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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by AnuRajesh View Post
    Ennodadhu love marriage en husband reddy caste..athula 7 times thali kattuvanga..7 manjal kayiru..thali katturapa yellow silk Saree Katanum.

    Oh.....apdiya Anu....quite interesting......andha 7 manjal kayirum, eppo single la change pannuvinga, evlo naal adhai wear pannanum.

    Apram, reddy tradition mattum follow panningala, illaina, ungalodadhum edhavadhu follow panningala, adhellamum sollungalen.

    Paartheengala, indha maadhiri, 7 times thaali katturadhu ellam, engaluku theriyadhu, ippo unga moolama therinjukka mudiyudhu. thanks da.

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Hi Jeyanthi
    Nice topic.
    In your custom this Oonjal & Kasi yathhrai are always fascinating to me.

    In our marriages, there is no Oonjal & kasiyathrai.
    Previous day evening, penn_Azhaippu in the car from a near-by temple will be there followed by nalangu.
    Next day morning, until the marriage both Bride & Bridegroom are not allowed to eat anything. Only coffee is allowed. For thali mudithal, both of us will be standing with a white cloth screen in-between & Mappillai will tie the knot.
    This is followed by Searching for the ring in the Mud-pot, Appalam cracking on each other, Thengai uruttal between both of them & many such in between the couple in the morning.
    After all these only the couple is allowed to eat.
    Both previous day penn-Azhaippu & Next day wedding sarree is by the Groom's side only.
    It can be of any colour which the Bride likes.
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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Full ah reddy caste than follow pannom...antha 7 manjal kayirum 7 days kalichu oru kayir la change pannuvanga...evanga family la elarum epayum manjal kayiru kandippa thali chain oda pothurupanga every Friday new manjal kayiru change pannuvom


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Good topic jayanthi ka.

    Very nice to know your wedding trations ka...
    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Let me start first.

    In our custom,

    In earlier days, on the day before marriage, the Bridegroom will be going a very slow ride in the open car, this is called Jaanavaasam. Now a days, this is not followed.

    On the Marriage day, in the early morning, the bride groom will be asked to eat many sweets, snacks and tiffin along with a bachelor boy, who will be a close relative of his.

    Then the couple will be seated on a Oonjal, after the exchange of garlands.During this garland exchange, both the bride and bridegroom will be lifted by their Uncles (mama), on their shoulders. மாலை அவ்ளோ சட்டுன்னு மாத்திட விட மாட்டாங்க , ஓடி ஓடி ஆட்டம் காட்டுவாங்க .

    Surrounding this Oonjal, all the relatives will perform many rituals, sing songs. The Bridegroom's sister, will carry many articles, like saree, salwars, cosmetics, dolls, handbags and many accessories like this, which she is going to gift for the bride. She will later display these, on the stage of wedding.

    இந்த ஊஞ்சல் சமயத்தில் , மணமக்களுக்கு , நிறைய உறவினப் பெண்கள் , அவர்கள் காலில் பாலால் தொடுவது , சிவப்பு சாதத்தால் சுத்திப் போடுவது , போன்றவை நடைபெறும் .

    கடைசியில் , ஒரு bachelor பையன் வந்து , ஆர்த்தி சுத்திக் கொட்டி - literal லா , couples மேலே கொட்டி (விளையாட்டுக்கு ) , தேங்காயை திருஷ்டி சுத்தி உடைப்பான் .

    இந்த சடங்கு, தாலி முடிவதற்கு , முன்னர் ஒரு முறையும் , பின்னர் ஒரு முறையும் நடை பெறும்.

    For each and every tradition, the girl will be changing the sarees.

    During the தாலி முடிதல் , the girl will be wearing a red colored silk saree, which is usually given by the bridegroom's family.

    The girl will be made to sit on the lap of her father, and the boy would stand in front of him. Now the father will give away the girl to the bridegroom . This is called KANYA DHAANAM.

    பெண்ணின் தலையில் ஒரு நுகத்தடி வைத்து , அதை மாப்பிள்ளை ஒரு முறையும், அவரின் சகோதரியும் ஒரு முறை பிடித்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும் .

    பிறகு , தாலி முடிவார் , மாப்பிள்ளை (பெண் அப்பாவின் மடியில் உட்கார்ந்து இருக்க வேண்டும் ). ஒரு முடியை மாப்பிள்ளை போட, அவரின் சகோதரி (சொந்த சகோதரி இல்லாவிட்டால் , ஒன்று விட்ட என்று யாராவது கூட இதை செய்யலாம் ), பாக்கி 2 முடிச்சுகளை போடுவார் . இதற்கு , அந்தப் பெண்ணுக்கு , புடவை போன்றவை தரப் படும் .

    பிறகு , தம்பதிகள் இருவரும் எதிர் எதிராக உட்கார்ந்து கொண்டு , தேங்காயை உருட்டி விளையாடுவார்கள் . இதில் முடிவில் , தேங்காயை இறுக்கிப் பிடித்துக் கொண்டு , மற்றவர் அதைப் பிடுங்க வேண்டும் .

    மாலையில் , நலுங்கு என்று ஒரு விளையாட்டு நடக்கும் . இதில் ஒருவரை ஒருவர் சீண்டி விளையாடி , அப்பளம் எல்லாம் ஒருவர் தலையில் ஒருவர் உடைத்து , சந்தனம் எல்லாம் பூசி , நலுங்கு எல்லாம் வைத்து ஒரே அமர்களமாக இருக்கும் .



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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Enga akka kalyanathula enna ellam pannunangannu maranthutten... konjam konjam than niyabagam iruku. i will recall or veetla kettutu post pandren ka..


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    Super like Aunty, Anu & Doctor

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by AnuRajesh View Post
    Ennodadhu love marriage en husband reddy caste..athula 7 times thali kattuvanga..7 manjal kayiru..thali katturapa yellow silk Saree Katanum.
    Oh 7 time thali kattuvangala.... It is very different anu.



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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Sakthi, Karti...

    enna ithu? m? enna ithu kettu solrennu chinna pulla thanama.. seekram kalyanam pani experience-um serthu solanum..
    Quote Originally Posted by gkarti View Post
    Super like Aunty, Anu & Doctor

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    Oh 7 time thali kattuvangala.... It is very different anu.


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Uththaravu Esamaani... Ha ha ha...

    Experience Soldrathukelam Naama Extra Sheets Ketppom Niviii.. Athaan Single Singam ah irukkum Pothe Sonna,, Short ah Mudinjudum la

    Appuram Appuram Aunty Namakku nnu Namakke Oru thread Start Pannuvanga,, appo Parthukalam Mitchatha

    Quote Originally Posted by nivetha.j View Post
    Sakthi, Karti...

    enna ithu? m? enna ithu kettu solrennu chinna pulla thanama.. seekram kalyanam pani experience-um serthu solanum..



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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    ha ha ha correct!
    Quote Originally Posted by gkarti View Post
    Uththaravu Esamaani... Ha ha ha...

    Experience Soldrathukelam Naama Extra Sheets Ketppom Niviii.. Athaan Single Singam ah irukkum Pothe Sonna,, Short ah Mudinjudum la

    Appuram Appuram Aunty Namakku nnu Namakke Oru thread Start Pannuvanga,, appo Parthukalam Mitchatha


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