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    Tips to handle the SHY Children


    Tips to handle the SHY Children

    Some children will be bold enough right from the beginning to talk and mingle with anyone and everyone they meet.

    Many children will be of Shy type with whomever they meet other than the family members who are at home.

    These children may get familiar only with their class teachers and class friends after few weeks of joining the school.

    They may not mingle with other friends or talk to other teachers.

    These children may also have difficulty or fear when they are asked to come on the stage for any participation in the school.

    They may not feel to come in front of the guests visiting their home . They may not talk to the neighbours or mingle with other friends in the colony or compound.

    These characters may change for many children as they grow up. But some of them may not change even they grow big.

    We may not know, whether they would change their character in due course.

    So, it is always better to change this character in their childhood itself.


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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children





    Here are some tips which can be followed to overcome this problem.


    • Never say to the child or to others in front of the child, that the child is of shy type and he would not mingle with anybody.
    • By hearing this very often, it would get fixed in their inner conscious that it is their character and would never change. After this, it may become impossible for them to change at any age.
    • You should never scold them for this behaviour.
    • Handle them gently and carefully .
    • So, when you know that if any guest is visiting your house, you can prepare your child that so and so is going to visit the house, and the child should smile at the guest when called in front of them. This is enough in the beginning.
    • Once they get used to this, then ask them to give some water to them . Then ask them to answer the question which is asked to them.
    • Once they do this, you can praise them immediately in front of the guest. This will encourage them.
    • Also,if the guest has brought something for them which they like, you can encourage them by saying, that uncle/aunt has got something of their liking, which would tempt them to come in front of the guest.
    • For these children, initially you can avoid to tell the child to sing the rhymes or tell the stories , in front of the guests or friends.

    If they are telling the rhymes and stories to your household people, that time, you can encourage them , that the guest who is to visit the next day would also praise them as Good Boy/Girl if it is shared to them. This may tempt them.

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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children





    • Take them often to many public places where they could meet lots and lots of people and explain about all the places and types of people you meet there.They may feel acquainted with the places and feel free while going there.
    • Take them often to the parks where other children are also playing. Now, you ask your child to meet only one child there and make friend with that child.
    • By befriending that child, his other friends will also become friends of your child gradually.

    Similarly, you can take them often to the nearby temple where your child can meet people repeatedly and thus get acquainted with them. Then the child will gradually smile at them and start talking to them.


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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children






    • Also you can ask the child to say Good Morning to your neighbour by visiting their house in the morning hours. Initially,ask the child to say just to say Good morning .
    • Later, if anything is necessary from your neighbour, you can send the child and ask for it. Thus gradually they could come out of their shyness.
    • You can visit your friends or relatives house often, who have children. Initially mingling with those children, they would start talking with the elders also.


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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children






    • If the child has shyness only when asked to participate in the school events like singing rhymes or telling stories or in fancy dress competitions, then you can tackle them in the following way.
    • Make a stage at your home with the furnitures available at home. Gather the house members at the hall. Ask the child to go to the stage carefully and start the necessary part to be shared on the stage the next day. All the house members should encourage the child once he shares.You can tell the child now, that the similar thing is going to happen the next day and the child is going to share his views in the similar way without shy and fear which will be applauded by the audience.
    • When you notice that the child is having such hesitation, you can often conduct this type of stage appearances at home, say , once in a week. You can call the neighbours or friends. Also, when there is any get together or when few relatives come with their children, you can also conduct small competition among the children.
    • By these activities, they would gradually overcome their shyness and fear.
    • Last but not the least, you should also enquire about the past events if any, for their fear or shyness. If any such incidents have happened, you should handle the situation carefully by telling that the similar situation can be handled in the right way in future . For this, you may say some tips to handle the situation properly.


    By following these tips, you can help your shy child to become a brave and bold child gradually and overcome their fear and shyness.


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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children

    Superb Like Aunty..

    Enakku Chinna vayasula therinja orey Slogam Gayathri Mantra.. Amma Kovil Porappo Kooda naangalum Pona, Slokas Solla Solvanga Konjam Saththama.. Kovil la irukkura Iyer, Anga vara Makkal Minna Solli Solliye, School days Speech Competition la avlo per MInna Solla naanga Shy ah feel panninathu illai.. # hehe Nan Shy um Kidayathu, athu vera Matter

    But Unga Tips Hit Aunty...


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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children

    Wow... great suggestion Jayanthy, always you are rocking with your tips & suggestion. Feel so happy .


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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children

    Great Jayanthi akkaa ....neenka oru school nadaththalaam. evvalavu ideas for children.

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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children

    Jayanthy sister you gave very good tips for handling shy children. To make them psychologically our culture has insisted telling slokas, bhajans etc in Temples. As kartiga said it was a very good ideas for treating kids with shyness. Now in this present world if we can then sure we can join in the temples meet like this or else we can make our kids joining in Singing class. (I got this from one of the psychologist that singing even in groups reduce shyness and stage fears)

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    Re: Tips to handle the SHY Children

    Quote Originally Posted by gkarti View Post
    Superb Like Aunty..

    Enakku Chinna vayasula therinja orey Slogam Gayathri Mantra.. Amma Kovil Porappo Kooda naangalum Pona, Slokas Solla Solvanga Konjam Saththama.. Kovil la irukkura Iyer, Anga vara Makkal Minna Solli Solliye, School days Speech Competition la avlo per MInna Solla naanga Shy ah feel panninathu illai.. # hehe Nan Shy um Kidayathu, athu vera Matter

    But Unga Tips Hit Aunty...
    Superb idea by amma, Karthi.......aamamam idhu poladhaan seyyanum. Thanks for this idea also.

    Naanum vicky ai idhu pola solven, and along with it, avanuku dhairiyam varanumne, martial arts and paattu class la serthu vitten.

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