Be a Béauty
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21st Sep 2011, 11:00 PM #1
Be a Béauty
Be a Béauty
Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart. ~Kahlil Gibran
The characterization of a person as “beautiful”, whether on an individual basis or by community consensus,based on some combination of inner beauty, and outer beauty
Inner beauty, which includes psychological factors such as personality, intelligence, grace, politeness, charisma, integrity, congruence and elegance
outer beauty (i.e. physical attractiveness) which includes physical attributes which are valued on a subjective basis
Standards of beauty have changed over time, based on changing cultural values
However, humans who are relatively young, with smooth skin, well-proportioned bodies, and regular features, have traditionally been considered the most beautiful throughout history.
i think beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder
The key to being beautiful is knowing that you already are. But sometimes it's hard to acknowledge our own beauty when we just don't feel beautiful. Here are some things you can do to remind yourself that you're already beautiful.
1.Look in the mirror,
You're unique. No one else looks like you. our personalities and expressions are unique.
Say to yourself, out loud: "Unique is beautiful." Because everyone is beautiful in their own way, don't let anyone tell you different.
Donot immitate Find out your own beauty some thing is special in you, your hair, your nose etc. high light these feature .
3. eachday exclaim yourself in tne mirror
Embark your day by exclaiming to yourself in the mirror each day when you get up how awesome and beautiful you are. That may seem selfish, but it will help you feel good.
Give people around you reasons to make them think that they are beautiful. If you do that to others, it will make you feel good, and you'll realize that beauty is abundant - around you and within you.
5.Be nice to others.
That will make their day too! The most beautiful person you can ever see with a nasty attitude isn't beautiful at all.
6. Make everything around you beautiful
having beautiful surroundings will make you feel beautiful too!.Natural scenaries, nice light,clean house, flowers natural or artificial,,Write "confidence-boosters" on post-it notes, on fridge magnets, on the bathroom mirror with eyeliner... places you're bound to see it.
7. Do what you're good at.
For example if English is your forte, write essays, or any other language too, f you're brilliant at sports don't be afraid to play matches.These things make you to feel happy and that will make you feel beautiful!
8. Make the effort to smile every once in a while
That will make you feel good about yourself, and make others feel positive. You can even practice smiling in the mirror--it'll be a great start to your day and put you in a good mood. Think of something that made you laugh, and you'll have the most charming and pretty smile!
9. Clean up.
Keep yourself clean. Remove acne from your face. Use a light moisturizer that is oil free.
10. Remember that confidence is a very important thing.
Boost your self confidence
11. Body language says a lot
Stand up straight. Let others know that you respect yourself, and they will follow your lead. Plus, it has the visual effect of smoothing out any bulges that aren't particularly flattering. Posture is important and can make you look more attractive.
12. positive compliments
If your friends give you positive compliments, don't try to change them into negative ones. Accept them and use them to make you feel even better
Looking great doesn't mean makeup and clothes, it means feeling good about yourself and staying healthy. Try to exercise for at least a half hour every day,
drink 8 glasses of water daily. The water helps you get a nice glow in your skin and makes your complexion much clearer.
15. If you don't have time to exercise
try doing some brisk walking while running errands.or use staircase,play with your child, play chasing games It is two in one, both are happy so it makes you to feel beautiful
16.All ideas that promise "beauty
Trim your hair if it will make it healthy, lose or gain weight if it will make you healthy, use homemade skin creams and toners to keep your skin healthy, or eat healthy foods to be beautiful.
17.Remind yourself every day that you are important.
18.Just because the opposite sex doesn't seem to pay attention to you now , doesn't mean that you are not beautiful.
wait positively for your Hero
19.Wear well-fitting, well-made clothes. Clothes that are too small or big and that you have to tug at don't make anyone feel good!
20.think of yourself as the winner at a beauty pageant.
21.Face the crowd, stand out, make noise, speak in public speakings, all eyes will be on you. You'll never know what they're thinking; one just might be whispering to their neighbor and saying "What a beautiful, bold individual."
22.Magazines and shows on the television can be extremely superficial. Try to look at less of these. What they show is often an unnatural sort of beauty that isn't realistic
23.Don't try to lose weight by throwing up or not eating. If you want to lose weight, do it in a healthy way by exercising and eating right
24.Attitudes towards Life
Live a stress free, Time conscious, contoled anger,peaceful life
Makeup is made to enhance your natural features, not cover them
Eyeliner adds definition to your eyes. Choose a natural and subtle shade
like brown, to create a strictly neutral look. If you want your neutral look to be a bit bolder, try adding a thin line of black eyeliner
which brightens up your eyes, make it natural and light.Try making it a champagne or brown color for that natural look
Mascara really opens up your eyes and makes your lashes super pretty.
clear lip gloss to enhance your lips. Don't wear shocking colors during the day. Stay pretty natural during the day and play it up during the night.
21st Sep 2011, 11:07 PM #2
Re: Be a Béauty
31. face irritation
use a good face cream and foundation.If you have pimples or other face irritation, use an acne formula that won't dry out your skin.
32. If your parents or your soulmate don't let you wear makeup, then you are probably really pretty without it.
Try your perfumes (if you have them), and see what makes you feel best.
You will probably want a refreshing smell. Spritz yourself once or twice on your wrist (it is not a good idea to rub your wrists together because it can change the scent) your elbows and neck. That creates a hint of scent, which is sexy.
To make the perfume last longer, rub a dab of petroleum jelly on the 'hot spots' of your body and then spray the perfume, so the scent will have something to cling to
Hot spots are places that generate a lot of heat and help the perfume smell stronger (located on the inner-wrist, crease of elbow, below the neck and above the chest, behind the ears, and behind the knee).
You can also spray perfume on your brush before brushing it through the hair to give it a nice scent.
34.Buy clothing that flatters you.
Black clothes are slimming, as are vertical stripes- Be modest, so don't wear shirts that are too low, or shirts or skirts too short.Find out a correct fiting inner garments Ask people at your favorite clothing store to help you find clothing that are flattering to your figure.
35.Flatter a 'blah' outfit with accessories
Get it trimmed regularly. Google colors and styles that best fit your face shape and hair type.
Brush your hair everyday, because it will bring oil from the roots of your hair to the rest of your hair
Apply a heat protectant if straightening or curling your hair, otherwise it can get damaged very easily.
Healthy hair is pretty. You might need some kind of protection spray or shampoo to protect your hair from sun damage.
If you wish to dye your hair, make sure it's a dye that suits your skin tone--two shades darker or lighter than the natural color of your hair.Test before use
On occasion, try considering a professional hairdresser. The extra money is worth it, and the products they use are better quality
38.Maintain good dental hygiene
- Brush your teeth after every meal, floss twice daily, and use mouth wash. visit your Dentist twice a year.
However, don't brush too hard - you may think it cleans your teeth better, but it's only damaging them. Make sure you don't brush until at least 10 minutes after your meal.
39.Remove unwanted body hair. Wax, shave, or pluck body hair such as bikini line, armpit hair, leg hair, eyebrow hair
40. Don't make the shower too hot or too cold. It is a great way to relieve stress.
41.Make sure that you've been putting on deodorant and lotion, maybe even body spray. It won't only take away a stench if you don't have time to shower, but people will be more likely to want to be around you more!
42.If you sweat a little more than usual and regular deodorant doesn't cut it, talk to your doctor. There are certain deodorants that aren't too pricey and can stop those dreaded sweat spots! Don't be embarrassed about it, a lot of people struggle with the same problem.
43.Keep your nails looking nice. When you put your lotion on, don't forget your fingers!
44.Shoes with heels will make your legs look amazing, but don’t wear them too often.
45.Don't try to look or be like someone else. Individuality is good!
46.Keep your heart in place don't let anyone tell you who to be
47.Beware of marketing scams that say that you will be beautiful or feel better about yourself if you get this product. It's not true.
48.Hair on your upper lip? Try waxing, bleaching, or plucking instead. DO NOT shave it!
49.Drugs and drinking alcohol deteriorate your looks.
50.Dressing like a harlot does not make you pretty and will attract the wrong attention.
51.Dress your age. Being 'hot' isn't trying to dress like a teenager when you're 30! Find styles that are appropriate for your age and still make you look great!
52.Don't smoke. Smoking causes yellow teeth, a dull complexion, and leaves you smelling like an ash tray! Gross!
Believe you are beautiful! If you don't think it, no one else will
Your life is what you make of it. If you make yourself out to be beautiful, then that's the way you live your life, so live your life to the fullest, most beautiful way possible, and that's the way you will feel!
29th May 2015, 08:04 AM #3
Re: Be a Béauty
Thanks for the share