukku auto kidaikalana avlodhan….Udaney avanukku phone panni “Ippo enna panradhu” nu simple a oru kelvi kettutu vittruven…Ini enakku suggestion kuduthu, en destination reach panna vaikiradhu avan paadu dhana…So ippadi irukara ennai vittutu eppadi Ahmedabad poradhu nu namma hero kku orey kavalaya pochu….Naan dhan therudhala “I’m a big girl now…naan samalichikkuven nu sonnen”……Hearing my words, he just burst out laughing….Adhukku appuram thirumba enakku oru periya lecture kuduthu(avan illama B’lore la iruka), Sugi kkavukku adhai vida periya lecture kuduthuttu Sir kelambi ponaru….Ellorum expect panna madhiri when he was leaving, I didn’t cry, instead Sugi kka cried like hell and Hari anna avangala samadhanam panradhukulla podhum podhum nu ayiduchu…..

    Since my main focus left B’lore, suthi irukaravangallam appo dhan kannula pattanga….Slowly I got along with my PG mates….Aakash ponadhukku appuram vanda first weekend naan Sugi kka veetukku pogala… I felt I might be invading their(Sugi and Hari’s) privacy….But Sugi kka enakku phone panni sema dose vittanga…naan oru latcham sorry ketu next weekend kandippa varennu solliten…Avanga Aakash kittayum “Ennada thambi nee illana ava inga vara maatala” nu solla, avan “Vidu Sugi, ava PG mates kuda palagattum” nu bathil solla, Akka kaduppagi “Yenda idhaye naan, avala independenta irukka vidu nu sonnappo, ennavo periya dialogue lam sonna” nu ketka, avan paatula bathil sonnadha(adhudhan avanukku kai vandha kalayache
    ) diary la ezhudhi irukaan….Enna paatu nu naan ketka mudiyadhu… Because diary la irukaradhukku endha explanationum kettu sandai poda kudadhu nu sollidhan dhairiyama diary kuduthirukaan…..

    Sir daily enakku phone panni set of questions ketpaaru 1) Kalaila eppo ezhundha??? Oval kudichiya?? Enna saapitta?? Eppo, eppadi office pona?? STRAP gang lam ellorum vandhacha?? Etc., etc., Konja naal kalithu naan “Haayoh!! Neeyum un questionsum…Arukudhu enakku” solluven…Ana avan usual a call panra time kku call panna lena “naan inga enna panrano, edhu panrano nu, konjam kuda kavalai illama, kandukama enna panara” nu nalla sandai poduven….So edhukku vambu nnu avan naan aluthukittalum paravallannu avanoda questions kettu, adhukku bathil solladha varai vida maattan…ippavum
    .. Enakku Kathak kathukkanumnu aasai….But timings othu varadhudhala, sogama irundhen…Aakash adhukku “madame kku aadina kaal chumma irukadho” nu kindal pannan….Then PG la ennoda pakkathu room mate was going for Salsa class…So naanum avaloda class la join pannen, but different timing la… Soon I was enjoying it and started loving “Latin” music and language too….Bharathanatiyam already kathu irundhadhala, Salsa(which needs your body to be flexible) was a cake walk for me and soon I was part of the Salsa summit….Just a day before he came to wish me luck with my Salsa Shoes. My happiness knew no bounds!!

    Avlo naal kalichu paarkarom, appayum sir veetukku vandhavudan PS3 la vilayaduran…naanga kaduppagi parka “indha adrenaline rush lam ungalukku puriyadhu” nu solli nakkal vera…Oru valiya Sir vilayadi mudichu, Nethra kku paatu padi, naanga dinner saapita appuram as usual enga arattai kacheri arambichom…Naan ennoda aerobics class, Salsa class pathilam solla, avan college la irukkara chics pathi sollitu, adhula oru ponnu avan kaluthula potu irukara “othai rudhrakasham”(he always wears it with a black thread from his school days and we use to tease as “Jeeva’s kavasa kundalam”) pathi ketka, avan sirichutte(andha ponnu kita seriousa dhan) college la enga kitta sonna adhey poi ya solli irukan…. Enna dhan kova pada try pannalum Enakkum adha ketu semaya sirippu vandhuruchu… Such a hopeless flirt he is!!!! Sugi kka kuda “Eppadiyellem ponnunga vandhu unakkunnu maatudhu paaru” nu solli sirikka arambichuttanga….

    Next day we all were supposed to go for a long drive to a CCD close to Mysore, have coffee n come back. Last minute la Hari anna kku hospitala irundhu emergency call vandhadhala, naanga rendu peru mattum ponom….Nama NICE road la oru drive poitu vandhuralam nu naan suggest pannen….Naan drive panren sonnen….Sir romba kindala “Naan veetukku one piece la thirumba varanum…Allitu vara madhiri panna maatiye ….appadi, eppadi” nu sonnan…naan back adikama stronga ninnu Car keys eduthikitten….Sugi kka mattum kamukama sirichanga….I just took the car out from the parking lot so easily and drove really well…Avan adhukku “kaanukutti, unakku evlo nalla car otta theriyuma?? Akil(my cousin) vera madhiri sonnane” nu parata vera seidhan….The moment we entered NICE road Hari anna voda BMW en kaila parandhuchu….Top gear la irundhu keela varave illa(idha type pannum bodhu kooda I’m experiencing the same queasy feeling in my stomach…hehehe)….First 1km(which I crossed in seconds) he just didn’t react….Adhukkappuram “Ratchasi” nu sollitu hand brake la kai vechuttu”hey olunga cara erakki side la park pannu…illa hand brake a izhuthuruven nu sonnan….Naan oru vetri sirippoda pressed the accelerator more n more…..I knew too well that he won’t pull the hand brake as the car will skid if he does that….NICE corridor end la vandhu niruthittu(I could see the ABS, ESP, EBD all coming in to action in the dashboard as it was really a hard braking…hehehe), avana pola eyebrows raise pannitu “ U know this is called “Adrenaline Rush”, chumma NFS la varadhu kidaiyadhu….yennamo ennai pathi ellam theriyum nu peethikira….Idhu eppadi??? Howz my driving prowess” nu nakkala ketka, he just couldn’t believe what he was hearing…..I could see the transformations in him from Stunned to Confused to Surprised to Smiling to heart- felt grinning…. Thalaya ati “U won this round, but” thirumba thalaya ati “romba kastam” nu sollitu, car la irundhu yerangi driver side vandhu, Key eduthuttu “Ellam sari, nee ippo burn panna calories kku vaa unakku oru vanilla latte(ippovum my favourite) vangi tharen” nu sollite en seat belt claspayum releasae pannitan…My point proven, I just obeyed him all smiles
    …. Indha incident kku appuram, Sir avaroda “PS3, Mars effect, NFS, F1 racing” pathina adrenaline commentsellam konjam adakki vaasikarar….Adhuvum naan car otarennu solliye I scare the hell out of him….Ippovum when he is out of station and if I’m driving, I’ll get a SMS from him as “Drive Saf(n)e”…..Warewa, I broke Mr.Cool’s icy demeanor for the second time….What a victory for me!!!!!!!

    Aakash diary quote: Today I learnt that MY fiery little WITCH, who barely reach my shoulders, has the penchant to drive like a bat out of hell….She is insane, but a lovable one in that!!!!


    Idha padichu ennala sandai podama irukka mudiyuma…Ippodhan(24.10.2012 11:00pm) avanukku phone panni, “Naan yenna witcha?? Vavvala(adhanga Bat)?? Insane a?? Nee nedumaram madhiri valanthuttu enna shoulder kku kuda yetta mattenu solraya…Idhellam theirnjudhana kalyanam panna??” nu ketka, Thalaivar trade mark sirippoda “Adi en azhagana ratchasiye, 2008 Diary padichittu ennamo naan ippo kalyanathukku appuram ezhudhina madhiri sandai podara….ellathayum late a dhan therinju, purinjupiya nee…Nee ippadi expalanations, questions, kettu sandai pota, deala break panni diary a pudungikkuven… Unakku nalaikku class irukulla…Poi thuungu…. Sandaiya Friday morning naan vandhavudan podu… Thangam…Love U…Miss U…GN..SD…nu moochu vidama en style la pesittu phone a vechuttan…Ini naan evlo time call pannalum edukka vera mattan(he is busy in his new Ad campaign)… varattum avan nerla………

    Enakkum sleep, sleep a varudhu, so meedhi update appuram type panren….


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    It’s now 2008 end and in to 2009………..

    Meanwhile, I completed ~1.5 years @ work and had to travel abroad for 6 months….I was thrilled, but enna oru kuraiya irundadhuna “STRAP” gang la irundhu only I was supposed to go….Samar(Pahadi) will join me after 3 months ngra visayam konjam aarudhala irundhadhu….Office la ippadina veetla amma kku naan yeppadi thaniya poi manage pannuven, samaikka vera suthamma theriyadheynnu orey kavalaila irundhanga….Obviousa avanga soga vibes my chithi, perimma, nandu, sindu kellam paravuchu….Avangalai yellam appa handle panna, en passport la VISA stamp panni vanthuruchu….From the moment my travel got conformed, Aakash was coming to B’lore every alternate weeks…vera edhukku enakku shopping panna dhan….Sooooooooooo many jackets, pull overs, cardigans, sweat shirts…..ippadi yellam vangi pack panni , oru valiya naan kelambara naal vandhadhu….

    As usual enga parambaraiye came to B’lore for my send-off….Avanga elloraiyum Sugi kka veetla thanga vaika mudiyadhngradhala, service apartment parthu avangala comfortable a thanga vekkara poruppu yaarukku irundhadhu nu ungalukku naan solla vendiyadhu illa….I still remember when my family reached Hosur-B’lore border, avanga enakku call pannala….Naan thungittu irupen illaya adhan
    …..So namma hero avangala receive panni, thanga vechu, adhukku appuram enna PG la pick panna vandhar oru warning oda “Innum 10 min la PG kku velila vaa….Enna anga vandhu wait panna vekkadha”….Naan yaaru sari sari nu thalaiyattitu, appodhan towel eduthuttu bathroom kku paranthen….Aakash vandha solla solli en room mate kitta sollitu ponen…Avasarama kulichu kaila kedacha dress eduthu pottutu oru periya bag thukkitu odi vandha, ennoda pakkathu room mate Mona kooda pesittu(?????) irundhan…. Naan odi varadha paarthavudan, he met me half way through, took the bag from me as if it weighed next to nothing, dumped it at the back, told Mona “Tough luck” and car a start pannitan….Mona sirichutte took me in a bear hug and said “Happy n Safe journey Rabbit(adhu naan frock pottu, adhukku mela jacket with hood pottu irundhen, when we met first. Adhula irundhu she calls me that, even now)…Stay in touch”….. Naan car la yerina odaney “Hey cork screw(idhu en mudiala vandha peru) poi sollama sollu….Naan call pannopo dhana kulikka pona” nu kettan…naan adhukku vevarama bathil sollama “Edhukkuda enna cork screw nu solra…. Ippo kooda Triparna, Neha kitta en mudiya paarthu “Uski baal achi hena” nu sonna theriyumanu sollitu, adhukku avan respond panna time kudukama “Mona kitta enna pesittu irundha” nu ketten…Adhukku avan “Until Priya returns, won’t you be bored in B’lore Jeeva?? BTW where’s your bike?? And I don’t mind keeping you company” nu ketta , adhukku dhan “tough luck” nu sonnen nu sonnan…Naan “ava unakku oru peru vechu irukka… BB= Beauty + Brains => He is an irresistible combo Rabbit nu eppa paru unnai pathi enkita kettute iruppanu sonnen”…avan adhukku enna muraichittu “avalukku naan ippo oru peru vechu iruken CC” nu sonnan… CC ya?? Appadinanu naan mulikka “Cultureless Creature” nu sollitu, nee pecha mathadha….Un PG vasalla ennai weight panna vekkadha, un PG mates kellam oru aritificial plastic smile a otta vechu kittu wait panna, ennala mudiyadhu nu solli iruken la nnu avan lecture thodanga, naan “Nee bike la vandhu iruppa….BByum, CCyum jolly a oru ride poittu varattumnu dhan naan late a vandhen” nu appaviya sonnen….Avan as usual dimple sirippoda “kozhupudi unakku….appadi mattum naan avala en bike la kupittu poi irunthen, nee vandhu avala kizha thalli iruppa” nu sonnan….Naan “Thappu…thappu…avala thalli vittiruka matten, but unnai thalli vittu irupen”nu sonnen…..When he started to laugh, I added “pinna…naan poi seekirama amma vellam parka vendama….adha vittu nee avaloda ride pona, adhukku dhan appadi panni iruppen” nu sonnen….Innum adhigama sirichuttu avan “correct…correct…nee adhukaga mattum dhan appadi panni irupen” nu sollitu, he continued laughing….

    Akash diary la irundhu: She came running towards me and I don’t know what propelled me to meet her half way through…..Now I realize how much I……………….(sathiyama diary la ippadi dots dhan vechu irundhan) her….. teddy skirt, wet cork screw curls, ballerina shoes and all………

    He dropped me at the service apartment and gave my much needed time with my folks…He said he’ll meet me directly at the airport…..My flight was in the midnight….Oru valiya ellorodum konji kulavi, amma sambar, rasam eppadi vekkiradhu?? Variety rice eppadi seiyaradhunu” recipe ezhudhi kudutha notebook a pack pannitu, aasirvadham vangarennu ella perusunga kaalla vizhundhu, nalla panam collection pannitu we left to the airport…Aakash, Sugi kka family, Tarang, Dharan(my cousin) were already there….When I was about to leave to collect my boarding pass, he just pulled my bag and I turned back to look at him(Actually Tarang took a photo of us here with he pulling and me turning and it came out quite beautiful….It’s framed in our living room in B’lore…lovely, memorable moments)…..En mudiya odhukki “Hey button, unga appa solra madhiri “nee ellam velila pogum bodhu enna colour shirt podaradhunnu yosippa, ana en ponnu enna colour car la poradhunnu yosippa” ngra dialogue marandhuttu “endha colour flight la poradhunnu yosikama, correctana flight a board panni, bathrama poittu vaa” nu sonnan….That def’ly brought a smile to my face
    …He too smiled and said “Ippo Kelambu”……Hayyoh!! Neenga en appa pathi thappa ninaikaradhukku munnadi, adhu yenga appa sonna dialogue illainga…Adhu namma actor Prakash Raj “Thiruvilaiyadal Aarambam” padathula Dhanush kitta solra dialogue….Avaru sonnalum sonnaru, ivanum, ivanoda jaalra(adhan Dhinu, Vicky) lam eppa paru indha dialogue solli ennai otikitte irukkunga….Generally I used to respond him as “unga veetlayum dhana car irukkunnu” solven…avan adhukkum asarama “But unga veetla madhiri color colora dress ku match a illaiye” nu kaiya virippan….Enakku muraikaradhu thavira vera vazhi irukaadhu….After collecting the boarding pass, wait pannum bodhu I realized that he said that dialogue just to bring a smile in to my face. Because enakku kannula irundhu thanni muttikitu irundadhu, on seeing my mom crying(chithi was scolding and pacifying her)….Naan kelambu bodhu azhudha innoru alu Nethra kutti….Amma silenta azhudhanga….Nethra “Piya…Piya” nu satham pottu sema azhugachi…..

    Safely I reached my destination and days passed-by. My attempt at cooking ended up pretty well. Ennoda first sambar a photo eduthu appakku(ofcourse Aakash kkumdhan) mail pannen
    … Home sicklam nirayave irundhadhu…(Euro)Trip poitu vandha udaney I used to describe the place and tell “correctana companyoda idhellam enjoy pannanum….Namellam inga trip varanum” nu sollven…Avan adhukku hmmm solli kettutu irupaan….Illa “Nee ippadiye solli, Europe fulla suthittu vaa” nu solli kindal pannuvan…Illa “namellam nu nee yaar yaariyellam solar” nu kelviya kettu en uyirai vaanguvan….Once I told him that I’m going to drive a Porsche car on our trip to Austrian country side….He almost dropped the phone on the other end….He just didn’t react….But after we spoke, he immediately called Samar and made sure that I drive by the safety norms…..Okie, ennioda trip la nadandha adventure pathi yellam sollanumna naan ippodahikku idha mudikka maaten…So cut short pannittu Mukiyamana rendu visayatha pathi mattum solren….
    1. I ran around and got a Armani watch for him, which made Samar to call him and tell “Jee u got to marry her for this atleast you know….She didn’t even bother to look at the watches for herself and we know, how she goes gaga over wrist watches and cars….Even I tried to tempt her by dragging her to other sections”…..Idhukku Aakash enna bathil sonnanu diary la ezhudhala, andha Samar pahadi kitta kettalum solla mattengran….
    2. Once on my VOIP call to him, his batch mate attended his mobile as he was taking a shower. He told him “Hey is she your girl??? If yes, then don’t miss her” nu. Adhukku he replied candidly “Yeah, I wish you would tell the same thing when you hear her yelling at me with her throat infection”. Ithoda vittrundha paravala he wrote in the diary “We shared a good laugh at her cost” (how dare he????)…..


    Six months onsite a cut short pannitu, 4.5 months la naan odi vanthutten(home sick thaanga mudila)…Again my precious family was there to receive me….Aakash and co, Hari anna side la oru condolence kaga poittanga…Then veet la poi seeradittu, back to B’lore…..I should tell you this ladies, Aakash was over the moon, when I gave him his much coveted watch.

    Amidst of all this, my cousin sis Kavi got married. Next in queue to get married was none other than me. I still remember one of my Aaya asking appa “Yeh Kannu, Pullaikku pakka arambika vendiyadhudhana” and his reply “hmmm…Paakalanga….2010 la guru balan varudhu… Eppadiyum 2011 la, avalukku 24 mudiyaradhukulla panneeralam”….

    So 2010 la enna nadandhadhu?? Ippo weekend start ayitadhala, I’ll post the rest in next week!!


    Nice weekend to all of You!!



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    2010 la enakku yeppadi patta maappillai venum nu yenga veetla kettathoda indha update arambikaren…..

    Naan yerkanave sonnadhu pol, next in queue to get married in my family was me….So unakku eppadi maapillai venumnu oru million dollar kelviya appa ketka, naan yenna irukka koodadhunnu mattum sonnen…Adhu “Abroad la irukka koodadhu(adhu dhan avangalukkum first criteria), Software line la irukka koodadhu so that I’ll not get bored nu sonnen….Indha topica naan office la strap gang kitta solla, discussion arambamachu…Adhula conclude panna visayangal, U and U’r better half should have physical, emotional and intellectual bonding….Then life would be good!!!! Idha pathi pesum bodhu naan mind la, enakkum, Aakashkkum indha bonding eppadi irukkumnu yosichukittu irundhen… When I came to earth and realized what I was doing, it scared the hell out of me……

    As usual, Aakash kitta phone la pesum bodhu, appa yen kitta kettadhi pathi sonnen….Sir appo avanga Egypt trip kku ready ayittu irundhaaru…..So naan sonna visayathoda impact avanukku perusa illa…So vazhakkam pola “Yeppadiyum veetoda maapillai dhan unakku vara poran, edhukku indha kelviya unnai kettanga, unnai vera oru periya manusiya nenachu madhichuttangannu nee appadiye parakadha nu solli oru sandaiya start panni vittutu, jollya trip kku kelambi poitan….Andha sandai kku naduvulayum naan enga strap gang discussion pathiyum, naan yosithadhaiyum sonnen, adhukkum namma hero ennai tease pannitu, kadupethi vittutu phone a cut pannitan(He was in airport)…..

    Aakash diary la irundhu: Badly want to catch a flight to B’lore n see her…..THIS IS CRAZY!!!!! Test for my endurance starts…………………

    Amidst of all these, I got to know that Div and Bala got married in a register office without her parents consent…To add oil to the fury, Aakash knew about their plan from the start and didn’t tell me anything…Avanga ippadi pannadha vida Aakash enkitta solladhudhan hurt me so muchL
    ….Adhukku sir explanation kudukarar “Hey button, idhu unakku thevai illadhadhu nu dhan sollala…Idhu mattum illa innum neraya visayam unkitta sollama naan irukalaam(????)……Adhukku reason nee idhellam therinja kasta paduvenudhan….Idhellam nenachu kuzhapama, nee eppavum pola jollya iru….I very well know what you should know n what you shouldn’t”….But naan purinjukama sandai pottu upseta irundhen…. For the first time, he didn’t try very hard to console me….He knew very well that I’ll come to terms soon…
    Oru vazhiya Div parents avangala accept pannitaanga(vera vazhi), so reception vechanga and obviously we were invited….Adhu varaikkum naan Aakash kuda sariya pesala…Avanga reception la avan “hey kannukutti purinjokodi!! Avanga rendu perum paaru anga sirichitu irukaanga….nee thevai illama enkita kaayadha….” nu solla, adhukku vazhakkam pola andha Dhinu pakkiyum “Amma raja veetu kannukutti, padam paarkaradhilaye indha padam unakku othu varadhunu solravanga naanga…So adhu madhiri dhan idhuvum…so overa scene pottu un muttai kanna vechu yengala mirrattadha” nu othi udhittu “Machi un range kku nee yen indha mootai puchi kittayellam explanation kuduthuttu irukara” nu en kaduppai avan pakkam thiruppi vittu kittan…Neenga ninaipadhu correct dhan ippo enakkum Dhinu kkum sandai arambithu, adhu vettu kuthula mudiyaradhukku munnadi Preeth and Aakash niruthitaanga….

    Aakash diary la irundhu: When we will she ever understand that I would never want to hurt (forget about hurt, even distress her) her even in my wildest dreams…..

    Meanwhile, he excelled in MBA and had to go to US for his study/survey project…..Avanoda send-off bodhu naan azhudha azhugaila B’lore aiportey en kaneerla midhandhadhu…..Sugi-kka and athai(his mom) were stunned seeing me crying to that extent….He took my hands n told “Hey Button, nee azha maatta nu enakku promise panni irukey illa….Just 3 months, I’ll be back….Ahmedabad la irukara madhiri dhan idhuvum….Nee enna vittutu nalla Europe suthi paarthu aattam potta illa…Now it’s my turn….US Striptease eppadi irukku nu unakku solren” nu sirikka, naan avan sonnadhan akka n athai kitta pottu kudukara velaila moozhghi, avan check-in panna ponadhaye gavanikala

    Inga Preethoda akka kalyanam vandhadhu…Adhukku I went with amma n appa…..Anga I was introduced to one of her neighbours….They invited me home….Naan “ivanga yenna nammala invite panraangannu muzhikka, avanga “Un friend veetukku ethirthama madhiri dhan enga veedu…So next time anga varappo kandippa enga veetukkumm varanum” nu sonnanga….Appavum naan avangala puriyadha madhiri parka, appa “Pri, avangala enakku club vazhiya theriyum….Avanga son Prem kooda namma Dharan(my cousin) friend dhan” nu sonnanga…Andha visayatha naan comprehend panradhukulla Prem came there and he was introduced to me as a Doctor….Naan confuse agi “Appuram eppadi Dharan kku friend nu” ketka he replied “They were boarding school friends”….I didn’t care much, so Preeth anga vara naan oru bye sollitu went with her towards the dining room and when the weekend was over I came back to B’lore…..

    One evening my Chithi called me n asked about my opinion about Prem….Naan casual perusa onnum illa nu solliten….She felt so happy and told me not to worry that she’ll handle this matter….Enakku appavum onnum purila…..Then mom called n asked me to come home again that weekend….I was surprised n asked her the reason….She wasn’t ready to give me a direct answer, so naanum onnum perusa eduthukama ticketellam kidaikadhu nu sonnen….For the first time in my life, I could feel that my mother was angry(seriously) on me…She said “Nagaraj (our car driver anna), unnai un PG la irundhu pick panna already kilambittar…so nee kelvi ketkama kilambi vaa” nu sollitaanga….I was so irritated and told that conversation to Aakash(Skype la dhan)…..As usual Mr.Cool said “Hey popcorn unakku veettukku pogaradhukku kasakudha enna?? Oorlandhu varappovey next porodhukku innum ethanai naal irukunnu coutinga start panra aaldhana nee….So romba panama poittuva….Eppadiyum nee thirumba varumbodhu naanum B’lore vanthiduven”….Naanum oorukku kilambitten….


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    Veetla situation was very unusual…Ellorum edho tension la irukara madhiri irundhadhu….Chithi n Chithappa vandhaanga….Even Akil n Adhi were very quite….Naan ammayi, thatha kitta pesittu varumbodhu, I could hear that Chithi was arguing ferociously with appa n Chithappa was trying to control her….Appa was replying her “Raji sothu nammala vida kammiya irundha yenna….Kudumbam nalla kudumbam….paiyanum nalla irukaar…Adhuvum illama namakku pakkathulayum irukaanga… nenacha nama poga mudiyum” appadinu sollitu irundhanga….Adhukku Chithi “Mama, enakku innum vera yedam paarkalam nu thonudhu… Business panra maapillai dhan namakku othu varum…yenna nalaikku namma business paarkanumla….eppadi paarkara mudhal maapillaike kalyanam panni kudukanumnu yenna kattayam??? Avalukenna vayasayiducha” nu ketka, to my horror I understood everything n I was speechless….On seeing me Chithi added “Adhuvum illama naan Pri thangathu kitta kettan…avalukkum indha paiyana pathi perusa abiprayam onnum illa”…..Hearing that amma moved forward and before anyone could realize she slapped me hard on my cheek and said “Oh!! Nee andha alavukku valarnthuttiya…Yenna nenachu kitta irukara un manasila”…..Chithi was the first to react and said “Enna amma nee??? Idhuvaraikkum chellam konji valartha pullaya adikara?? Appadi ungalukku poruthamana maappillai thedi kalyanam panaradhukku siramama irundha, naan paarthukiren vittudunga….Enga veetukku kuttitu poi naan avalukku pidichamana, poruthamana, maapillai paarthu kalyanam panni vechukiren….” Chithappa interfered and said “Raji nee konjam vaaya mudittu poi Pri samadhanam pannu…Annan(my dad) yellam yosichudhan pannuvaanga”….Chithi dragged me inside the bedroom and said “Thangam nee kavalaye padadha…naan paarthukiren”….Then my mom entered and touched my cheek n said “romba vazhikudha kannu???”…Chithi felt angry again and said “Nee adicha valiya vida avalukku nee adicha adhirchi dhan jaasthiya irukkum…Eppadi kanni poi irukku paaru”…. Hearing that amma started crying, followed by me n Chithi….

    Azhudhu mudinjappuram, I told them that I didn’t realize what was happening around me until I heard Chithi’s argument….Amma said “Enakku Chithi unakku pidikalaikannu solli appa kooda argue pannitu irundha…Adhuvum illama unnai oorukku vara sonna nee olunga respond pannala….Idhellam serndhu tension la dhan adichutten”…..Now I gained upper hand and started shouting at my mom how dare they made that Prem to see me in Preeth’s sis marriage without my knowledge….She tried to calm me by telling that was just a casual encounter as his dad just called my dad that day morning and made that set up…She also emphasized that nobody will force me in to doing anything I don’t like…..Coming to the issue, she hesistantly added that tomorrow they are coming to my home as his sister is travelling abroad the next day and she wants to meet me….Again I felt so angry and refused point blank that I’ll not agree for that “ponnu paarkaradhu”…..Now Chithi intervened and said “Thangam nee onnum panna vendam…eppavum pola iru….Avanga nalaikku vanthuttu pogattum….Ippo poi neenga vara vendamnu sonna adhu nalla irukadhu…..kalyana vayasula ponnu irundha, naalu peru katka dhan seivaanga…but I assure you unakku pidikadha , en enakku pidikadha edhuvum nadakka naan vida matten…Ippo Akil kku Iavan record note la varayanumaam…Pls varanju kuduthiru thangam…Illaina en uyira vaanguvaan”…. I took Akil’s record note book and went….

    Next day they came and went….Naan skirt la irukadha paarthu ammavum, chithiyum romba kenji kenji kettadhala, periya manasu panni oru salwar eduthu pottutu, avanga vandhadhum poi vaanga, nalla irukeengala???(I was taught to do that to who ever comes home) nu kettutu Akil, Adhiyoda pudhu games a continue panna poitten….Chithi later told me that they were quite stunned by my attitude and she really couldn’t hide her smile…..After that hullabulla episode, Chithi took me alone and asked “thangam, unakku edhunala indha paiyana pidikala??? Enakku Thozhil panra paiyana, namma status kku equala irukkamnu thonadhala vendamnu sonnen??” I said “Enakku avanoda dressing sense pidikalai…. Kalyanathukku, adhuvum oru pudhu ponna meet panna varum bodhu, Aakash kadippa appadi dress pannittu vanthirukka maattaan”……She was stunned and didn’t ask me any other question….But I knew that she was really contemplating something in her mind and she gave me a look of utter astonishment!!!!!

    That evening I was coming back to B’lore and in the car I was retelecasting everything in my mind….. Suddenly it dawned and I asked myself “naana???”



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    Buddha kku Bodhi marathukku adiyil kidaicha ahdyedhan(?????) enakkum car la kidaichudhunnu ninaikaren But I was so confused as what to do with it…..Naan ippadi inga kuzhambikittu irukka en hero anga Las Vegasla sema aattam pottutu irundhirukaan…..Ippadiye one week had gone by and Akil, my little cousin called me and sadly said “Perippa andha Prem unakku vendamnu sollitaanga…Yenna he FRCS kaga London poganumam….nee eppadi engalayellam vittu iruppa”…..Naan sandhosathula vaai moodi irukka, adha thappa eduthikitta Akil “Pri, eppadiyum he is so tall for you, so adhunala he is not a good match”….idhukkumela enna solleerupano, naan nanavulaguthukku vandhu “Oui katti karumbe, (naan appadithan avana kupiduven ippavum….Adhu avanukku pidikadhungradhu vera visayam) niruthu…niruthu…idhellam unakku eppadi theriyum…amma, perimma llam pesum bodhu ottu ketta dhana??” nu siruchutey ketka, avan tension agi “Cha…Podi….Unakku poi sonnen paaru” nu romba murukkikittan….But avana eppadi convince panradhunu dhan enakkku nalla theriyumay…So no worries nu enakku naane sollikittu callai cut panniten….Indha idathula naan innoru visayamum kandippa sollanum…Idhey Akil nettayan(He is in his college now and he is already 6’3…kodumai da saami…engirundhudhan vandhu vaachangalo enakku nu…purushan la irundhu Thambi varaikkum ippadi nettaiya:() enakkum, Aakashkkum irukara height difference pathi never opens his mouth…..Vitta Jeeva mama fan club kku thalaivangra range la pasathai pozhinju, avan vaal pidichuttu thirivaan….If they are together, my BP is sure to touch the roof atleast for a spike!!!!!

    Aakash came back from US….As usual, he was waiting outside my PG with lots of gifts….I gave him my plastic smile and started my one liners with “hmmm” for all his excited talks….He actually tried all those sickeningly scary rides in Stratosphere in Las Vegas(Net la serach panni parunga indha rides pathi)….Seeing the videos I just couldn’t keep mum and started “Arivirukka, adhu yenna yeppa paarthalum munjila oru sirippu unakku”…..For that taunt he actually threw back his head and laughed his heart out…..That made me to get almost physically violent with him….So he stopped laughing and smilingly said “Ada en vanaramay(????) I really missed U….Ippo unakku en munjila sirippu irukaradhudhan prachanaiya illa naan vangittu vandha US brand watchesellam unnoda sabadhatha vittu eppadi kattradhunnu kaduppa???”…Adhu yenna ennoda sabadham nu ketkareengala…..I’m crazy on wrist watches…Especially on Swiss brand watches…..Adhai enga gang valakkam pola once tease panni provoke panna, naanum valakkam pola pongi ezhundhu “Ama, enakku Swiss watch dhan pidikkum…Adhukenna ippo….naan appadithan irupen… Ungalukkenna…blah…blah…blah…nu sollitu kadaisiya Naan vera country make (idhulla Titan mattum ennoda naattu patrala exception
    ) watch kattave maatten at any cost” nu solli tholachutten… Adha Sir gnyabagam vachittu dhan oru watch illa, naalu watch( 1 Tommy Hilfiger, 1 DKNY, 1 Fossil, 1 Diesel) vaangittu vandhirundhar…..Eppadi irukaan parunga??? This added oil in the already troubled water and I literally punctured his ears for his crazy ride out in Las Vegas(He later clarified after we were married that he took those 3 rides as a challenge for one as none of his friends were game for that and second he had that silly notion that if he successfully finish those rides, he’ll get me for sure…Hearing that I was over the moon and started wearing those US watches after that)….. and all my pent up emotions came out….

    I told him what happened at home and can you imagine what was his response “Appo vera vazhi illa naama kalyanam pannikka vendiyadhudhan”….I thought he was out of his mind…Then what, I just couldn’t contemplate that he had the gall to make fun even when I’m going ballistic….Oh, unagalukku, yen enakku ivlo kovam vandhadhu on his words nu puriyalaya….When we were in college, they used to do this a lot…Naanga nadandhu poittu irukumbodhu, kammunu pesittu dhan varuvaanga….professor yaravadhu vicinity la irundha pochu…. Avlodhan indha vaanaranga, udaney kaiya vandhu pidichikka vendiyadhu….Naama enna nadakudhu nu realize panradhukulla, professor nammala paarthu oru madhiriyana look kuduthittu povaanga…..Idhungalukku orey kondattam agi hi-five koduthukkunga… Naanga muraichittu, “yenda ippadi panreenga” nu ketta, adhukku “Yen, idhukku enna udaney panchayata kooti, namma rendu perukkum kalayanam panni vechiruvaangala??? Enakku onnum prachinai illa….Nee BE mudichittu, velaikku poi, enna kankalangama kaapathuvena sollu, adho anga namma dept. pschyo varudhu, ippavum kaiya pidikaren….Enna machi naan solradhu” nu kettu thirumba high-five koduthukkunga…Engalukku thalaila adichikaradha thavira vera vazhi irukadhu…..Indha kodumaya naan, Preeth, Radhi, Div ellorumay anubavichu tholachirukom ngradhudhan inga highlight….. So almost similar dialogue, adhuvum konjam kooda sirikkama avan sollavum, naan kochukittu poitten…

    Then samadhanam panni, “Ippo edhukku nee upset ta irukaney ennaku purilla kannukutti….Aakash appadi dress panna maattan solliruka…So what???? Yenna pathi ippadhan unga veetla pesaraya….. illaiye…Nee “Naan Aakasha dhan kalyanam panna poren solli irundha, ippo nee ippadi aduthu enna panradhunnu muzhikaradhula oru artham irukku…” sonnan…Naan “Illai, Chithi yedho enna vidhyasama paarkara madhiri irundhadhu” nu sonnen….Appadi Chithi kku edhavadhu thonirundha unkitta kandippa kettu irupaangalla??? So nee romba yosichu kuzhappama iru…..Naan konjam normal kku vandhavudan, valakkam pola “Nalla velai andha Prem thapichaan” nu solli, ennai divert pannitaan….That night I was in confusion…”Ennadhu nammala ponnu paartha incident sonna, ivan ippovum cool as cucumber irukaan” nu ninaikumbodhu dhan naan car la varum bodhu yosichu paartha visayangala avan kitta sollave illainu I realized…..Unlike him, he was very proud of the fact that I can’t keep(hide) things from him…..Now this is a first!!!!!!



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    Sir inga enkitta supera dialogue vittutu, anga Sugi kka veetla sema sogama vayalin vaasikadha kuraiya irukka, poruka mudiyadha avanga arumai akka “Ennada un thozhi inga vara maattennu sollitala?? Adhan nee upsetta irukiya” nu kettirukaanga….Ivan nadandhadha solla, akka “Idhu ethirpaarthadhudhana Jeeva… Eppadiyum oru naal avalukku kalyanam agadhana pogudhu” nu solli irukaanga….Appavum avan sogama irukka, Akka vilaiyattukku “ippo enna, unakkum vena naanga ponnu paarkirom….Pri kalyanathukku munnadi unakku vechurulam…enakkum pattu pudavai, nagaiyellam kidaikkum” nu sirichukittey solla, Mr.Cool lost his cool and said “ularadha Sugi…..Naan yaaraiyum kalyaname panna poradhilla” nu solla, Akka then realized the seriousness of the matter….She got angry and said “Unakenna periya hero nnu ninaippa….Mudhala indha kadhal orumurai dhan vazhkai la pookum nu loosu thanama padam edukkaravangala stop pannanum”….For her jibe, he replied “Illa Sugi, idhu naan US la irukum bodhey yosichadhudhan….Ennala kandippa avala marakka mudiyadhu….Unga compulsion kaga naan vera ponna kalyanam pannikitta, I can’t give my 100% to her….Adhu paavam….Konjam yosicha unakke puriyum….Engayavadhu teddy paartha, ava dance adina paatu ketta, blah…blah…(type panna kai valikudhu…adhan bla..blah pottuten)adhai vidu Nethra paatha kooda, I just can’t stop myself from thinking about her…So nee ennai purinjukko….Amma, Appa, Sathyan kellam nee dhan puriya vekkanum”….Sugi kka was stunned it seems…Avanga Hari anna kitta “Naandhan avanoda indha nelamaikku karanam….Naandhan avala pakkathula vechuttey overcome pannuda thambi nnu sonnen…Yeppo avan avala pathi sollitu, idhu workout agadhunnu sonnano, appave I should have advised him to stay out of this” nu solli pozhambi irukaanga….Adhukku Hari anna “Time is the best healer Sugi…So avanukku konjam time kudukalam….appuram enna panradhunnu mudivu pannalam” nu sollirukaanga….He was slowly entering his shell and Sugi kka romba varuthapattu “Jeeva Sathyan friend oru psychiatrist dhana…naama appointment vaangittu poi paarthuttu varalamnu…In this time and age idhellam thappe illainu” solla Aakash”Hayyoh, Sugi!!!! Enakku konjam time kudu…I’ll compose myself…..Ippadiye depressedalam irukka maatten…Kalyanamdhan pannikka maatten…But otherwise I’ll be back to normal in no time…nee romba kavala padadha” nu sollirukaan…

    Idhellam enga engagement mudinjappuram sugi kka enkitta sollitu “He thinks the world of U…..Nee avana happya vechuko” nu sonnanga….Naan idhai Aakash kitta “Hey nee yenna overa sugi kka kitta dailogue vittu avangala bayamuruthittiya nu ketka, adhukku avan trademark sirippu dhan bathil

    Inga situation ippadi irukka, en(ga) friend Dhinu kku indha ponnu partha visayam, en cousin Dharan vazhiya theriya, avan Aakasha kupittu kettirukaan…..Avan sariya respond pannala pola….Avan next Preethu kupittu, enakku call panni enna nadakudhunnu ketka sollirukaan…Adhukku ava “Yen nee pesa maatiya avakitta” nu ketka, avan “ippo naan irukara moodla avakitta pesina, kandippa avala hurt panniruven…illa confuse panniruven” So nee kupidu avala nu sollirukaan….So Preeth called me and eduthavudaney “Pri, unakkum Jeevakkum enna nadakudhu anga???” nu ketta…naan puriyama onnum illaiye nu sonnen…Ava “podhum Pri….Thungaravangala ezhuppalam….nadikaravangala onnum panna mudiyadhu” nu sonna…Ippo enakku ava yedha pathi solranu purinjiruchu….naan adhukku “Preeth avanukku enna pidikumnu theriyum….But not even once I Love You or enna kalyanam pannikonnu avan sonnadhu kidaiyadhu” nu sonnen… Adhukku ava “Avan appadi sonna respond panra alavukku unakku maturity irukka….Avan solli, nee loosu madhiri kochu kitta or as usual react panna enna panradhu nu avan ninaikarannu enakku thonudhu….Whatever he’ll go mad if your response is not good” nu solla, naan “Precisely my point….Appadi oru tight corner la avan enna kandippa nirutha maattan….He very well understands that I don’t want to hurt him…So he’ll never force me to choose between him and my family” nu sonnen, By that time I was almost crying…..Preeth tension agi “Sorry Pri…Sorry” nu solla, naan samalippa “Don’t you think he deserves a much better girl than me… Enna madhiri sandai podadha, sparks fly illadha ponna, avanukku kidaika vendama” nu ketka avalum lesa sirichuttey “enna panradhu, avan dhan enakku indha muttai kaaniye podhum….Avadhan enakku venum” nu solranenu sonna….Ava idha Dhinu kitta convey panna, naanga rendu perum decide panni step edukadha vraikkum idhu progress aga poradhillainu avangalukku thoniruchu….

    Ippadi engalai suthi irukaravangellam, enagalai pathi kavalai pattutu irundhalum, naanga rendu perum onnumay nadakadha madhiri as usual irundhom…But we both knew that we were missing something!!!!!



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    I was wondering one day, how my world turned topsy turvey in no time….Appadiye I was recalling my conversation with Preeth….Suddenly a question popped up in my mind….How will I hurt my parents in my wish to marry Aakash??? Sure that they’ll be upset about me marrying a guy from a different caste… But I knew that they won’t hate me for that….Kandippa avanga cinemala vara villains kidaiyadhu…. Avanga whole world revolves around me and my happiness…So it won’t be a big deal nnu thonuchu… At the same time, ippadi nammala vechiruka parents kku I’m giving back nothing but heart-ache nnum thonuchu….Ippadiye adhaiyum idhaiyum nenachu naan confuse agittu, what next nu yosichappo dhan, I asked myself “How it’ll be to marry anyoneelse”….For a moment I went blank, then I realized that I can’t do it….Naan mattum appadi panna def’ly 3 peroda life a kandippa spoil panniduvennu purinjichu…. Because naan dhan Aakasha en STRAP gang solra pola benchmark panni vechirundhaney….So kandippa yara irundhalum kandippa avaonoda compare panni paarpen and I’m sure no guy will ever measure up to him….Indha thought enakku vandhavudaney, I wasted no time in calling him….Appo time romba adhigam illa night 2’0 clock….Ring poga arambichappuram dhan Hayyoh!! Avan thoongittu irupaaney… Indha nerathula naan call panradhunala, yennamo yedhonnu bayanthruvan nu ninaikum bodhu, avan call attend pannittan…”Hey button, yenna edhavadhu ketta kanavu kandiya….Bayandhu poi enthiruchittaya….Thanni kudichuttu, Sashti Kavasam padichittu thoongu nnu sollitte poga, naan irritate agi, ennai konjam pesa vidariya…nalaikku evening nama meet panrom…Forum la….Ok….. n sleep tight(idhu avanoda dialogue) nnu sollittu, avan pesa vidama naan phone cut pannittu thoongitten….

    That day is etched in my mind as if it happened just yesterday….I was in Forum(it’s a mall in B’lore) before Aakash, munching my thoughts….Avan vandhadha naan realize pannave illai… He was surprised to see that I was there before him…Enkitta vandhu “Hey pada pada popcorn, yenna nethu annarathukku phone panni, pada pada nu porinjuttu vechutta” nu sollite en thalaya pidichu, naan pattu nu avan kaiya thatti vittu, thalaya kalaikadha da nu as usual sonnen…Athoda niruthama, “Nee yennamo naan phone pannadhukkappuram, adhunala un thookathai tholachittu utkaarndha madhiri solra” nu nakkala ketka, avan sirichuttey “Nee kuppadiradhukku munnadiye naan appadidhan irundhen” nu sonnan…Naan yen nu kettu continu panradhukulla, enakku semaya pasikkudhu, so KFC poi saapittutey pesalam nu sonnan… Naan enakku pasikala nu solla, avan “So what, vandhu en vaya paarthuttu utkaaru” nu kupittu poittan…naan eppadi, enna pesarudhunnu think pannittu irundhen….Avan “Yenna romba build up kudukara….Yaar kooda vambukku pona….Yenna prachinai” nu ketka naan appavum edhuvum sollama muzhichen….For the first time his attempt in provoking me to talk failed!!!

    Sir, nalla KFC la kottikittadhukappuram, appadiye ulathikittu naan yosichuttey irundhen…Avan porukka mudiyama, PVR floor la steps kku kuttitu poi utkara vechan…He very well knew that I hate that place… I used to tease those ppl who sit n talk there…Ivangalukellam love dialogue pesa vera idame kidaikadha nnu solven…but then, I didn’t even realize where we were….Avanukku adhu periya adhircchiyagi,”Hey kannukutti, ennachu???” kettan…naan pattunnu ”Nama kalyanam pannikalam” nu solliten…..He just didn’t react but kept on looking at me….Naan “Yennada respond panna mattengra??” nu ketka…he held my hands n said “madam, nama kalyanam pannikalama?? Nu kelviya ketteenga….kalyanam pannikalam” nu order dhana poteenga…” He then gave me his billion dollar smile and said “Ini nee backadikka mudiyadhu….Enna kattikittu dhan aganum….You are tied to me forever”……Enkitta oru kelvi kooda ketkala….When I tried to explain him what was going on my mind for the past few weeks, he just wasn’t in the mood to listen….Instead he said “Plsss di sakkaraikatti(indha pera enakku avan US la irukumbodhu vechadha sonnan)….This is my moment…..I’m relishing and cherishing it…Idhellam unakku sonnalum puriyadhu….But ippo endha explanations and questions vendam…Adhukku namakku innum niraya time irukku…Ippo ivlo urupadiyana order potta unakku naan edhavadhu kuduthaaganum”…He bought me a teddy from Archies and then simply dropped me off in the PG went…..

    I knew that he is just floating and didn’t hit earth yet…Then he called me and asked “Thangam, I’m so lost for words…But I promise u’ll never regret doing this” nu sonnan…He sang to me over phone… It was my favourite Marc Anthony’s song…..Wow!!! it was such a wonderful feeling……Okie…podhum indha explanations nnu neenga ninaikara madhiri irukku…So naan proceed panren….He told me “Nee indhalavukku un kutti mulaiya vechu yosichadhey podhum….Iniyellam naan paarthukiren”….I could catch what he meant and said “illa..illa…Amma, Appa kitta naaney solren….Anyway, they’ll get upset… Adhuvum en vazhiya theriyama irundha they’ll be more upset” nu sonnen….Ana Aakash yenakku bayama irukku…eppadi avanga kitta solradhunnu therila nu sonnen….Adhukku avan “Pyar se pucho, kannukutti” nu 3idiotsla Aamir Maddy kku solra advice enakku sonnavudan, enakku sirippu vandhiruchu…Then avan “Seekirama sollu…It was a long wait for me already…..I want you to be mine….” Nu sonnan….Idhan namma hero enkitta sonna first romantic dialogue…Ana avan idha othukama, idhudhan enakku purinja first romantic dialogue nu solranJ….Whatever I was rendered speechless by those words…..thalaiya ulukki normalkku vanthuttu naan “avlo seekirama kalyanam pannikanumnu ippo parakara…ivlo naala enna pannitu irundha….ippavum naan dhana ketten… u are a coward” nu sonnen… avan adhukku konjam kooda alatikama ”adi en kannukutti, naan ninaithirundhal, eppovo, ennennamo nadanthirukkum….Naan eepavume enakku nalladha vida, unakku nalladha mind la vechu dhan yosipen, seiven…adhellam puriyaradhukku nee innum valaram…but u are on track” nu sollitu valakkam pola thalaiya kalachu vittuytan….Idhukku mela naan yedhavadhu kettirupennu ninaikareenga….hmmmm…I kept quite!!


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    Inga oru visayam naan kandippa mention pannanum....When I was thinking how to open this talk with my folks, he just said "Nama yedho thappu panradha ninaichittu, idhai yeppadi amma, appa kitta, solradhunnu ninaikadha....First U make up your mind that we are not commiting some terrible sin!!!!".....Those words really boosted my morality

    After all this gyan session, I called chithi(nerla solra dhairiyam innum varala) n told “Chithi , nee expect panradha vida vazhkaila naan sandhosama irukanumna ninaicha, naan Aakasha kalyanam pannikanum… Adhuvum appa, amma, ammayi, thatha…perimma…etc., ellorum muzhu manasoda yenga rendu perukkum kalyanam panni vaikanum…..Idha solradhoda en part mudinjadhu, nee dhan ini ellam pannanum” nu sonnen….Then things were happening so fast…..Chithi invited Aakash to discuss things… Anga nadandha conversation enakku sonnadhu Chithi…..She started telling him about my childhood… Jeeva, naan Akilan, Nimalan kooda ippadi valarthadhulla…..Enga akka kku ponnu porandhappo, avanga(my mom n dad) sandhosa pattadha naan paarthiruken….Ava kuzhandaiya irukkappo yaaru thottil aattarangannu, aattara style vechey therinjukkuva….Appove ava manasula yaara ninaikaralo avanga aattinadhan, azhama thoonguva…Adhukkagave naan, amma(my ammayi), akka, moonu perum thottil kittaye paduthirupom…..Blah…Blah…(ippovum enakku type panra porumai poiruchu)…. Ivalavu yen naanga yaarum avala peru solli kupidradhey adhisayamana visayam nu solla, ivan interrupt panni naanum avala peru solli koopittadhey kidaiyadhu…kupidradhena en diary la kooda ava perai solli address pannadhu kidaiyadhu nu seriousa solli irukan….Athoda sir niruthama”Ungala madhiri ava mugathai paarthe thalai valiya, illa yaarkudiayavadhu sandaiya, favourite sleeping position yedhu, Ovaltine la evlo sakkarai kalandha pidikkum” nu ennai pathi oru biographye sollirukan…..Yethir paarkadha nerathula, yethir paarkadha visayathai solradhula ivana minja yaaralayum mudiyadhunnu ninaikaren
    ….Indha visayatha chithi enkitta sollum bodhu, avlo sirippu avangalukku….ippavum “Maapillai ippavadhu unnai per solli kupidrangala??” nu ottaranga….Yellam en neram…Ivanala chithiyellam ennai ottaraanga….No that I’m complaining!!!!

    It was after chithi narrated their conversation, it became my obsession that I should read his diary…. Eppadiyo naan kandippa win panna pora(adhu avanukkum theriyum) visayathukku, avana vambiluthu bet vechu, diarya padikka vaangiten…But padikka start panradhukku munnadi konjam thayakama irundhadhu…Avantta “Naan un personal space la enter panradha ninaikaraya” nu ketten….Avan kaiya virichu ”Anything for you Button” Solli, “Unakena mattum vazhum idhayamadi….Uyirullavarai naan un adimaiyadi” nu paadi, “naan unnai konjama teddy quilta vidura alavukku dhan valara sonnen…ippadi personal space pathi pesura mod chic alavukku illa” nu mirratinadhukkappuram dhan naan avan diary padichenna paarthukongalen (only from 2003 to 2010)

    Now came the herculean task of convincing my parents….Chithi dhan indha visayatha sonnanga….Adhukku avanga “Avalukku enna theriyum…namadhan yedhu correcto adha pannanum” nu sonnanga…Chithi ammakitta “Akka, pullaiya ippadi paratti seeratti valarthuttu, ippo kalyana visayathula yedhukku nogadikanum” nu ketka, amma “Ellorum yenna solluvaanga nammala pathi” nu sonnanga…Chithi “Oorla irukaravangalukkaga nama vazha mudiyadhu…Avalukku ishtamilladha kalyanatha panni vechu, nalaikku ava azhuthittu vandhu ninna, nama dhan kasta paduvom” nu sonnanga…Idhukellam oru padi mela poi “Yedhukku neenga rendu perum ippadi adam pidakareenga…..Ava ippadi vandhu permission ketkama, andha paiyanoda odi poi kalyanam pannittu vandhirundhalum, nama yethukittudhan irundhirupom… appadiye veruthu othukki vechiruvoma yenna” nu kettanga…..I started crying and I think my folks also realized….Appuramenna avangalum othukittaanga……Enakku yenga chithi pesina ovvoru wordum appadiye mind la irukku…When I told this to Aakash, he said on a lighter note “namakku ponnu porandha “Raji” nu vara madhiri peru vechiralam”

    On the other hand, Aakash veetla oru problemum varala…..Appadiye vandha doubtsellam Sugi kkavum, Sathiyan mamavum clear panni off pannitaanga…Moreover, athaikku naan college padikkum bodhey enga ganglaye ennai dhan romba pidikkum….To this date, she is thanking me for making Aakash to come out of his Shell and understand the importance of relationship and relatives…..Now he is able to fully understand why I’m so close to my chithi, perimma n cousins!!!!



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    Oru valiya we had our Urudhi vaarthai in Nov2010 , got engaged in Jan2011 and Udaney kalyanam vechirulaamnu ellorum sonnanga, including Aakash(Avan adha opena sollainalum, enakku dhan theriyume)…but naan pidivadham pidichu, arranged marriage la vara madhiri courtship period venumnu sonnadhala, amma, appa paarthu panara kalyanathula vara madhiri, Kanchipuramellam poi saree vaangi, we got married in Aug2011…..

    Reception bodhu eppadi seniors kooda engala ottinaangannu naan beginninglaye sollitten la….Thank god ippo type panna vendiyadhu illa…..Aakashoda school band(periya "Rock on" friends nu ninaippu ivangalukku
    ) dhan perform pannaanga…So Aakasha viduvangala yenna…..Kandippa avan paadanum, adhuvum ennai pathi, Tamil paatunu solla, avannum sirichuttey ennai paarthu.....

    Puyalendru ninaithen ennai

    Puyal kattum kayirai vandhal

    Malaiyendru ninaithen ennai

    Malligaiyal malayai saithal....
    Nu paadinaan…..Now I understood why he loves that songEnga love sagava naan post panna arambichappo, Latha enna Aakash college day la paadinadha vechu kavunthuteengalannu kettanga…..Appo illai…Totally I went gaga over him when he sang to me on our reception!!!

    Ippadidhan andha 3 words, adhanga “I Love You” sollamale naanga kalyanam pannikittom….But ippo ovvoru thadava phone pesi mudikkumbodhum, “Love You, Miss You” sollama vekka mattom….Even if he is waiting for me outside my office gate and we are on phone!!!!...Idhuvum engalukkulla oru deal…. Sweet, isn’t it??!!!



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    Appa oru vazhiya mudichutten….

    Sakthi my hearty thanks to you once again!!!! Because of you, I relived those beautiful moments of our life......

    Ippo coming to your questions,
    1) How you joined your hands with your better-half? How much you struggled for that? What about your Family Support?

    I think I answered this question in quite a lengthy way up until my previous post in this thread.....
    2) What are all the problems you faced after your marriage? How did you overcome it? (Relationship and Financial wise)
    We didn't face any issues w.r.t relationship, financially or otherwise, until now....I'm sure we'll not have these issues in future as well...

    May be you meant this question for couples who got married without their parents consent.....


    But there were a few glitches like some of my relatives(who are not really close to me) didn't accept/receive Aakash well.....They made some deragatory comments like he married me for my wealthy background and influential connections...Orey ponnu, niraya sothu...blah..blah...n all that..I felt bad for that actually....But he convinced me by telling that I shouldn't heed those who are of least importance to me....I'm following his words as usual....

    3) Did you ever feel love is hell of life? If yes, what made you feel so?
    OOPS!! Indhalavukku extreme a naanga rendu perumay yosichadhu illa... But sandai kandippa pottukuvom, "To hell with U" nu thittikiradhundu....

    If one of us is angry(that doesn’t last for more than half an hour at the max), we’ll start talking(scolding) in English….Adhavadhu, Tamila “Muttal” nu sonna, it really hurts…..Adhuvey Englishla “U r so god damn stupid”, Idiot madhiri ularadha….Are u nuts?? Then don’t act like one!! Ippadi sonna, the impact is not much….

    4)Whether your child faces any difficulties due to your love marriage?
    When we enjoy parenthood I can answer this question.....To be honest, we hadn't even thought about our child facing issues in future....But I'm 200% percent sure that he/she will not have difficulties.....I think we are matured enough to care for the well being of our future generation.....

    5) Advantages and Disadvantages of your love marriage
    Advantages are plenty......Disadvantages as such edhuvum illai atleast in our case......

    My final words for Penmaites, at some point in life, you should listen to your heart more than your brain.....If you think, he/she is the one for U, don't give up without "TRYING".....Who knows, you might also share your lovable moments here in this thread!!!!!


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