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    How to manage or handle teenagers

    Hi Friends,

    Here, I would like you all to discuss about, HOW TO HANDLE TEENAGERS.

    As a mother of an adult son, I feel that I have some experience in handling the TEENAGERS.


    You all may share the tips along with me, so that, this thread may be helpful for many mothers of Teenage children

    If necessary, mothers may also ask their doubts here, and get some solutions if possible.


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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Actually, the adolescence may start from the age of 8 itself.

    It may not be seen from outside, but the children may undergo many hormonal changes inside them.

    It may differ from one child to another.

    The first difference, we could find in them, would be, their separation from the parents.

    When, they want to be alone and away from parents, while sleeping or any other time, please do not get frightened or disheartened by their activity. This is quite normal.

    Actually, they want to be independent. So, do not force them, to sleep them with you as before.

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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    hi akka, just now i posted the reply for this teen agers problem..
    again shall i post it in ur thread...

    life is so beautiful....

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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    hi...... good evening,,,,,,,,,,,

    its not very difficult task to manage the teen agers......
    because of hormone change, we feel some different activities in them...
    first one..
    their dressing code,
    second the crush in opposite sex..
    third always like to be lonely..
    fourth keep on dreaming...
    slight diversion and less concentration from studies..
    like to chat more with friends through mobile or internet..

    to overcome this issues,

    u be a good friend to ur daughter,,,
    talk openly to her..
    guide her in a polite way...
    try to give practise about meitation to ur daughter .
    indirectly monitor her activities..
    dont use harsh words ..
    dont stress her to study..
    while she is studying u sit along with her..
    keep the computer in the common places like hall or living room.. so that they cant misuse the internet....
    finally dont keep on watching themm.. be friendly.. thats all


    regards,

    viji

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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Quote Originally Posted by vijivedachalam View Post
    hi...... good evening,,,,,,,,,,,

    its not very difficult task to manage the teen agers......
    because of hormone change, we feel some different activities in them...
    first one..
    their dressing code,
    second the crush in opposite sex..
    third always like to be lonely..
    fourth keep on dreaming...
    slight diversion and less concentration from studies..
    like to chat more with friends through mobile or internet..

    to overcome this issues,

    u be a good friend to ur daughter,,,
    talk openly to her..
    guide her in a polite way...
    try to give practise about meitation to ur daughter .
    indirectly monitor her activities..
    dont use harsh words ..
    dont stress her to study..
    while she is studying u sit along with her..
    keep the computer in the common places like hall or living room.. so that they cant misuse the internet....
    finally dont keep on watching themm.. be friendly.. thats all


    regards,

    viji



    ​Yes Viji......you are very much correct.

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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Hi Jayanthi sis
    Good Starting. I think it will very useful thread. Now a days its very difficult to handle them and take much more care about them.

    Viji and Jayanthi sis Both of urs tips are very useful. Thanks for this and keep updating

    Last edited by rifan; 16th Feb 2013 at 03:33 PM.

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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Quote Originally Posted by rifan View Post
    Hi Jayanthi sis
    Good Starting. I think it will very useful thread. Now a days its very difficult to handle them and take much more care about them.

    Viji and Jayanthi sis Both of urs tips are very useful. Thanks for this and keep updating

    Thanks Nathasaa.....ya, this thread will be updated now and then.


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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Needful & most useful thread Jayanthy.

    Jayanthi & Viji, thank you so much for your guidance.



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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Quote Originally Posted by sumathisrini View Post
    Needful & most useful thread Jayanthy.

    Jayanthi & Viji, thank you so much for your guidance.

    ​Thanks Sumathi

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    Re: How to manage or handle teenagers

    Hi Friends,
    Nice to see this thread. I just posted my search about this kind of thread few days beofer.. nice to see this. Thanks Jayanthi...

    I accept all your views.. But when we find the mistakes after so many counselling to them also, I am feeling more emotional... I am questining mu sel that Am I not a good mother as like my MOM..... even my MOM was not very friendly as I am with my daughter.... My daughter was close to me till last year... & now hesistant to share many thing & hiding... she wanted to maintain her ego with me & telling many lies too.... I am really sick about this kind of situatuion only...


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