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How to avoid frequent fights between wife and husband?


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    How to avoid frequent fights between wife and husband?

    How to avoid frequent fights between wife and husband?

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    The basic essence of marriage is love and understanding. If love is there everything will be there. If any topic creates a fight that topic should not be discussed. Communication should not be missing, i.e., both should spend time for sitting and talking open heartedly they should not always spend time in work without communicating with each other.

    They should be good forgivers, i.e., if wife commits any mistake she should openly accept and ask for forgiveness at the same time the husband should have the heart to forgive and vice versa.

    Keeping good relation between husband and wife is important for enjoying happy family life along with children. Children will be benefited for their perfect and healthy growth in a good family environment created by their parents. Therefore it is essential to avoid frequent fights between husband and wife due to any small affairs in daily family life.

    The following tips will be helpful to maintain good relationships between husband and wife to enjoy happy family life style:

    • Both husband and wife should be faithful to each other.

    • Openness in mind, patience, tolerance, trust and interdependence can be helpful for good relationship between husband and wife.

    • Love your children and care for their future career which will also keep healthy relation between husband and wife.

    •Don't avoid your own responsibility to maintain smooth and happy family life.

    • Caring each other will be effective to maintain good relationship between husband and wife for disciplined and happy family life along with the children.

    • Both husband and wife should be polite and reasonable in their family life style.

    • Reasonable and justified demands from each other can help for better adjustment between husband and wife.

    • Office and family environments are different. So avoid bossing attitude in family life to keep friendly relationship between husband and wife.

    • Wife should avoid to nag husband repeating avoidable small incidence in family affairs to maintain happy relationship with husband.

    • Blaming to each other for any mistakes will damage friendly relationship between husband and wife. Sharing responsibilities will keep good bonding between husband and wife.

    • Don't disobey spiritual belief of both husband and wife to maintain best relation between husband and wife.


    Regards,
    Sumathi Srini





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    Re: How to avoid frequent fights between wife and husband?

    Nice points for a beautiful & successful marriage life.

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    Re: How to avoid frequent fights between wife and husband?

    hi sumathi,
    romba nalla karuthugal....sandhosamana kudumba vaalvukku iruvarume serndhu porada vendiyadhu mukkiyam... atleast rendu perum nenachale podhum... automatically vittu kodukka aarambichiduvaanga... ore sidela illama, rendu perum serndhu sandhosama vittu kodukka palaganum... illaya friend? -Anitha.

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    Re: How to avoid frequent fights between wife and husband?

    Tips For Successful Marriage

    Marriage..!!! The most awaited festival of life is a word that carries a number of intuitions within. A new phase of life starts from it and enters one to a new world of fantasies and convictions. Eminently, and unexceptionally, marriages are dreams, which every individual wishes to come true. But why the relationship breaks?

    There are a lot of expectations from our partner especially in cases of love marriage, but when we start experiencing changes in the behavior of our better half, we shake. In this short article let us put an eye on some of the tips given by experts on “Happy marriage life”. So whether you are 20 or 50, it is never late for love.

    How to resolve Clashes?

    Psychologists after studying the life of a number of married couples, have figured out that the reason for every unsuccessful marriage is the inability to resolve the conflict.

    You may think that you know your partner more than anything, yet there are certain things upon which both of your opinions do not match. This often results in misunderstanding, abuses and depressions.

    Whatever bad feeling is between them successful couples keep communicating. Love is not winning conversations but it is something to win the situation. So, both must negotiate the disagreements and if sometimes your partner wants you to change just give it a try, so that your clash ends up in a fair deal.

    Never allow anyone to come into your life. Don’t even leave your parents or siblings.

    Always Talk Straight!!

    There should not be any communication gap come between you and your partner. Understanding between both increases only by talking about things. If there is a disagreement with your partner’s views don’t end up with clash, talk deeply and vent your heart out. Though it may take some time to resolve contentions, you will definitely find a way out. Even after marriage try to talk about each others expectations. This creates a feeling of being wanted between both, which is the loveliest feeling on this earth.

    Do not take your partner for granted!

    After marriage we forget little courtesies and certain important things like respecting each other, appreciating one another, listening to each others opinion and to ask for an advice. These are certain important things and this gives immense pleasure to your spouse. When you practice this you start enjoying life rather than just living a life.

    Never loose the lust!!

    Successful couples always keep the lust alive! Even after the first child’s birth. Successful couples always stay affectionate. Always make it a routine to kiss, hug and becoming sensuous most of the time. They make it sure in understanding the sexual needs of the partner. Find new ways in pleasing your partner as this will strengthen your bond with you and your spouse.

    Accept natural changes

    As time changes, our personality too changes. The person we marry will not retain the same appearance after years of marriage. Same thing even applies to the relation. As the situations change we should have no other choice than to mould with them. We must try to learn to accept the natural changes rather than demanding the same forever. Successful couples try to fill the empty space in the life of their spouse and remain by their side whenever they need them.

    Never lose your Discreteness!!

    After the knot is tied, almost everything is your life is tied up with the partner. Initially, everyone enjoys that, but, gradually as the time passes, we get used to it. The increased responsibilities of children, house work and job tensions brings frustrations to our life. When all this starts, it’s the time how we start to cope up with life!

    Encourage each other to spend time in activities which they would like to do. Often couples thinks that after marriage everything has to be ‘us’ and not `me’. But this is not true individuality is always required. This is the one which brings liveliness to the relation and life.

    Keep working on the relation!

    After being married for a long time, don’t think that nothing can harm the bond. Please be cautious!! Marriage is a relation that is very sensitive and any small false perceptions can be dangerous. So always keep talking to each other about your relation and what you expect from the partner.

    To sum up, the love should not die. Be the greatest support to your partner. Fix the clashes and try to solve before they become a big problem and don’t ever feel shy to talk and discuss out whatever you feel.

    Regards,
    Sumathi Srini

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