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    Hi friends... Let me continue... After few days, I wished him on his birthday..He said thanks and went.Vera onnumae pesala.yenaku sema kovam.Athepdi ne yenna kandukama polamnu..Evening poi mail pannalamnu paakraen.already he had sent me an mail.ne wish pannathula yenaku romba santhosham.ana na un maela kovama irukaen.unaku futureah pathi bayam varuthuna yen maela nambikka illanu thanae artham.appo ivlo naal friendah irunthathula ne yenna purinchukalayanunu anupirunthan...yenaku romba kastama pochu. Athuvara nadanthellam nenachu bayam bayam bayam mattum than yenaku irunthuchu!Aana manusu kekla..sari friendah vachu peslamnu thonuchu..pesi love vendam.ne antha ennatha mathikanu sollanumnu mudivu pannaen.Poi adutha naal pesnaen.Generalah veeta pathi visarichaen.Padikka sonnaen.ana yellathukum mandaya mandaya aatitu ninnan..Na oru kattathula kaduppagi thitta aarambichutaen.na sollitae irukaen.ne yennadana boom boom maadu mari thalayatranu.Athuku avan sonna reply ithan.'Unaku over acting varla.Ippo kova padra par athan ne.na olunga illanu therinchu yenna mathrathukaga pesa vanthurukra par antha anbu than nejam.unnala kandippa yenna maraka mudiyathu.mudincha vera yarayavathu kalyanam panni kaatu.na thaduka maataen.Ivlo naal ne pesama irunthathu kastama irunthuchu.un nelamaya nenachu patha ne mattum yenna pannuva.neeya varuvanu wait pannaen.vanthella...athae mari ne yenaku thaanu na nambraen..chumma paraak paakama poi padi..Apram yenna pathi kavala padatha ini na normala irupaen..'apdinu sollitu poitae irunthan.Na apdiyae sthambichu ninnutu irunthaen. Apram yennatha solla thirumba damalnu vilunthaachu.Bayam mattum fullah pogavae illa.Antha asatu thanamana nambikka yepdi than varuthu.thirumba yepdi problems varappa kanama poiduthunu than theriyala. neraya aasaigal,future plansnu rendu perukum life superah poitu irunthuchu.Classla yenga friendslam bayangarama oatuvanga..oru naal collegela function vanthuchu..First time collegeku sareela ponaen..oru paiyan vanthu superah irukanu vera sollitu poitan.avlo than karugura vaada vanthuchu avanta irunthu.Apram samathana padutha avanoda ninnu photo eduthu kuduthathellam thani katha..Gent staffs yenta pesna kooda sir thaanga maatar.Romba possesive. Na sollavae illayae yenakum apdi than irukum.avana oru mam suthi suthi vanthu class yedukum.neenga romba aamaithiya irukeenganu ilichutae irukum..na class mudinchapram ne ini antha classla antha wall side cornerla poi than ukkaranumnu order pottutu varuvaen. Everything was going fine till next Jan..ippo avanga appa amma sontha oorku poitaanga.so avan room eduthu thangirunthan.Pongal holidays vanthuchu..appo yenaku pongal vachutanga.Again problem in home..This time it got serious.My classmate made me suffer.she has called my mom and have informed about my love matter.avaluku na yenna paavam pannaenu ithu vara theriyala.amma illatha ponnunu specialah yellarum kavanipom classla.Ana ava na parentsku throgam panraenu feel panni apdi pannita.Athukapram problems romba mosamana valila vanthuchu...Nalaiku storyku leave..meet you all on thursday...


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    hmmmmmmmm.....Oru vazhiya naanga final year vandhutom....First day of that year, Aakash enkita "hey kannukutti, enna 8th sem mudinjavudaney unakku kalayanam dhana??" nu kettan...naan avana muraithu "nee enna loose a da?? Kavi Akka(En perimma ponnu) kku pannitu dhan enakku paarpanga...Adhuvum illama, 8th sem mudiyum bodhu I'll be just 20.5 yrs old and not a "Kizhavan" like you...So enga veetla ivalavu chinna vayasula kalayanam panna maataanga" nu sonnen....Avan "Adipaavi, unnai vida 1.5 yrs dhan olderana enna "kizhavan" solriya...Adhusari needhan Unga veetla , un thollai thaanga mudiyama 2.5 yrs la LKG serthathil irundhu, valarave illaye.. Adhudhana innum toys vechu saami vilaiyatellam vilayadra...So comparatively I'm much more older n matured than you" nu seendi vittutan...Naan tension agi, enga rendu perukkum adithadi sandai varadhukku munnadi, enga gang vandhu divert pannitanga...

    Idharku idayil, Sugi kka, Aakash kita ennai patri ketrukaanga....Because she understood his feelings towards me, when he insisted that she gets me that big Tweety doll from B'lore...She was surprised to the core "yarukku evan evlo aarvama gift panran" nu... Namma Hero adhukku "Naan avakitta open a en feelings express pannadhey illa Sugi:(...Avalukku en feelings sonna, adha patri process panni, suyama respond panra alavukku maturity kidaiyadhu...Naanum"I Love You" nu sollitu poiyiruva.. Appuram ennala dhan ennai control pannika mudiyama, kastama irukkum...Moreover, She is crazy on her family and vice-versa....So avangala kandippa kasta padutha maata"..nu solla, Sugi kka confuse agi, "Ava family a edhukku kasta paduthanumnu??" ketka, Aakash adhukku, "Hey avanga namma caste kidaiyadhu...Ennadhan nammakita panam irundha kooda, avanga parambaraya rich...So avanga kandippa status paarpanga" nu solli irukan...Sugi kka "Thambi(paasam pongum bodhu ippadithan kupiduvanga, even now) ennada panna pora??" nu ketka, Sir veemba "Avalukku mattum dhan family mukiyama....Enakkumdhan nee, Sathyan, Amma n Appa lam important...So kandipa naan thaadi vechuttu, thanni adichutu sutha matten...I'll get over her" nu Kannla thanniyoda solli irukan...Sugi kkavum upset agi azha arambika, Ivan periya ivam madhiri "Nee vera azhudhu ennai torture pannadha..Time is the best healer...Ippo avala daily paarthutte iruken..So ennai control pannika kastama irukku...Once college mudinjadhuna I never know when I'll see her again...Actuala avalukku seekiram kalyanam panitaanganna nalladhu" nu solli irukan....Appuram "Unakku innonu therima Sugi....Radhi N Div love panradhala, avangaloda iva sariya pesuradhey illa...Avanga appa, ammava ninaithu ivalukku kastama irukaam...Idhula naan poi sonna "U too Aakash" nu andha muttai kanna virichu yedho naan solla kudadhadha sonna madhiri muzhipa" nu (sogathulayum) sirichukitte solla, Sugi kka "Form kku vandhutada Thambi" nu solli avangalum all smiles....

    Enga kalyanam fix anadhukku appuram, indha visayamellam enakku Sugi kka sonanga.. Enga rendu perayum, Sugi kka n Hari Anna(avanga husband) pottu above dialogues vechu otti yeduthutaanga..Ippodhan konjam adangirukaanga....

    Sir Diary la ezhuthirukar: Worst moments: "It hurts me, not to open my heart to her, but if I do, it'll hurt her more"...Feeling light, as I made Sugi's heart heavy.....Enakku idha padichittu(present tense la) semaya azhugai vandruchu....


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    Final year ke uriya paraparappoda ellorum irunthom...Radhi Kandippa ME panra idea la irundhadhala, GATE kku prepare pannitirundha....Preeth MS kku foreign pora plan la, adhukku prepare pannitu irundha...matra ellorum, ennaiyum, Aakashayum thavira, campus placements kku prepare pannittu irundhanga....I was not sure what to do next...Adhukkku enga HOD "Class topper neeyen ippadi iruka" nu ennai kadithadhu vera visayam.... Aakash kku Business la enter agadhan aasai....But mama told him "Eppadiyum Sathyan(he is a doctor) namma business(textiles) kku vara poradhillai....Needhan paarkanum...But ippo unakku anubhavam podhadhu....nee innum konja naal velila velai paar or higher studies pannu".... So sir, adhula bayangara upset....

    Meanwhile, naan appa, amma kitta poi, next enna panradhunu ketka, Amma "nee veetlaye iru...illana Chennai(Athai anga irukaanga) la short term cookery class, painting class lam po, oru two years kalithu kalyanathukku parkalam" nu sonnanga... But Appa had other thoughts in his mind...So he said "Kanna, unakku higher studies (abroad/local) enganalum panna okya" nu ketka, naan "idhukumela ennala padika mudiyadhu" nu sonnen...Appo Campus interviews attend pannu nu sonnanga...Amma udaney "ennanga neenga??? Pri kutti edhukku velai kku poganum...Ava veetla irundhaley, nerathukku saapida vaika, kulika kilappa, yen enna dress podradhunu select panra varaikum, naan venum...Eva enga poi eppadi samalippa...Adhuvum illama ivala anupittu, saaptala, thoonginala nu theriyama nama eppadi nimmadhiya irukaradhu...Avalukku veetla bore adicha namma company(spinning mill) kku poi, business kathukattum" nu sollitanga...Appapa en mela enna oru nambikai... Appa udaney "nee solra madhiri, avalukku velila poi samalikaradhu kastam dhan...Ana, ippo nama anuppati, eppo idhellam ava kathukaradhu??....Velila thangi, velaikku poi, situations kku adjust panni, thaniya decision eduthu pazhagattum" nu solla, Amma arai manasa othukittaanga...

    Ippodhan enakku Aakash munnadi madhiri ennai seendradhu illaiyonu thonuchu...Adhai avankitta ketka, avan en kaiya pidichuttu "Indha Kai yevan pidikka porano???.... Unnai yellam, ennai vida, yevandi nalla purinjupan...paarthupan" nu solla, naan appadiye shock agitten....Adhukku naan react panradhukulla, Dhinu vandhu final year project discussion ku Aakash a kootitu poitan...So the moment just passed away....Adhukku piragu appadi pesiyadha avan kaatikavo, explanation kudukavo illai.....Naanum ketkalai.

    Then final year mudiyum podhu, enga gang la ellorum settled...Radhi super a Gate la score panni, Anna uni la avalukku ME kedachiruchu(Avalukku double sandhosam, enna Senthil Anna appo Chennai la work pannanga)...Preeth kum scholarshippoda MS kidaichachu...I had offer from two companies....Aakash and matra ella friendsum placed....Enga collegoda mahimai appadi....

    Last semla naangellam bayangara aattam....Project panrom nu solli OD vaangittu koothadichittu irundhom....Idhula enga college la vera dept. la irundhu, but enga batch mate oruthan enakku propose panna, naan vazhakkam pola reject panniten...Adhukku avan enna vittutu Aakash mela kaduppa irundhan....Naan reject pannadhukappuram, eppo paarthalum Aakash a muraippan....Enga gang ku sollava venum...Aakash enkita pesinaley, "Machi anga paaru, pangali muraikaran...Edho nanbana poitadhala, un mela vizhara adiyila, rendu adiya naanga vaangikuvom...adhukku mela unna naanga kaaptha mudiyadhu GG" nu solli otta arambichanga...Idhuvaraikkum, indha madhiri teasing kellam bayangara kudhichu, sandai potta naan, ippovellam Aakash policy la sirichutte vittuten...Class free hour vandhutta podhum, avlodhan.....Appadi vandha oru game la, ellorayum dias la yetri, kelvi ketpaanga....Naangellam adha assalta handle panna, irukaradhulaye Shy type aana, Radhi maati kitta.....Ava kitta "unakku yaru madhiri husband varanum nu(whole college knew her love affair with Senthil Anna) namma class la, sari vidu namma batch la irundhu oru paiyan peru sollunaanga...Kadippa bathil sollamaata nu ellorum ethir paarka, Madam coola oru second kooda yosikama "GG" nu sollita....Athoda niruthikala, avankita enna characters ellam ivalukku pidikkum, avan oru nallavan, vallavan nu sollite Pona....Ellorum Aakash a paarthu "Nee enna machi solra...Radhi ok va enakku??" nu ketka....Sollanuma ivanukku, "Radhi nama eppo kalyanam pannikalam...Senthil kitta sollitu pannuvoma??" nu ketka ava "Enakku kudipinai irundha adutha jenmathil nama seralam Jeeva" nu sollitu vandhu utkarnthuttaa....

    Final year college day vandhuchu....Aakash ennoda favourite pattana Bharathiya's "Suttum Vizhi Sudar dhan Kannamma" paadinaan....Naan opening dance andha year adalai...But oru fusion dance la, Minnaley Theme music kku mattum, classical dance adanum solli Juniors sonnadhala, adha mattum adinen...Avlo naala sogama illadha enga gang la ellorum sema sogama irundhanga....Ellorum slam book thookitu alaya, enga gang la mattum, naanga engalukkulla, vaangi kalai...Because we all knew that college mudinju ponalum, we'll be in touchnu....Function mudiyarappo ellorum Aakash a pada solli solla, avan first year la padina "Kadhal rojave" song la arambithu, naan dance adina "Poo pol nenjai koithaval" song, appuramum niraya songs paadinan, neyar virupathirkerpa...Mudikkum bodhu avanoda favourite songa paada solli ketka, "Iruvizhi Unadhu" song padi mudichappo, naan bayangarama azha arambichutten...Adhu yennu inikku varaikum enakku theriyalai...Gangey koodi samadhanam panna, Aakash vandhu avan kerchief eduthu kannai thudaithu vittu, "Hey needhana sonna, college mudinjalum nama eppovum pola pesuvom....meet pannuvomnu...Naan ippo solren kettuko "whereever I'm, whatever I do, I'll be there for you always" sariya...azha koodadhu... Nee enakku promise pannirukella, en munnadi azha mattenu" sonnan...udaney switch pota madhiri azhugai nirka, "Tha's my girl" nu as usual a kannathil thattitu poitan... Indha incident ennala marakave mudiyadhu....Naanga pottirundha dress la irundhu, avan kerchief varaikkum indha incident type pannum bodhu enakku kan munnal vandhadhu... We treasure those memories forever!!!!!

    Aakash ku dhan first call letter vandhadhu...Avan B'lore poitan....Enakku call letter came from both Chennai n B'lore...Amma, Chennai la athai veedu irukaradhala anga join panna solla, Appa "Anga ponalum Pri namma veetla irukara madhiri dhan irupa, adhunala B'lore pogatum" nu sollitaanga....Aakash Sugi kka kitta naan B'lore varadha patri discuss panna, avanga "Priyava pakkathulaye vechittu nee un feelings overcome pannuda thambi....Appodhan nee vera yaravadhu kalyanam pannum bodhu u'll not have any regrets" appadinu ennamo philosophical vilakamellam kuduthu avana kuzhapitaanga.....

    So ippo engal Kadhal Kadhai, Tamilnadula irundhu B'lore kku shift agudhu....Inga enna nadandhadhu nu next update la solren......


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    Hereís the continuationÖ

    More harsh treatments were going on for a week. They stopped me from going to college. This time didnít ask him/his parents to come. Nor my family went to talk. They decided to finish off my marriage soon. Many discussions went in home and all decided to ask my uncle to marry me (my momís chitti paiyan) and so decided to get TC from college.

    My parents along with my uncle went to my college and complained about him that he is disturbing me. There our academic co-ord called him from class and had scolded him nicely. He had tried to explain that I too love him. Itís mutualÖBut she was supporting my parents. She at a point had slapped him. Then she has asked to bring me to college for enquiry. At the same day he was asked to bring his parents.. My mom has scolded him like anything and had even spoken badly about me. Iím unaware of all these happenings.. They informed me that coming Friday need to go to college and collect TC. None talked to me and I was just crying and begging them not to get TC and donít want marriage nu. I shouted that I cant marry anyone else.. My uncle got into terrible anger and dragged me out of room and poured kerosene in my legs. Iím really shocked. I believed so long that these people had affection on me. so wont go beyond an limit. but at that time I couldnít do anything. My dad stopped him. Even now I have doubt that how he could have done this to me..I didnít eat for three days.actually none bothered..I was so weak and started to faint..I was taken to hospital and given treatment. Itís peak of their stupid behavior.. Their minds have judged me so cheaply..I was forced to undergo virginity test.I felt so bad..even now I couldnít control my tears..I didnít speak to them.was remaining quiet. I feeled like committing suicide but felt unworthy of ending my life for the sake of them.

    Then after two days went to college.My parents,uncle,his friend all came with me. .I saw him entering with his mom and uncle and one more person.He looked so dull.I felt sorry for him for troubling him..Our academic co-ord called me first and spoke to me personally..I was instructed to blame him by my parents..

    My thoughts were to save his education..she asked me what happened and said what actually happened and begged her not to dismiss him.I was ready to get my TC.I didnít think whats next..I wont marry anyone else but now dono how to overcome..Then I was asked to wait out and he went in. After sometime our chairman came and adviced my parents not to stop my education.He assured that he will take care of me.My parents said no.He then asked us to wait.I saw him coming with my lover.he was advising him something I felt.Then he with his mom left the place.Our co-ord came and asked my parents if its k if they change my section and permit to study.My parents to my surprise said k and we left..while our car came out, I could see him walking along with his mom.I couldnot describe my pain.dono what happened to him.much worriedÖ

    In my home they consulted astrologer to fix marriage date the next day itself.but suddenly a call came.my grandmother(my momís chitti) died.His son was the alliance seeked for me.So they decided to postpone the marriage.Monday I went to college.To my old class where I studied in first year.I felt so bad and ashamed.I was sitting alone in an corner bench.few friends came and spoke to me.but none sat near me.Each staff asked why Iím here now.My first year friend (Sindu) said that I came for her only.I could not be alone without her and so came back.Every one knows the actual reason but none questioned.I was peeping out to see any friends from that class come here.I saw him standing out of his class.I couldnít go and talk as both have assured not to speak to our chairman that mrg..I felt happy that he is continuing to study..But I diono what to do next.My friend (geetha) came and met me.she ensured no one around me and asked whats my decision.whats happening in home.I was so so afraid that someone could inform my parents and said her to inform him that ĎPls wait..Concentrate on studies.Iím afraid about your future.let me take some time to decide what to do..Don try to contact me nor follow meí.She said k and went.For a week I dint speak anything.I was just lying in the desk and crying always.some boys in my class tried to console me.none of the girls did.how could they.they too are timid like me..


    After 2 days our friend (shiva) from my old class came to my bus.I was sitting with sindu.only we three were in the bus.He gave his mobile to me and asked to speak to him.I first denied but then called.I started speaking..I begged him to take care of his health,to study.He asked me what is your decision,wanna breakup this relationship?I remained silent.He asked me to meet him in person somehow the next day.I said I cnat.Already had undergone more problems.now not ready to worsen the situation.I couldnít speak much as people started coming.Next day again shiva came to my class and asked me what to do?I too felt that it would be better if I speak in person.He then made a plan.during our class lab session he came in and asked my staff to permit me out as HOD called me.He actually lied.Then I met him in the auditorium.He said ĎI feel so bad ma. I couldnot progress my studies after seeing your negative reactions..just say your decision.Iím ready to get transfer to some other college and go out if thatís your wish..í I had already taken my decision.I want him..He is that much worthy.He didnít blame instead understood me and my situation.Such an great love. I assured him my love,asked him to complete his studies.Informed him about the girl who started all problems.He touched me for the first time..holded my arms and asked me to be bold enough.I just nodded my head and started crying..My pains were healed at that instant....


    Will continue...


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    I know a guy called Vino, I used to play with him till i was 10. Then he moved to a different house in the same colony. He is also distant relative of mine. When i joined my college , My dad introduced me to Vino, he was doing his final year BE in the same college, My dad asked him to take care of me and teach me about the bus route and etc., Vino has grown a lot since we last met, I couldn't even recognize him. I am scared of going to final year building on Friday. I never called Vino or meet him for 3 months. Somehow i managed to learn the bus route etc., by myself. Even though ragging is banned in hostel, Once in a while seniors were catching junior girls and asking questions.All of the Juniors (including me) afraid of a senior girl called Mino, One day she asked me to visit her room, I went to her room, totally 15 seniors sitting in the room, I was so afraid, I want to run from that place. They had known about my native place, started asking question person called "GINI". I told them i don't know any one by that name. They told me that Gini is big rowdy from final year and he is from my native place and asked me to be careful. Then some usual ragging - singing , monkey dance. 3 months passed , I was talking in my math class, My teacher threw me out from the class, I don't know where to go, I saw Vino going towards library, I went / ran to him. He was with some of his friends, I went there said hi. How bold of me ? He and his friends were bit shocked to see me. He didn't say "HI". But i didn't care, I was telling them that Pettha Perumal threw me out of his class, I bored to stand out , i was telling them that i was afraid to come to final year building / canteen , that why i never meet Vino. All of his friends were seeing me like a "Jandu", Intha ponna enga mama pidicha ? intha podu podura ? unnadu therinja ponna ? Vino didn't talk, I told them I know Vino from childhood blah blah.. Vino looked at his friends and gave some signal and they all moved away. he opened his mouth.. are you escaped from mental hospital or loose your brain ? don't ever meet me when i am with my friends, thats all , he moved away from me.

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    2 more months passed, I didn't meet him. One Friday i went to eat out with my classmates before getting in bus to my native place. I went in 6.30 bus instead of regular bus at 5.30. I met 2 boys from my college - Krishna (3rd year) , Arun (2nd year). They were joking about the staff, I was enjoying their jokes and passed some jokes too. I was sitting in the 2 seats and boys were sitting 3 seats in the parallel row. I was also talking with lady sitting near me about me and her family. Vino was sitting in the back row. I didn't notice him due to my arattai. I have to catch a another mini bus to reach my home (15 mins from bus stand) . I was standing in the bus stand to catch the mini bus, one bike came fast and stopped close to me, I jumped away and was starting to scold that person and saw Vino. He didn't say hi, just told me " ஏறு " . i turned away from him and checking whether he is talking to me or someone else. Neenga thaana pesakudathunnu soninga, ippa mattum enna? I told you not to disturb me when i am with my friends, I don't see any friends now, get in, i will drop you. I also need to talk to you. Namakku thaan mullai konjam kuda ketaiyathey ? Avanga bikela kilambitaen. when we are travelling he advised me about talking to strangers and senior boys. he ordered me to stop all that nonsense (enna thimir ?!). I told him , i will not stop and it is not a nonsense. unnaku sondha mulaiyum kitaiyathu , solli kuduthalum puriyathu ? If you are not doing what i am saying , i will tell your dad, he knows my father is very strict.I got so mad, I pinched his back very hard. He didn't expect that from me. he stopped the bike and asked me to get down. I was asking sorry but he didn't even listen or turn back, he went away. I was luckily 10 mins walk from the house , i was cursing him all the way to my home.

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    After that incident, I didn't see him for 4 months. Then the college day came.. I was sitting near Girija from 2nd year, She asked me slowly turn to my back and see a guy in black shirt. I turned and saw Vino there, Girija was telling that guy's name is Gini - he is big rowdy from electronic department, everyone is afraid of him including the staffs. I thought that she is mistaken Vino for other rowdy. I told her he is not Gini, his name is Vino.Girija said , she know it for sure , he is that rowdy - his full name Vinogini. He suppose to graduate last year, Gini got expelled one year in college due to drinking/beating a staff in the college campus.I was so shocked to hear these info. Then the days were passing.I was staying in hostel during my study holidays.I was from tamil medium, had tough time in first year. I used to read with my classmate Senthil in college canteen. During first year's study holidays, Final year exam was going on. Vino saw me with Senthil multiple times, He finished his last exam and came to our table and gave a smack on Senthil's back. Vino asked Senthil to go to hostel. "why don't you study with girls? Why are you always talking with boys ? " Vino"Whats wrong in my doing" Me
    "Behave well , otherwise I will tell your dad" Vino
    "Nannum unga rowdy thanatha sollava ? You behave well before advising me.. kanna paru, kudikaran kannu mathiri" me
    "Romba paesura? Unna yellam thiruthavae mudiyathu, eppadiyo poi thollai" Vino
    "I don't want to see you again .I hate you" I yelled at him and ran away from that place.



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    while I was doing my second year, My sister (Vidhya) got married to Vino's cousin (periyamma paiyan). It is one of those quick marriage.. happened in 15 days, my BIL working in USA , came for vacation for 30 days, he married my sister in 20th day. We know Vino's family, but didn't know his periyamma's family. they are settled in Madras, But somehow my sister agreed to marry my BIL. Vino's mom is main reason for my sis's marriage. I already told you that my dad is strict, he didn't allow me to cut the college,Due to this, I didn't get a chance to meet Vino, until My sister's engagement (April 3rd).

    My sister is 5 years elder than me, But I am like my dad, being 5' 9" and little chubby . I was wearing Saree, Standing beside my sister , lot of people thought that I am the elder sister and married and heard couple of hurting comments about my size. Vino was so busy with arrangements, He didn't see me until we went to dinner. We were so late to eat, Vino was sitting next to me, didn't even say "hi". When i was eating my 4th sweet - (i couldn't help, so tempting Badusha ...yummy), he said eppadi sapitta pogum pothu intha door valiya poga mudithu, suvara idikkanum pola !!. I was very upset to hear that comment from him, I didn't touch my food after that. Vino saw my face, I was about to cry. He said "Sorry" for the first time.Summa than sonnaen , sapidu !!. I didn't care about his sorry, I was sitting without eating anything. sollurenla sapiddu. My sister was sitting my other side, I told her that I have a headache, going to the room and left to room without even washing my hands.i was crying the whole night and decided to loose some weight ?!!.Next day(April 4th) my mom asked me to wear Chudidhar - she was also upset to hear that "Married woman" comment.I didn't talk or look at Vino that day. But he was trying to talk to me.


    My sister went to US on April 18th, I met vino again in airport, but didn't talk.
    In may 20th he came to my house before going to US for doing his masters, i didn't talk to him. He didn't try to talk to me either.


    Almost 3 years passed, I finished my college.During my college days i was quite famous(I lost so much weight too .. enna effect???), got multiple proposals , but i told everyone about my dad and rejected all the proposals. My dad asked me stay at home, he was looking for groom, but i didn't get nice match, jadhagathula some problem. In these 3 years, My sister had couple of miscarriages (poor girl, we were so sad). She got pregnant again with twins, doctor asked her to take bed rest this time, My BIL was taking care of her well, but my sister needed someone when my BIL was in office. My mom wanted to go after the babies were born, My sister's MIL was busy with her daughter's delivery. So I went to Chicago,US in Aug 23rd( luckily i got my visitor's VISA).

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    Here comes our actual love story
    I reached US at 8 PM in the evening, When i came out of gate, I saw Vino with my BIL.Vino had gained some weight, looking very handsome and smiling at me. I felt something different this time. I liked that feeling too. I still remember the words he said, Thakks, eppadi erukka ?!! (My sister always calls me Thakks --thakkali (tomato)) . In our car journey, i came to know that Vino got a job in Chicago recently and staying in my sister's house.


    Before coming to US, My mom was teaching me cooking, But i didn't pay much attention. First day in US, I tasted the chicken curry prepared by Vino , it was so yummy, I decided to marry Vino that day ( sariyana sappattu ramami !!).First 4 days i didn't cook ,talking the whole time or sleeping (jet lag). My BIL and Vino prepared meals for us.
    5 th day was friday - I wanted to prepare dinner-(sambar/pongal), I started around 4 since i was new and slow. I put dal in the cooker, kept for 20 mins. When i opened the cooker. Dal was not mashed, it cooked weird. I cooked again for 20 mins, but it looked weird even then. I went ahead and prepared the sambar and pongal. When we were eating dinner , my BIL was asking me that enna sambar ethu, puthu vithama erukku ? eppadi pannina ? usual than , but dal looked weird here. Vino was laughing and asked me bring the dal i put on sambar. See... it was chenna dal , not door dal , looked little bit different. Like these , I did.. lot of kokku mokku vellai. But this time Vino didn't yell at me , all of his anger gone some where. he got matured in 3 years...

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    Vino moved to a house close to his office in 2 weeks, but he came to sister's house over the weekends. Sometimes i got bored without going any where, simply staying in the house. My BIL noticed this, but he couldn't help, He asked Vino to take me to City and show me the places like sears towers, Museum, aquarium .. etc., While we went out, I never saw him smoke or drink. One day while I inquired, he said, his anger is towards his dad. Vino's dad had a affair with a lady, Vino wanted his dad's attention, that's why he drank and did all the rowdy activities. He shared his secrets with me, it made me close to him. we became close friends. But he didn't propose. We arranged my sister's baby shower in her 7th month, lot of people came, I Being jovial person, talking to everyone (ladies or gents). I didn't pay much attention to Vino. Vino was also busy with food arrangement and gifts. One of my BIL's coworker -Rajesh and his mom liked me so much, they were calling me to their house. I also agreed to visit them the next Thursday evening (thanks giving day). I went to Rajesh's house on Thursday evening, they were so nice to me. When i returned back home, Rajesh dropped me and he batted in my shoulder and said , it was not awkward , just brotherly. Rajesh was like 12 years older than me but not married. I was thinking him like big brother, I even called him Rajesh Anna the whole time when i was in their house.Vino got mad when he saw me with Rajesh and he just ignored me that night. Next day was black friday (its like Aadi thalupadi- you can get things for less price),we had plan to go for shopping - Gurnee mall. I woke up around 4 AM, poor guy vino agreed to take me to shopping.
    It takes almost 30 mins to reach that mall, he didn't talk to me well, when i asked something, he just said "yes" or "No". I didn't notice this difference for first 25 mins, was busy hearing Nice A R Rahman songs. last 5 mins, I was trying to recollect the things whether i did something wrong the night before. Only one thing was I was not there in the house, when Vino came to my sister's house (the night before). then I was saying..

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