Quote Originally Posted by PriyagauthamH View Post
Dear JV akka, Neenga experienced person so thappave edukka maaten..... We discuss here to learn new things and also get advice from people like you who have vast practical knowledge and also know the pitfalls........

The way i do with DD is we have a reward chart ...Any desirable behaviour , act, habit is rewarded a star... untoward behaviour is given a bad girl sticker.... based on any specific requests we count the stars and stickers and tell her if she is allowed her request.... if more stars all or most of request is heeded.... if more stickers then we have a chat and explain and reach a halfway decision.... She is just 4 ...but the star seems to attract her so as of now she is making efforts....... Not always toys or gifts are involved.....it can be a trip to friends place/park /watching a movie etc.....
Its really a good idea dear...