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44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship


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    44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship

    44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship

    Check in with your inner monologue and answer these relationship questions after you have gotten to know him well enough to get a good sense of who he is. If you donít know him very well, donít answer these questions until you learn more about him (and donít make a decision about whether heís the guy for you before then, either!).

    About Me

    • Do I like how he treats me?
    • Am I a priority in his life?
    • Does he respect me?
    • Do I feel safe around him?
    • Does he accept me for who I am?
    • Am I being my authentic self around him?
    • Can I express myself freely when difficult situations come up?
    • Do I feel secure when weíre together and when weíre not together?
    • Does he inspire me to be the best version of myself?
    • Is he encouraging and supportive of what I want in life?
    • Is he genuinely happy for me when good things happen to me?
    • Can I live with his quirky behaviors and traits?
    • Do I like him the way he is if he never changes?
    • Am I having fun with him?
    • Do I like who I am when Iím with and without him?
    • Do I feel uplifted when weíre together?
    • Do I feel free to pursue my passions, have alone time, and spend time with friends and family?
    • Do my family and friends like him?
    • Do I like his family and friends?
    • Can I see us growing old together?


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    Re: 44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship

    Now, you’ll need to answer some questions about him. (After all, he is the variable factor in this equation)!

    About him

    • Does he treat his family well?
    • Does he treat others well?
    • Is he patient with me?
    • Does he bring out the best in me?
    • Can he live with my quirky behaviors and traits?
    • Does he have any red flags?
    • Is he a true friend?
    • Is he open to trying new things and adventures?
    • Is he open to my perspectives?
    • Has he introduced me to his family and friends?
    • Does he include me in all aspects of his life?
    • Does he add joy to my life?
    • Do his behaviors and actions match his words?
    • Does he have integrity (i.e. trustworthy, does what he says and says what he does, etc.)?
    • Is he ready to settle down with one woman?
    • Is he looking for a long-term commitment?


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    Re: 44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship

    About us


    • Do we have similar goals in life?
    • Do we share similar morals and values?
    • Do we have similar financial styles?
    • Do we communicate openly and respectfully?
    • Do we truly enjoy each otherís company?
    • Do we add to each otherís lives in a positive way?
    • Does our connection grow stronger each time we see each other?
    • Are we looking for the same type of relationship?


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    Re: 44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship

    Very good questions to be asked to oneself.

    Very good suggestion....thanks Viji

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    Re: 44 Relationship Questions To Ask Yourself In A New Relationship

    What Your Answers Reveal And What To Do

    If you’ve answered “yes” to all of these questions, your man is a keeper. You’re definitely on track to a long-term, committed relationship. Continue being the woman he is falling for, accept your differences, embrace his quirks, and live your own life by doing things you love. If you want to have “the talk”, simply share how you would like to see your relationship progress (without being demanding and without an ultimatum) and let him share his thoughts.

    If you’ve answered “no” to some of these questions, don’t panic. Some of your “no” answers aren’t necessarily an indication that you’re not on track to a great long-term relationship. They may indicate some inner work needing to be done if you don’t want to keep repeating the same relationship patterns. For instance, if you’ve always had a hard time communicating openly in your relationships, this is a pattern you’ll want to reverse. Having a healthy relationship means expressing yourself freely in all situations, especially difficult ones. If “no” is your answer to “Can I express myself freely when difficult situations come up?”, this is an opportunity to improve your communication skills.

    If your answers are a mix of “yes” and “no”, review your “no” answers and determine which ones are deal breakers and which ones you can live with. For instance, if you want a long-term commitment, and he isn’t looking to settle down with one woman, this is definitely a deal breaker. Instead of wasting precious years by staying around and hoping he’ll change his mind, leave and make yourself available for a guy who wants a long-term commitment with you. As hard as it may be to leave a guy you really like, it’s in your best interest — you won’t waste valuable time in a dead-end relationship or he may realize you are “the one” and come back for you.

    The Bottom Line
    If you’re in a new relationship with a guy you really like, let these questions be part of your decision-making process to determine if he is worthy of being in monogamous , long-term commitment with you. What other relationship questions do you think a woman should ask to see if she’s on the right track for a long-term commitment? Respond in the comments below!

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