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    May 2009:
    All went well n fine so far. We knew that both of us are in that metastable state (between friendship & Love). My heart didn’t say still that she is the one. I wanted to say but the factors like caste, parents, etc didn’t allow me to…God alone can stop time isn’t! Days moved on… (last week of May).

    In-between I informed my mom about her. My mom didn’t take it seriously and said “unaku vera velaye illada, evalayachum pathutu vandhu nallarukanu soluva, apuram vera oruthiya solradhu; appava pathi theriyumla? Olunga irundhuko , manatha vangidadha, un mela romba nambikai vachitukom, needhan veetuku moothavan apuram naalu per moonjila mulika mudiyadhu (andha naalu pera naan thittadha naale illa), namma castena pakalam adhuvum vasadhiya nalla familya irukkanum illana no chance, unna thala muzhugiduvom”, ketavudane shock agala naan coz I knew they will say the same. They actually are.


    I Received interview call from Hyderabad (where I am now). Informed her regarding the same. She felt happy...pretended actually.

    June 1st 2009:
    Attended the interview. I knew I will be selected (but before that she told me the same when I started from Chennai central to Hyd).The same day evening I confirmed her wishes, that I got selected. She requested me to meet her when she come to her home town (the place where I was working as lecturer).I agreed. Meantime I assured that I will join on July 1st, to the company where I am now.

    End of Jun 2009:
    Received relieving letter from the college I worked. One more week to go for July 1st.As promised we met each other at a juice parlour. Had grape juice, didn’t talk much. She asked me , “Why can’t u say to ur parents that u like to marry me?” That was the proposal actually. Knowing about my parents, I just said that they will never accept. I replied that I told them already. Looking my face she understood what might be my parents reply.

    She came in her cycle, we walked for a while in the bazaar. There came an auto which is on the way to bus stand. Yes, I need to move away from that town to my native. I got into the auto with my bag and it started moving from her. I watched her from the carpet opening that is available on the back of the auto. She is riding the cycle towards the same road where my auto goes. But still the gap..the distance increases every second.


    I felt weak in my knees….


    My heart felt like a sponge filled with water..


    That moment;


    I started giving my dream girl…. a face

    Her name…Divya


    I realized that now from the bottom of my heart that, She is the ONE! My Love!


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    Jun 2009: Hyderabad
    Reached Hyderabad. Reported to company on 1st Jun. Stayed in friend’s room. Need to go many kms to office. Share auto, Metro bus, walking many times…again the same in the evening..auto,bus, walk…dinner at some hotels…language puriyadhu..sema kaaramana sapadu..my days went longer, nights went like a lightning…ore aarudhal..night 8.30 to 9.00..few mins of hearing her. Literally I will forget the pains I felt all through the day.

    I was not confident about convincing my parents abt my love, she too understood my condition well. But whats it for love…it just jumped in…lengthened its roots. Time is the best medicine for all. So let us react if any checkpoints arisenu mudivu panitu, we spend our days with lots of missing n tons of loneliness.

    (One and half yrs fast forward panidalam)Inbetween lots of interesting things happened. Also she rejected couple of the alliances, enga veetlayum start panunanga…Boys easya solidalam indha ponu vendam apdi ipdinu..but girlsku coz of family pressure evlo kashtamnu I realized whenever she cried in phone. I understood that she cannot say the same to her parents for a long time.

    Jan 2011: Chennai central
    I came for new yr to my native. We planned to meet at central when I arrive but couldn’t as she need to attend her granma’s funeral. Thereby she promised to meet by the time I leave back to Hyd.,ie a week later. The day came. I reached central by 11.30 am. My train starts at 4.30 pm.

    I saw her...the same girl whom I missed for months. She too saw me n rushed towards me...her heart reached me faster than her feet.

    I didn’t tell her anything what happened in my home when I was there. Yes, pralayam! Rudhrathandavam nerla pathen, My parents…My mom threatened with some harsh words, they made my heart so week…sapatula visham vachiduvenu mom mirattal. I really felt that why I came back here. But I don’t want to blame them for their point. Felt bad that y they can’t understand mine.

    She hold my hands tightly…sat for a while. Had little talk. Romba elachi poirundha. She boug
    ht me something to eat. Nalla kai pakuvam.Parents support illama kalyanam panuna nallarukadhunu sonna.

    “Ponnu paka next week yaro varangalam;indha time ennala onum siya mudiyadhu mama, yarum en pecha keka matranga”nu sona, adhukula decide panidu, but I cannot live without u” she added. Train started, I got into my coach and saw her waiting outside…(LKG pasangala sekurapo first day schoola, amma kozhandhaya vitutu varapo pasanga azhugaya adakamudiyama vimmitu irupangale…apdiye therindhal.

    Train moved further…I don’t want to leave her alone anymore! “Un vaazhkai un kaiyil” nu Baasha padathula solrapo evlo claps panuna, real lifena yenda back adikura? Nee evlo periya arivali..konjam thoosu thatuda un moolaya..Lots of questions…! I decided. After 15 mins of travel, I called her. She received my call n said “Sollu mama!”…I asked her.

    “Can u bear me all through ur life?”, she replied “Yes, but without parents support…”.” Don’t worry; go to ur parents n tell them about me, I will look after the rest”.


    …….. (thalayil kombu)



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    Hi Guys...was bit with work for few days,now iam with rest of my story...so where was i????

    Two of ashok’s friend’s shravan & charan visited us at the same house….they two were not in sangareddy for our marriage..
    ‘how many days you guys would be hiding like this. Already everyone of our friend’who were with you in sangareddy for marriage are out of home…as police is searching for them…today or tomorrow somehow the’ll catch u,we need to do something very quickly’.

    Same day ashok visited a lawyer couples in saroornagar…& told them everything…they were having previous experience of handling love related cases…

    AUGUST 3RD

    9:00 AM
    We left that place thanking those kind father & son..who were completely strangers but still came forward to help us…

    We booked one car…as today was a very busy day..

    10:00 AM
    SAROORNAGAR

    We reached those lawyers home….there response towards us was very positive..female lawyer spoke seperatly to shravani…& finally they asked us to come to L.B.NAGAR(Ranga reddy dist court) where our case would be presented before judge.They insisted that age proof is a must for us…

    12:00 PM
    KOTI-MUNICIPAL OFFICE

    We were at koti municipal office for shravani’s D.O.B certificate….our car was parked outside office when suddenly all our friends who attended our marriage came to meet us..

    Everybody was tired..running & hiding here & there..everyone wanted a finish to this….

    Our hope of getting a birth certicate in municipal office vanished soon as the official gave a negative reply that it would not be possible to get that much old certificate.


    2:00 pm
    OSMANIA HOSPITAL

    One of ashok’s friend charan was doing M.B.B.S..he told that age can be proved by testing our teeth…so we were at osmania hospital…after some searching we found broker…he asked us pay 1000/-rs for getting a certificate from a doctor that shravani is major..money was running out…somehow we managed to pay him that amt…he told that doctor is in kukatpally & he asked any one of us to come with him as doctor would be giving certificate without any chking.So shravan went with him to kukatpally.

    4:30 pm
    Hubsiguda
    Me ,shravani & ashok were sitting in a hotel in hubsiguda waiting for shravan to bring that certificate.Finally at 5:30 pm shravan came & he was having that age proof certificate with him.one big headache was over now…

    5:30 pm
    We left that hotel..after getting that certificate..but we were back to the same situation where we were not having any shelter to hide that night…we(me,shravani &ashok) went to a nearby park…for me & ashok finding a house was not that tough..but for shravani it was very hard…it was getting dark..& we were still in that park,…suddenly one of ashok’s friend who was staying in hubsiguda..said..’if you don’t have any problem…I have one idea.i can take her to my home…I’ll tell my mother that she is my friend’s sister& visiting city to write some exam…tomorrow morning u all can leave for ur destinations…’
    Initially shravani was little hesistant..but ashok’s friend..came forward & told..’don’t worry sister..trust me iam like your brother..you will be safe in my house..my mother will take care of u nicely.’

    We had no options but to leave shravani with ashok’s friend’s family that night….shravani although not 1 bit was interested in leaving but she understood the situation..so shravani stayed with that guy’s family & we both stayed at another friend’s flat…that night.

    AUGUST 4TH
    RANGAREDDY DIST COURT L.B.NAGAR
    9:30 AM

    Never ever in my life i thought that i would fighting to save my love in court this was the last thing we had to witness...

    We were standing outside court in car…waiting for our lawyers to come outside…we were not sure what they were planning to do..

    Once again all our marriage friends were there at court…they were literally pleading shravani to speak strongly in court…shravani’s word was very critical in court…if she is not strong in court…everybody including our friends life's would be destroyed.

    11:00 AM
    I never thought in my life…my love story which started in a small place like will bring me to this court..

    We were waiting in the court…for judge….finally he came…
    ‘Do you have any idea what you have done’
    ‘This guy might just dump you when he loses intrest in you’…judge asked bluntly to shravani…

    I wanted to speak & was about to speak…but
    ‘u don’t speak….i want the girl to answer’..judge said..
    Shravani speak,…speak…everyone including me was praying in our hearts…..

    ‘I married this guy without any pressure from anybody..coz I love him & trust him…I completely believe in my heart that he will be there with me till my last breath.’..

    This lines will remain in my heart till my last breath.

    that was enough for judge to believe that there was no pressure on shravani to marry me…

    Judge asked us to come to court tomorrow as he would take a decision….after that our lawyers met us & told that we have to file a complaint against shravani’s family saying that we have a threat to our life from them…bcoz only then there would be less chances of us being harmed from them…

    Case was filed in court against shravani’s father & brother complaining that they would try to kill us…

    AUGUST 5th
    Fortunately we were not having problem of searching for shelter as one of our friend pradeeep who was staying saroornagar offered us his room..so we were staying in saroornagar..

    Till now none of our relatives was aware abt our whereabouts…

    Court12:00 pm
    Shravani & me were waiting outside courtroom…female lawyer came up to us…& took shravani inside that room..she asked me to wait outside…after 15 minutes… she again came outside…& said..’u immediately leave this place..ur relatives got the information that u both are here..they would be here anytime.’
    ‘But shravani’..i asked her in soft voice..
    ‘Don’t worry about shravani..she will be safe here with me..nobody can do anything to her in court..i’ll call u when situation is normal here..now leave immediately..’

    I left that place ..me,ashok..were waiting at a place 15 minutes away from court..

    2:30 pm
    Everybody (relatives) was in court..shravani’s father was also there..they directly came to the room where shravani was sitting…

    ‘We want to speak to her’said one of her relative to our lawyer.
    ‘ u cannot speak with her..if u anything to speak speak inside’lawyer said.

    ‘Why case has been lodged against us’ said shravani’s brother.
    ‘what more can they do…u all are so much desperate to separate them..don’t know…why can’t you all show same intrest in uniting them..to separate them both of your families..are now together..why can’t u think big & do something good by sticking together.’

    After listening to all this ..all our relatives left that place after some time…we met shravani at residence of our lawyer…she told that case in still in pending in court..we need to wait for few more days…meanwhile we’ll chk whether there is change in the way of thinking in your families.
    Next fews days ..we were making rounds in court & spending most of our time in court..while sitting in court sometimes I would used to think…how far we had gone…I mean love might be easy but to keep that love intact is one hell of a job.

    AUGUST 15TH
    Independence day

    Independence day for was our country but it was a testing day for both of us….coz yesterday we met our lawyers & said..to me’tommorow you both would be going to ghatkesar to your parents place..we know it’s tough but still u have to do this…nothing will happen to you..until & unless u go there u go there we’ll not know..what they would be thinking abt u..maybe somebody might be there in your family who will make them think’.

    2:30 pm
    GHATKESAR

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    Jan 2011:
    Call from her, “Veetla soliten mama, they were not shocked, yerkanave they suspected it seems; nana solvenanu pathrukanga; oorlendhu uncles vandhanga caste difference iruku adhelam sari varadhunu solranga,problemnu yosikranga; unna pathi details ketanga Hyderabad address ketanga, enaku bayama irukku, mama; en uncles romba adamant, katapanjayathu apdi ipdinu poravanga, anga vandhrvangalonu bayama irukku; seekrama edhavadhu pannu pls”.

    ‘Sari nee cut pannu apuram pesuren’ nu soliten. (I had seen her uncles photo earlier, Namma ponnambalam innum bayangarama irundha epdiyo apdi irupanga..semma terror)

    Sandai na satta kizhiyathan seiyum nu nenachitu, ipadilam thrillinga irundhathan nama pasangaluku epdi unga ammava kalyanam paninen theriyuma nu scene podamudiyum. Irundhalum manasukulla oru bayam.

    Tuesday, Friday pooja panuva, super cooking, periyavangaluku nalla respect, proactive, paisa sikkanama pathukuva, family valuesku respect koduppa, veguli....ipdi niraya matum illama enkita illadha qualities vera, adhanaladhan life oru balenceda irukume...azhaga vera irukka..ipdi oru ponna vendamnu solrangale en parents nu nenachite irundhen. Mobile monitorla ’Home calling...’

    Appa pesunar, ’March 6th namma pudhu veedu grahapravesam plan panirukompa ipave ticket book paniko, apuram ammakita konjam pesuda, apdilam pana maten, neenga pakura ponnaye mrge panikurenu sollu, vakiren”. Avlodhan...,actualla naanum ammavum pesikradhilla.

    Ella Ammavume actualla romba possessive, adhum pasanga kalyana stage varumbodhu apdi aiduvanga, avangala pathu solra ponna namma paiyan mrge panikanum nu nenapanga. Adhum en amma veli ulagam theriyadhavanga, nalu per enna sovangalo, relations epdi pesuvangalo, appaku avamanam ayidume apdi ipdinu ellarayum pathi yosipanga...except me.


    Feb 2011:

    Apdi yarum enna thedi Hyderabad varala (idhuvarai).

    I asked her dad’s number, she gave. I called the same number, call received..a strong voice I heard,” Hello..?”. I replied , “ Vanakkamnga, En per Ramesh, unga ponnu sonna paiyan nandhan, Hyderabadla iruken, (all other informations) Vayasu kolarula nan indha mudivu edukala, enakku ipo 29 age agudhu; nalla yosichu mudivu paninen; Unga gowravathukaga, relationskaga ava lifea spoil panedadhenga, avaluku niraya sandhosham kidaikanum, neenga maapla pathengana kandipa visaripengale, apdiye ennayum visarichikonga, romba kashtapatuta, naan venalum unagala paka varen; Divya sandhoshamana lifeku ennala guarantee tharamudiyum, vera idathula kalyanam panitu ava sandhoshamadhan iruppa nu nichayama neenga sollamudiyuma?, adhu ennala matumdhan mudiyumnu ava nambura…so…” interruption “Thambi adhelam saridhan..caste pathilam naanum perusa pakamaten..but naanga matum ok solli unga veetla mudiyadhuna..enga sondhakarangaltalam idhapathi pesanum..neenga avasarapatu…” I interrupted…”kandipa odipogamattom…periyavanga aasirvadhathuladhan indha kalyanam nadakkum” nu sonen. Sari thambi enga relationskita pesitu solren. …Over.

    So many discussions went in their side.Inbetween I met one of her uncle too. He tried to test my love for her by shooting lots of interesting questions (enake questionsa…)I answered all patiently, then he said,” enaku pudichu onumilla thambi, unga parents othukkanum same time enga relationsku pudikanum” he added..he really tested my patience…” Ungalukey enna pudikalanalum indha kalyanam nadakkum” nu solitu vandhuten.

    2 days later she called,” Dei panni…apdi ennada pesuna..appa ok solitar..Uncle vandhu paiyan romba theliva irukkar, pakrathukum nallarukkar, avanga veetla ok na mudichudalam nu solitanga mama..hiiiiiiiii” nu ore kushy. But she still bothered about my parents coz she knew well that was not an easy task like this.I too aware of that.

    But she doesn’t know that her dad gave me a deadline upto August 2011 only to get my parents convinced. If not…no chance.

    As her uncle other relatives are from my native , somehow my parents came to know all these…

    One evening, call from my mom ,”Mm..solluma epdi iruka?”…”Enga nalla irukradhu..nee ellame therinjudhan panriyada…vela seiromungra thimiru..modhalla resign panitu veetuku vandhu seru, illana naan avanga veetuku poyi sanda potruven”.

    Apdi onu nadandha apuram kandipa enga mrge nadakadhunu eneku nallave theriyum…

    Enna vazhkada!





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    1993 la na +1 padichitirunthen (pathengala ellarum muraikenga?)kathaluku kannu matum illapa vayasum kidaiyathu correctthane boss?ok 1993 septemberla en periyamma ponnuku marroagenu en amma nativeku poirunthom athu oru village ....anga ellarum pavadai thavaninu kalakitirunthanga na matum midiyoda poirunthen pothatha?anniku nanthan heroien(nijamathanpa?)ellarum entayethan vanthu vanthu pesitirunthanga apo yaro pakura mathiri theriuthunu thirumbi patha athanga namma herothan cameravum kaiuma ninnitirunthanga paravallaye unga oorla ipdi oru handsome photographer irukare nalaiku nalla time poidummanu enga ammata solli avanga vayitherichalium kotitu (ithellam sagajam)apdiye ellarkuduum vilaiyandutirunthen nijamathanpa na chinna ponnuthane apo?


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    anniku night nichayathartham nadanthapo namma herothan photo eduthitirunthanga ......nanthane kalyana ponnoda thangai?athenala nangalum konjam special stillslam kuduthom?????namma photographerthanpa ketanga na kallame illamathan avangala 1st time annanu kupten(nijamthanpa ena nambunga)udane avanga pakathulerrnthu oru sound machan thangachi annanu kuptale ennada pannanu?inga paruma avan unaku atthan murai venum summa summa annanu kudathenu oruthar sonnanga sonnavar enaku annan muraiyam????????aana enaku ennamo avanga en akkava photo edutha mathiriye therila apokuda akkakita keten ivanga olunga photo edupangalanu udane namma hero thirumbi oru muraipu yapppaa athula mayanginavathan innum elumba mudila hmmmmmmmm vidhi valiyathunu periyavanga summava sonnaga?


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    avanga en mama paiyanthan aana avangala chinna vayasulaye avanga athaiku baby illanu thooki kuduthutangalam nangalum epayachum amma ooruku povoma athenala namma sira na pathathilla .......enakennamo ore doubt ennai matum photo eduthitirukanganu en akkakita sonna ne rombathandi karpanai panathe sundaika apdinu thitita ...oruvaliya nt function mudinjathu enga kuda (ellarkudaumthanpa)aratia adichitu nammalu 2 manikuthan elumbi ponanga aana pogumpothu ennai pathu matum lesa thalaiyasaichitu ponanatha niyabagam oruvelai karpanaiyonu nt fulla thoongave illapa.....epo mrg varum varumnu pathitiruntha anniku matum romba latea vidinjathupa hmmmmmm enna pana

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    March 2011: Chennai central
    I reached early in the morning. 6th enga pudhumanai puguvizha. Sonna madhriye she was waiting for me in park station. I asked her to bring a ¾ sized photograph of hers. Earlier I asked to call me when she go for taking the photo. (Madam epavume photola pathengana, china pullainga azhuga varamadhri nipangale apdiye iruppa) She called me from the studio just couple of days before I started towards Chennai. I told her one thing, “Photo edukrapo just think that I am standing infront of u”. She agreed.

    Andha photodhan enoda trunk card nu apo avaluku theriyadhu. I saw the photo. Her best one so far. Meantime I called all my relatives through phone and conveyed them about her. They too said “let us see in our function”. I made it public. Now it is a news.

    March 05, 2011:
    The full day I was roaming with my dad for arrangements to be made for the function, relatives started coming one by one..andha crowdlayum enkita pesadha en amma. En mama ponungalam vandhu nicea “Mams enga Divya photo?” nu oru pakam,Pathutu Ohhhhh! Supera irukanga’nee kavalapadadha nanga pathukrom” nu avanga mobilelam clicked. Chinna china podisungalam vandhu,” Ramesh mama aunty photo katunga?..”ei inga paru sema supera irukangalla” enga vayasana aunty oruthavanga, “enapa ore vellaya iruku?”, pakathula nama 8 vayasu cousin ,”Aiyo paati, photova thirupi parunga”nu sola..idhu elame an ammavuku theriyama nadakudhu. But she can track whats happening around.

    Some of my Aunt told me to do as per parents interest or try to convince them. They all liked her very much. That days night me and my dad were resting in the portico area after a long days roaming.

    Time crossed 11.00 pm. I started dragging the conversation onto my topic. He tried his best to convince me, he bothered more for mom, I said all about her qualities. (time 3.00 am) Slowly he tried to understand my point; atlast I said, “ Neenga pakra ponna kalyanam panitu edhum problemna ungalala porupu ethuka mudiyuma” but “I will take the responsibility on marrying her; whatever I face, it may be gud or bad, I will not complaint u” .(After so many dialogues) “ Naanga andha kaalathu manushanga pa; udane mathika mudiyadhu, konjam time kodu” dad’s words gave me a real breath. But Jadhagamlam enaku nambikai undu, adhula problemna , I am sry” nu solitaru.

    For now My dad came to my side, atleast he agreed. But not my mom.

    March 06:
    Function supera mudinjudhu. Relatives elarum kilambitanga. Some talked to my dad n Mom about my marriage. Me, Dad, Mom and my brother matumdhan irukom, that night. My mother fumed like anything to me. Even if dad agreed I will not. What the hell do u think of? How dare u told this to all? Till that time they didn’t see her photo. Next day early morning, 6.00 am I am about to start back to Chennai. After getting ready always will worship in pooja room n then we use to start wherever. Same I did, and gave the photo to dad n left the house.

    (When I was in Hyderabad, my dad was convinced about her, my mom though she shouted, showed the photos to neighbours….even to grocers n all gave a green signal, but she is not convinced, Jadhakam seems to be ok, mukyamana poruthamlam nalarukunu sonangalam. My family astrologer told that “Avanga manase onnayidichu ini jadhagamlam pakuradhu waste; arimugam illadhavangalukudham indha poruthamellam pakanum”) But still my mother stood on her point….caste.

    07 August 2011 (15 th Deadline)
    Received enough number of alarm from her. Her father said the same, “parents rendu perum samadhikanum”, relatives too thought of my mom and they couldn’t do anything. Mom innum marala.

    “Love panrapa friendsaye pakathula sekadha nama pasanga, adhe loveku oru problem na anangakitadhan lastla varuvanunga”. I am no exception. But inga idea solradhe nandhan.

    Salem: (I worked there for 3 yrs)
    Two of my close friends. They knew every thing. I updated the status. All three we reached my native. (pasanga irundhangana ammata romba thitu vanga matomla adhan).

    My Native:
    But avanungala ammaku nallave theriyume, “Dei Prasad,Maadu madhri valandhrukiye avanuku konjam orakira madhri sollungada, nee evlo nalla pullaya iruka! (DAMAL…my heart) Ivan mattum yenda ipdi aitan,che enakunu vandhrukane”

    Meantime I asked Divya to be ready whatever the consequence, even if my mom didn’t agree; I will come in a car, We can go to register office…she agreed half heartedly.I have no choice.

    Luck favors the brave!

    That day night both my friends talked to my parents..”Amma ivan collegelerndhe niraya ponungalta pazhaguvan”nu prasad sola, “Dei adapavingala , neenga vandha objectivaye mathitengaleda..amma kaiyala meen kulambu saptavudan ipdi aapu vachutengaleda” nu nenakirapave, chandru “but ivlo seriousa irundhu nanga pathadhe illa”. Night romba neram pesite irukrapo, appavum lighta , “ Sari neeyum poyi pathutudhan vayen; pasangaloda po, pudikalana un ishtamdhan” nu trigger paninar. Oru vazhiya amma “Mm..polam” nu solitanga.

    Anga vandhu sanda poduvanganudhan theriyume.

    Endha car avala naan matum kotitu polamnu plan potomo adhe carla ammava kotitu ponom. (Adhukula amma niraya changed, poravazhilaye Flowers, Divya ku enna sweet pudikumnu ketu Jangri vangitu, chocolates etc) Saamitalam vendikiten but mudilaye, lesana polambal irundhadhu.
    I informed them about our arrival. Amma varanganu sonadhum avanga veede udharal. Appa varamudila coz of some office work.Just pathutu varadhukudhanenu ammava matum poga sonar.

    Evening 4.00 we reached. Suthukatu veedu..Divya uncles, her dad, mom all invited us. Ulla vandhadhum, “engada nu enna ketanga” , avanga amma adhukula purinjitu ulla roomku kotitu ponanga, sema tensionla naan. Roomlerndhu varapo divyava kaipudichu kotitu vandhanga vegama.

    Amma to divya, “Enna ena patha bayama irukka; don’t worry needhan enga veetuku marumagal..ok!”..kumkumam vachi vitanga. Madam thiru thirunu mulichitu pavama irundhal.

    ‘Pursuit of Happiness” padathla vara climax scene parunga..avlo sandhosham enaku. “Udane oknu sonna ivan rumba thenaveta aiduvan adhan sollala; but enaku photo pathadhum pudichidichu, ungalayum pudichiruku” nu amma oru bit potanga parunga..anga 2 DAMAL…(en friendsoda heart).

    We spend some time there…When we left Divya called me , “Mama..
    enna mama athaiya patha china ponnatam ituku, aiyo supera irukanga” nu solla, adha naan enga ammata solla. Sirichite vandhom. ’Nalla lakshanama iruka, avanga parentsum enaku pudichruku”, sari oru nalla naal pathu Appa, mamavoda poitu pathutu varom nu amma solla.

    ’Busla murukku kodutha ponna ipdi madakitiye bossu” nu yaro solramadhri irundhadhu. Thalaya thotu parthen....kombu illa.....

    Apuram enna nadandhadhunudhan ungaluke theriyume.....Feb 6th, 2012 Marriage. Sutramum natpum soozha vandhu vazhthunanga.

    Divya engaveetla oru ponnu ipo.
    My parents liked her very much. Avanga veetlayum sandhosham.

    Jun 2012: Hyderabad
    Divya’s uncle in phone, “ Enama epdi irukka, udamba pathuko, ipodhan 3 masam, stepslam nadakadha, valayagaapu October, novemberla vachikalamnu pesitrukanga. Sarima ipavachum solen neeyum maapilayum epdi meet panuneenganu?,.

    she replied , “Adhu…. Adhu…naan oorla vandhu solren” endral sirithukonde…….Kaiyil murukkudan!


    AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY FOREVER! (unga wishes & BlessingS odadhanga!)




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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    Quote Originally Posted by Daffodil View Post
    Hi Latha,

    Surprising to know that you fell in love while doing +1 [I am not teasing just stmt] and that too Love at first sight :P [No teasing here too]. First day, First meet, Few words you have Fallen Flat. What abt him? oh another thing you have been looking at him[சைட் அடிக்கிறது] all day and why did u call him "Anna" wanted to know if anybody disagrees huh? [Again not teasing :P so dont get angry on me] What you have given so far is like giving Rat food for elephant. Come on we expect a lot so tomorrow tell us more. Eagerly waiting....
    teas pannala pannalanu ennama otturenga?na post panurathuku munnadiye condition poten enai yarum otta kudathunu ....athan muthallaye sonnenapa loveku vayasum kidaiyathunu.....first pathathume site adikalapa athan annanu kupten appurama avanga en maama paiyannu therinjathum namma maama ipdi oru handsome boya pethu maraichi vechitarenu feelingla dhobukadeeeeeer......ithellama ketutirupanga vidupa archana...orunal postuke ipdi oru kindal ipo yanai pasiku na theeni pottu ayoooooo mudiyathupa........

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    re: COMMENTS thread - Lover’s Corner - Thread for Love Marriage Couples

    next day mrg elunthathum(yaru thoongina ?athu vare visayam)vegama kilembi sapda ponom anga yaro pakkathula vanthu ai sullan apdinu kupta mathiri irunthuchi yaraiyonnu ninaichalum ketta voice mathiriye(irukathane seiym)irukennu thirumbi patha namma herothan yaru ennaya kuptenganu muraichite(nijamathanpa)keaten aama unnathan apdinu thirimbavum konjam kuda payame illama solluchi ....nethu nt etho kutti ponnu mathiri midila suthina ipo anjel mathiri pavadai thavanila kalakuruyenu sonnanga avlothan ellame pochu .......apo enaku pavadai thavanina pidikathu ammavoda compulsionkaga ammkita thittite funtionku poduven ..aana parunga annaiku amma en kannuku deivama therinjanga(niyayamthane)oruvazhiya saptu (athan saptamathiri per pannitu epdinga sapda mudium)vanthom pora idamlam yaro anjel anjelnu kupdura mathiri keattute irunthuchi ...marriageku en anna nijamave oru photographera arrange pannirunthathala na thappichitenga ...yarternthunu kekengala?en akka ,atthan kiternthuthan...anthe nija photographer matum varalana en akka pasangakita avanga marriage album kamichiruka mudiyathunu akka ipo varaikum kindal pannuvanga....


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