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    very very bad husband - doubting me much

    my husband doubting me very much. we are married before a year. our anniversay completed last month only. he is doubting me very much and checking my phone messages and call logs etc et.c

    it aches me very much. i am 100% true to him,even i don't have any affair before my marriage. how can i make him to believe that i am true?

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    Re: very very bad husband - doubting me much

    Hi Ranthinam, welcome to penmai.com!

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    Re: very very bad husband - doubting me much

    Quote Originally Posted by ranthinams View Post
    my husband doubting me very much. we are married before a year. our anniversay completed last month only. he is doubting me very much and checking my phone messages and call logs etc et.c

    it aches me very much. i am 100% true to him,even i don't have any affair before my marriage. how can i make him to believe that i am true?
    Hi ranthinams, don't worry much about these things! There is nothing to get pained because of this behavior of your husband. Not only your husband, all male members of this society are like this only. That is their birth character. Don't give much weightage to these things and let him check whatever he wants. Don't oppose anything. They will again doubt much more. This is because of lot of possessiveness he got towards you! Talk to him one or twice about your feelings when he is good mood. If he is not changing his character, leave it and forget it. Let him check. What is there in that! Submit your prayers to The God and ask The God to give you lot of happy and enjoyable life with your husband. Naturally your prayers will be answered by The God by blessing with peaceful and amicable life with your husband. Every woman are facing this problem. You have come out here in penmai. Others are keeping the problem with them only. That is the difference. We will submit our prayers to The God to bless with you a peaceful and happy wedded life with your husband and wish you the best in your life! Thank you!

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    Re: very very bad husband - doubting me much

    Welcome to Penmai....friend.

    Yes.....this will be really painful.

    Talk to him openly as why he is suspecting you.

    Tell him that you are totally affectionate only to him and will always be like the same throughout your married life.

    Tell him that it makes you painful when he is suspecting you.

    Tell him that he will also feel the same if you are checking all his calls and other details about his daily routine.

    Tell him that mutual trusting of husband and wife is the most important factor in a harmonial married life.

    I think, he might do this, because he would have heard from any of his friends, that some working ladies may have extra marital affairs or anything like that.

    If suppose, he is not listening after your repeated pleadings not to suspect you, you can talk to a Psychiatrist about this. This is because, few men suffer from this type of disorder who will always suspect the persons close to them without any reason. This could be cured very easily by the Psychiatrist. You can ask the doctor himself, as how to bring your husband for the consultation without any fight.

    But remember, that this is the extreme case and the final decision to go to the Psychiatrist, if the suspicious nature is going beyond control.

    All the best.


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