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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Prema, Pratyu.......

    Nivi and Karti....maappillaiyai thookura alavuku poranga na......Nivi kashtam nivi ku......ha...ha....ha.....

    Yenda Nivi......innum unnai unga mama ivlo kaaka vaikkirar......indha ponnoda yekkam.....andha mama ku puriyave illaya.....enna over a pannuraru.......avaru per enna sollunga......

    Hi....Mr. Nivetha......(ipdi dhaan naan , per theriyadhadhaala , solla mudiyum).....enga Nivi yai , melum kaaka vaikkama, yengi poi, thurumba ilaichu, pasalai noi vandhudama, kaapathi, seekrama, ava kazhuthula thaaliyai katti, ava yekkathai pokkunga.......
    Hehehe... All over the world fiances ippadi dhan Jayanthi akka irukkanga...
    Nivi... Don't worry...
    Welcome to the club...
    En athaanum ipadi dhan dimiki kuduthutu irukanga... Grrrrrrrrr...

    Enaku kalyanam Malayalee style la irukum Jayanthi akka...
    En fiance Malayalee...

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Auntyyyyyyyyyyy enakaga pesa neengalavathu irukingale aunty....... kannula thanni vachunden! ha ha ha.. avarukum enakum oru varsham than difference.. athan wait pana solitu irukanga.. athoda ilama, enaku amma matum than.. so amma ku ethavathu panitu than en kalyanam! epudi!!!
    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Prema, Pratyu.......

    Nivi and Karti....maappillaiyai thookura alavuku poranga na......Nivi kashtam nivi ku......ha...ha....ha.....

    Yenda Nivi......innum unnai unga mama ivlo kaaka vaikkirar......indha ponnoda yekkam.....andha mama ku puriyave illaya.....enna over a pannuraru.......avaru per enna sollunga......

    Hi....Mr. Nivetha......(ipdi dhaan naan , per theriyadhadhaala , solla mudiyum).....enga Nivi yai , melum kaaka vaikkama, yengi poi, thurumba ilaichu, pasalai noi vandhudama, kaapathi, seekrama, ava kazhuthula thaaliyai katti, ava yekkathai pokkunga.......


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    ha ha ha aama karti.. rowdi girls! ha ha..
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    Karthi than Aunty Nivii's Maama Name Ada Neenga Vera Aunty,, Oru reason ah than Pillai wait Pandra.. Illai Eppovo thukkirukka Maatta

    Aanallum Enga Area Payanukku Bandhavashtu erpaadu Pannumpa.. Enna Solgiraai En Pakkathu Veettu Paingiliye...


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    ha ha.. athellam en mela than ava paasamellam! ena karti!!!! epdiyo 2 kartikum ena pidicha sari than.. he he..
    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Oho.....appo, niviku......un mela, oor paasathai vida....per paasam rommmmba adhigama irukume........





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    Kandippa, neeye, bandhobasthu ku aal yerpadu pannidu.....Nivi kitterndhu.....andha Kaarthiyai, indha Kaarthi kaapathidu, kalyanam varai.....


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Hey.. Nanbaen da!!!! correct seekrame naama thookurom!
    Quote Originally Posted by gkarti View Post
    Ha ha ha.. Ithu Nalla irukke

    Cha Cha En Support Nivii ku than eppovum Konja naal than intha Bandhavashtu lam appuram thukkiduvom


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Nice to know about your traditions Sowmy.

    Ada.....thaali katturadhuku munnaidye, metti pottuduvangala......

    Ella procedures ume, enaku pudhusa dhaan iruku....idhellam enaku theriadhu.....
    Paaruda.....indha kutti ponnuku....ippave kavalai vandhuduchu......epdiyum......kalyana tension la, ponnu, maappilai rendu perukum, romantic mood nalayum, thookame varadhu da chellam, atleast oru 2, 3 days, munnadiyum, pinnadiyum......

    Mathadhellamum, amma kitta kettu sollunga.....
    yes aunty before mrg metti pottu viduvaga athuvum thaimama than poduvaga... pattiniseir seiala na than after mrg poduvaga... intha seir seium pothu sema gallatava irukum both for bride and groom ku murai payan and ponnuga antha time la mangal thani uthuvaga(na athukuda few ice cubes sethu pottu uthuven)...
    neria formalities iruku aunty uruthivarthai,uppuvangurathu(after this no non veg allowed and ithuku aparom than thali vanguvaga)... then panthal podum pothum silla formalities follow pannuvaga...
    urumallikattu seirnu mapilliku seivaga.. murtham mudinju kovilku poitu marusaradu pottutu vantha udane rendu perukum new slippers kodupaga...
    marusaradu potta udane sillarper first tie pannuna 3 mangal kayiru remove panniruvaga (some used to wear it for 3 days)...
    during murtham mapilli's sis will be standing with villaku...(actor karthi- ranjani mrg patha therium)
    mrg mudinju mapilli vittuku poitu pooja ellam mudichutu bride mattum kitchen ku poi salt, rice, tamarind thottu koduka solluvaga anga brideku new saree kodupaga appove bride need to take hair bath and wear that saree athuku aparom than ponnu veetuku poganum..

    amma kitta kettathuku na sonna unnaku neria doubt varum so wait for few months then un mrg la pathu detaila sollikonu sollitaga ... ithu na anna mrg pic's pathu potten..


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Ha ha ha.. Abinandanangal Prathyu..

    Quote Originally Posted by Prathyuksha View Post
    Hehehe... All over the world fiances ippadi dhan Jayanthi akka irukkanga...
    Nivi... Don't worry...
    Welcome to the club...
    En athaanum ipadi dhan dimiki kuduthutu irukanga... Grrrrrrrrr...

    Enaku kalyanam Malayalee style la irukum Jayanthi akka...
    En fiance Malayalee...

    -Prathyuksha
    Parthingala Makkale,, Enda Nanbi evalo Poruppula Pillai nnu

    YEah Nanben da.. MDU ye kalakkurom Un Marriage la Ha ha ha Unna Pidikkaama Pogumaa

    Quote Originally Posted by nivetha.j View Post
    ha ha ha aama karti.. rowdi girls! ha ha..
    Quote Originally Posted by nivetha.j View Post
    ha ha.. athellam en mela than ava paasamellam! ena karti!!!! epdiyo 2 kartikum ena pidicha sari than.. he he..
    Quote Originally Posted by nivetha.j View Post
    Hey.. Nanbaen da!!!! correct seekrame naama thookurom!



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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by gkarti View Post
    Now its My Turn!! Traditionally, In Our Custom,, the wedding would be conducted at the groom's residence. Today, the venue has shifted to wedding halls. Nevertheless, the marriage is celebrated with gaiety and fervor

    The marriage begins with the bridegroom's party visiting the bride’s house in a ceremonial procession, carrying turmeric, coconuts, plantains, betel leaves, flowers, dry fruits and a saree(Saree Color/Design Ponnu Viruppam than ) for the bride including the thali and a thread dyed yellow with turmeric.

    முகுர்த்தம் refers to the auspicious timing of the actual wedding ceremony itself. This is based on astrology. Usually, the auspicious time is set early in the morning. The wedding ceremony will be held under the marriage canopy which consists of a temporary thatched structure fashioned by coconut leaves knit together.

    தாலிகெட்டு - The bride is bedecked in fine jewelry and an ornate sari and made to sit to the right of the groom. The groom wears a white silk Dhoti, Shirt, Angavasthram and Silk turban as his wedding outfit.

    The couple invokes Agni, to witness their commitment to each other. The bride places both her hands into the groom’s and her brother then places rice into her hands. Together the bride and groom offer the rice as a sacrifice into the fire.

    The thali is taken around in a plate and blessings of elders and relatives are sought. After this, the groom in ties the thali around the bride's neck assisted by his sister. Three knots are made and as this happens, conch shells are blown and nadaswaram is played in a high pitch. Once the thali is tied the bride sits at the groom's left. Both of them face east. Coconuts are broken and prayers are offered to the gods.

    After that the groom applies a small dot of Kungumam, to the bride’s forehead and welcomes her as his partner for life.

    Then the father of the bride places her hand in the groom’s hand requesting him to accept her as an equal partner.

    Women present at the wedding raise a shrill chant called kulavai. This is a special custom followed by us. After this, flowers and colored rice are thrown on the heads of the couple.

    Maalai Mattral - The couple exchanges garlands as a gesture of acceptance of one another and a pledge to respect one another as partners. This is followed by the groom taking the right hand of the bride and going around the sacred fire thrice.

    Offerings Fruits & Milk - The bride’s Sister / the Groom’s Sister offers the Couple, fruit and milk as the expression of welcome and respect.

    Then, the bride and groom walk seven steps together to signify the beginning of their journey through life together. Once this is completed, the couple prostrate before their parents and elders to seek blessings.

    When Mom Said all these things, Ma Bro suddenly told “ Michchatha Un Marriage la parthu therinjukko,, Maa First enaku ithai sollunga - Love Marriage Panna ithellam seivingala?? Athukku enna Pannanum..” ha ha ha.. Appuram Enna Hey Dandanakka Danukkunakka..


    Very nice traditions , Karthi. Thanks dear

    The Kulavai by ladies is quite different.

    The last two punch dailogues by sidhu.....is super.....super......amma thorathi thorathi adichangala

    Last edited by jv_66; 11th Nov 2013 at 06:10 PM.
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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by Prathyuksha View Post
    Hehehe... All over the world fiances ippadi dhan Jayanthi akka irukkanga...
    Nivi... Don't worry...
    Welcome to the club...
    En athaanum ipadi dhan dimiki kuduthutu irukanga... Grrrrrrrrr...

    Enaku kalyanam Malayalee style la irukum Jayanthi akka...
    En fiance Malayalee...

    -Prathyuksha


    Oh...that's fine......marriage fix aayacha......Congrats dear

    Malayalam style la marriage a......adhu kooda romba simple la dhaan irukum illaya.....naan apdidhaan kelvi patruken.

    Onnu pannunga Pratyu, unga would be MIL kitta kettu, andha traditions pathi ellamum sollungalen, naanga therinjukkarom.


    Ippodhaan puriyudhu, unga story la names ellam yen malayala style la iruku nu......naan ippo adhudhaan padichuttu iruken

    Last edited by jv_66; 11th Nov 2013 at 06:10 PM.
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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by sowmiya k View Post
    yes aunty before mrg metti pottu viduvaga athuvum thaimama than poduvaga... pattiniseir seiala na than after mrg poduvaga... intha seir seium pothu sema gallatava irukum both for bride and groom ku murai payan and ponnuga antha time la mangal thani uthuvaga(na athukuda few ice cubes sethu pottu uthuven)...
    neria formalities iruku aunty uruthivarthai,uppuvangurathu(after this no non veg allowed and ithuku aparom than thali vanguvaga)... then panthal podum pothum silla formalities follow pannuvaga...
    urumallikattu seirnu mapilliku seivaga.. murtham mudinju kovilku poitu marusaradu pottutu vantha udane rendu perukum new slippers kodupaga...
    marusaradu potta udane sillarper first tie pannuna 3 mangal kayiru remove panniruvaga (some used to wear it for 3 days)...
    during murtham mapilli's sis will be standing with villaku...(actor karthi- ranjani mrg patha therium)
    mrg mudinju mapilli vittuku poitu pooja ellam mudichutu bride mattum kitchen ku poi salt, rice, tamarind thottu koduka solluvaga anga brideku new saree kodupaga appove bride need to take hair bath and wear that saree athuku aparom than ponnu veetuku poganum..

    amma kitta kettathuku na sonna unnaku neria doubt varum so wait for few months then un mrg la pathu detaila sollikonu sollitaga ... ithu na anna mrg pic's pathu potten..

    O....nalla detailed aadhaan iruku.

    O....ungalukum marriage fix aayachaa.....

    Paaruda......ippodhaan ellam veliya varudhu......almost ella ponnungalum engage aaitanga.

    Congrats da chellam

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