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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by nivetha.j View Post
    Auntyyyyyyyyyyy enakaga pesa neengalavathu irukingale aunty....... kannula thanni vachunden! ha ha ha.. avarukum enakum oru varsham than difference.. athan wait pana solitu irukanga.. athoda ilama, enaku amma matum than.. so amma ku ethavathu panitu than en kalyanam! epudi!!!
    Oh...apdiya da chellam.....acho paavam.....adhuvarai verum love dhaana....aana adhuve evlo interesting a irukum......ellarukum indha maadhiri amaiyuma.....enjoy dear.....love a panni thallunga rendu perum.... adhuvarai

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    ha ha.. athellam en mela than ava paasamellam! ena karti!!!! epdiyo 2 kartikum ena pidicha sari than.. he he..

    Nivi chellam, karthi mela , neenga rendu perum ore oor, adhanala unaku ava mela vara paasam kammi, unga would be per irukaradhala, un paasam alavuku meeri, ava mele pongum, apdinu dhaan da sonnen, avaluku paasam pongumnu sollalai naanu........just kidding

    Quote Originally Posted by nivetha.j View Post
    Hey.. Nanbaen da!!!! correct seekrame naama thookurom!

    Sari....sari.....pasangala....thookuradhu ellam irukattum.....Nivi.......unga marriage cusom and tradition pathi, amma kitta kettu sollu paarpom.....


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Welcome Aunty

    Ha ha ha.. Yessssuuu

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Very nice traditions , Karthi. Thanks dear

    The Kulavai by ladies is quite different.

    The last two punch dailogues by sidhu.....is super.....super......amma thorathi thorathi adichangala
    Ha ha ha Y Y Y Y Aunty??

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Nivi chellam, karthi mela , neenga rendu perum ore oor, adhanala unaku ava mela vara paasam kammi, unga would be per irukaradhala, un paasam alavuku meeri, ava mele pongum, apdinu dhaan da sonnen, avaluku paasam pongumnu sollalai naanu........just kidding





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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    Oh...that's fine......marriage fix aayacha......Congrats dear

    Malayalam style la marriage a......adhu kooda romba simple la dhaan irukum illaya.....naan apdidhaan kelvi patruken.

    Onnu pannunga Pratyu, unga would be MIL kitta kettu, andha traditions pathi ellamum sollungalen, naanga therinjukkarom.


    Ippodhaan puriyudhu, unga story la names ellam yen malayala style la iruku nu......naan ippo adhudhaan padichuttu iruken
    Jaya akka,

    Ellam namala fix panikitadhu dhan... hehehe...

    Malayalee style la marriage na kovila nadakumam...
    Simpleadhan irukumam...
    Ipola mandabathulayum panurangalam...
    Kovila moonu thadava suthi vandhu swami sannidhila ninnu thaali kattuvangalam...
    Mosta gold chain with a dollar - aalilai krishnan - idhudhan thaaliyam...
    Kayaru katanumnalum katalaamam...

    Idhuku mela detaileda enga kalyanathula therinjuka solli sollitanga...

    Ayyayooooooo... kandu pudichuteengala akka...
    Adhanala dhan names differenta iruku hehehe
    Padichutu sollunga ka...

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by jv_66 View Post
    O....nalla detailed aadhaan iruku.

    O....ungalukum marriage fix aayachaa.....

    Paaruda......ippodhaan ellam veliya varudhu......almost ella ponnungalum engage aaitanga.

    Congrats da chellam
    Achoo aunty ennaku inum mrg fix agala but romba thevirama parthutu irukaga inum few months la mudikanumnu...


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Hi Friends ,
    Let me share our family marriage traditions.....
    In our community there are few sub groups so marriage customs vary based on that .....

    In this day and age quite a few traditions are cut short or shortened to be done on a single day .......
    All customs followed is of the Groom's family.....

    In a traditional arranged marriage after the Pelli choopulu (ponnu parthal ) a date is fixed for nischayathaartham ....... In those days it will be on the day before the wedding but nowadays it is a seperate mega event in itself ........
    Mostly held in Halls or hotels.......

    Nischayathartha pudavai given by groom's side plus a traditional seervarisai of 9 or 11 or more plates and any jewellery the groom 's side wishes to present the bride plus exchange of engagement rings( modern addition)..........

    Elders of both the family sign the thamboola patram and a marriage date is fixed........

    In both the households the elders start with making vadiyaalu ( thaalikum vadagam) .... This is the first ritual that signifies the wedding process about to happen in the household...........

    Auspicious dates set for saree and other purchases ........
    After the printing of muhurtha pathirikai first visit is to kuladeivam for the pooja..........pathirikai vaithu munnorgalaiyum vananguvaargal....
    Also the Muhurtha pathirikai is first worshipped in Tirupati temple or temple of choice .......In my case it was periyapalayam amman temple too......
    Only after this distribution starts........
    Wedding saree and Thali given by Groom side .......Saree colour is bride's choice .........


    These days wedding and reception are held on the same day .......
    The first events are Panthakaal and Nalungu .......Moonu(3) Nalungu vaippanga .....Veetil irandu and kalyanam anniku kaalaila maapilai and pennai onraaga amara vaithu ennai nalungu vaipaargal.......
    Nalungu vaitha pin veliyil sella mudiyaadhu ..........

    Thirumanathuku mun thinam maapilai azhaipu laam ippo panradhu illai but en chithi kalyaanathil athai ellam 25 plus years mun paarthu irukken.......

    Mun thinam iravu Payana mudipu enru oru sampradayam pannuvaanga .....
    Kalyana pen ai urkaravaithu nalangu pol sumangali pengal vaithu pin 9 pengal valathu kaiyai onrai vaipanaga ...oru vattama urkanrnthu kondu appuram antha kaigal mela vettrilai ,paaku,manjal,kungumam, appuram thengai ,cosmetics nu konjam varisayil irukum porulai ellam vaippanga ...athai manapen munthanaiyil onraaga vaangi kolla vendum...... ithil mukkiyamaaga pennin sagodharigal ,anni, payyanin sagotharigal ,aani nu immediate family ladies laam involve aagi ore jolly aa arratai and galatta voda nadakkum....

    appuram petti saangiyam nu manapen veetinar nathanaar ku mariyadhai seivanga .... oru petiyil selai ,cosmetics,mangala porul,silver la edhavadhu ippadi pottu kodukkanum.......
    ithu ellam mudinju ponnuku aarti karaithu viduvaargal.........

    Thirumana naal kaalai thaan very busy .......
    porkollar vanthu thangam urukki thaali seivaar ....... (Yen kalyanathil ithai skip pannitanga ...kadaiyil vaangitaanga ... But my cousin brothers ku laam ippadi thaan senjaanga )

    aduthu palakombu naduvaanga - oru kattai la aalilaigal sutri paal ootri poo,manjal laam vechu poojai seivaanga ............

    Appuram poonu ,maapilai ukaara vaithu ennai ,seekai , snanapodi , sandhanam vechu nalangu vaipanga ...... naavidhar vanthu maapilai kaal nagam cut pannuvaar ....intha nalungil pottu irukkum clothes plus dakshinai koduthu naavidharai annupanum.........

    aduthu maapilai azhaipu ......kovilil irunthu pennin sagotharan kudai pidithu maapillaiyai kudhirayilo or nadantho alaithu varanum ....... appuram maapilai kaalai paal, thanner kondu kaluvi manjal poosi kungumam vaithu maapilai kaalil metti pottu kaiku mothiram pottu alaithu varanum........
    Maapilai yin sagothariyum ithe pol kaal kazhuvum mariyadhai seiya vendum ............
    Athan pin maapilai poojaari sollum manthirangalai solli homam valarkka vendum.....

    Pen vanthu vanangi muhurtha pudavai pera vendum...... athai maatri kondu vandha pin iruvarukkum kaapu pol katta padum......... ithu mattum illa netriyil baashyam nu oru dollar ponra onraiyum kattuvaanga .............

    Maapilai traditional laa panchakacham katti irupaar , appuram namam pootu viduvaanga ,turban pottu iruppar .......ponnu traditional silk saree with jewels and thalai alankaaram .....

    sila poojai mudinthapin rendu side petror ku paadhapoojai seiyannum.....athan pin thaan maapilaiyum pennum oru vellai thunniyin maraivil ethir ethir nirkanum.... appadi nirkum bothu mappilaiyin right kattai viralaal pennin right kattai viralai aluthi pidikkanum......

    aduthu jilakara bellam- jeeragamum vellamum thaan ithu .....athai oruvar matravar thalai meethu vaikanum .... intha vellamum jeeragamum eppadi iru veru taste and texture athul pol thaan antha bride and groom two different persons but rendaiyum serthu araithu paste pannapin pirikka mudiyaadhu illaya athu pol intha kalyanathin moolam iru veru personalities ondraaga innayaradhu thaan thaathpariyam.......

    Athan pin naathanaar vilakku pidikka manamagan manamagal kaluthil mudhal mudiyida pin naathanaar mudiyitu thaali mudithal seivaanga ........

    Athan pin naathanaar vilakku pidithu vali nadathi sella rendu perum veetil ulla kulandhaigal pin thodara agniyai valam varanum ...mudivil sapthapathi and ammi midhithal , arundhati paarthal ellam follow pannuvanga ...... enga veetla metti yai nalungu anre athai(appavin thangai or thaimama wife ) thaan podanum.....

    Itharku pin maalai maatri poduvadhu and Thalamaraalu biyam posethi pannuvaanga .......manamagan and manamagal oruvar munbu oruvar arisiyai uyarathil irunthu vidurathu ....... intha arisiyai maapilai veetaar thaan kondu varanum....... appuram iruvaraiyum amara vaithu rendu veetu periyavangalum thalamaraalu biyaam poduvaanga .........

    Thirumba poojai innum poduvaanga , sandhadhi thazhaikka homam laam senjuttu ippo nagavalli thaali kattuvar ...aamaam rendu murai thaali kattuvanga ...ithu thaan second time.....

    athan pin pot la modhiram pottu edukaradhu , paalum pazhamum kodukaradhu ellam pannuvanga ......

    Ithuku appuram thaan paa saapadai kannula kaatuvaanga ...athuvarai patni thaan............


    appuram evening reception.......

    Usually after marriage and before reception grahapravesam pannuvanga ....... kalyanchatharathula irundhu penin mundhanayil muhurtha thengaiyai mudivaanga ...... appuram pennum maapilaiyum avar veetuku poi anga paal kaichi / pongal vaithu vilaketri saami kumbiduvaanga .....

    first three days maapilai pen veetil thaan irukkanum..........athan pin maapilaiyin sister vanthu ponnu mapillaiyai azhaithu pogannum........

    appuram first week mudivadharkul kandippaga tirupathiku kudumbathodu poi perumaal dharisanam ......ithu must .......


    Happa ........oru vazhiya ella procedure aiyum recall senju ezhuthiten...Not sure if i have missed something .......

    Thank you jaya ka ...This thread rekindled my memory ......... Ennoda chinnavayasula irundhu nadantha kalyanangal kann munn vandhadhu ......

    As times have changed so have people's mindset and i can see a lot of these customs are bypassed or not done with the usual fervor but done fashionably ....... In some ways i feel sad about it ...... actually this thread made me wonder why i never bothered knowing the significance of various procedures followed and can say that i uttered all the verses said by the poojari without fully realising their meaning or importance ........

    Also i have noticed that with the passing of elders in the family a lot of these lovely traditions are lost .......

    Hopefully this thread will make the younger generation eagerly awaiting their dream wedding to sit back and think and appreciate all the various wedding customs and enjoy it ...........


    Priya


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    i will share more of my marriage traditions nethu than en motherinlaw ta ketaen

    கால் நடுறது nu ஒரு function marriage ku one week munadi oru auspious day la erukumam veedhuku munadi oru kambhu natti athula mavilai elam katti pooja pannuvangalam..apuram veethla neivediyam panni perumal(lord vishnu) ku pooja pannuvanga....


    மஞ்சள் பொடி function:

    வீட்ல உரல் la மாப்பிள்ளை ya மஞ்சள் இடிக்க சொல்லுவாங்க

    அந்த மஞ்சள் la தான் மஞ்சள் கயிறு பண்ணுவாங்க

    7 தாலி கட்டுவாங்க

    1 தாலி--சின்ன நூல் வாங்கி 1008 நூல் பிடிச்சு மஞ்சள் la tip பண்ணி first தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க

    2 தாலி--504 நூல் பிடிச்சு second தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க

    3 தாலி-- 108 நூல் பிடிச்சு third தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க

    4 தாலி--54 நூல் பிடிச்சு தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க

    5 தாலி-18 நூல் பிடிச்சு தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க

    6 தாலி-11 நூல் பிடிச்சு தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க

    7 தாலி--7 நூல் பிடிச்சு தாலி பண்ணுவாங்க


    7 vadhu தாலி தான் கடைசி la katthuvanga..athula தான் மாங்கல்யம் இருக்கும்...மாங்கல்யம் திருப்பதி பெருமாள் சங்கு சக்கரம் இருக்கும்


    மாப்பிளை அஹ உட்கார வச்சு உடம்பு full அஹ மஞ்சள் பூசி kaila மஞ்சள் காப்பு கட்டுவாங்க...அதுக்கு அப்புறம் மாப்பிளை veetha vidhu வெளிய போக கூடாது till marriage


    மெட்டி பொண்ணு மாப்பிளை கு மாப்பிளை அக்கா கல்யாணம் முடிஞ்சடதும் போடுவாங்க...மாப்பிளை 7 நாள் கழிச்சு மெட்டி ya kalatalam


    தொடரும்------


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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Anu , Unga intha thali tradition different aa irukku .........

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by Prathyuksha View Post
    Jaya akka,

    Ellam namala fix panikitadhu dhan... hehehe...

    Malayalee style la marriage na kovila nadakumam...
    Simpleadhan irukumam...
    Ipola mandabathulayum panurangalam...
    Kovila moonu thadava suthi vandhu swami sannidhila ninnu thaali kattuvangalam...
    Mosta gold chain with a dollar - aalilai krishnan - idhudhan thaaliyam...
    Kayaru katanumnalum katalaamam...

    Idhuku mela detaileda enga kalyanathula therinjuka solli sollitanga...

    Ayyayooooooo... kandu pudichuteengala akka...
    Adhanala dhan names differenta iruku hehehe
    Padichutu sollunga ka...

    -Prathyuksha

    Aama....naan ipdidhaan kelvi pattu iruken.

    Sari, unga marriage mudinchapuram, vandhu detailed a sollunga.

    BTW, eppo unga marriage?

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by sowmiya k View Post
    Achoo aunty ennaku inum mrg fix agala but romba thevirama parthutu irukaga inum few months la mudikanumnu...

    சரிடா செல்லம் ....சுபஸ்ய சீக்கிரம் ........அதுக்கப்புறம் , வந்து இன்னும் detailed ஆ சொல்லலாம் .

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    Re: Different Customs and Traditions in Weddings....

    Quote Originally Posted by PriyagauthamH View Post
    Hi Friends ,
    Let me share our family marriage traditions.....
    In our community there are few sub groups so marriage customs vary based on that .....

    In this day and age quite a few traditions are cut short or shortened to be done on a single day .......
    All customs followed is of the Groom's family.....

    In a traditional arranged marriage after the Pelli choopulu (ponnu parthal ) a date is fixed for nischayathaartham ....... In those days it will be on the day before the wedding but nowadays it is a seperate mega event in itself ........
    Mostly held in Halls or hotels.......

    Nischayathartha pudavai given by groom's side plus a traditional seervarisai of 9 or 11 or more plates and any jewellery the groom 's side wishes to present the bride plus exchange of engagement rings( modern addition)..........

    Elders of both the family sign the thamboola patram and a marriage date is fixed........

    In both the households the elders start with making vadiyaalu ( thaalikum vadagam) .... This is the first ritual that signifies the wedding process about to happen in the household...........

    Auspicious dates set for saree and other purchases ........
    After the printing of muhurtha pathirikai first visit is to kuladeivam for the pooja..........pathirikai vaithu munnorgalaiyum vananguvaargal....
    Also the Muhurtha pathirikai is first worshipped in Tirupati temple or temple of choice .......In my case it was periyapalayam amman temple too......
    Only after this distribution starts........
    Wedding saree and Thali given by Groom side .......Saree colour is bride's choice .........


    These days wedding and reception are held on the same day .......
    The first events are Panthakaal and Nalungu .......Moonu(3) Nalungu vaippanga .....Veetil irandu and kalyanam anniku kaalaila maapilai and pennai onraaga amara vaithu ennai nalungu vaipaargal.......
    Nalungu vaitha pin veliyil sella mudiyaadhu ..........

    Thirumanathuku mun thinam maapilai azhaipu laam ippo panradhu illai but en chithi kalyaanathil athai ellam 25 plus years mun paarthu irukken.......

    Mun thinam iravu Payana mudipu enru oru sampradayam pannuvaanga .....
    Kalyana pen ai urkaravaithu nalangu pol sumangali pengal vaithu pin 9 pengal valathu kaiyai onrai vaipanaga ...oru vattama urkanrnthu kondu appuram antha kaigal mela vettrilai ,paaku,manjal,kungumam, appuram thengai ,cosmetics nu konjam varisayil irukum porulai ellam vaippanga ...athai manapen munthanaiyil onraaga vaangi kolla vendum...... ithil mukkiyamaaga pennin sagodharigal ,anni, payyanin sagotharigal ,aani nu immediate family ladies laam involve aagi ore jolly aa arratai and galatta voda nadakkum....

    appuram petti saangiyam nu manapen veetinar nathanaar ku mariyadhai seivanga .... oru petiyil selai ,cosmetics,mangala porul,silver la edhavadhu ippadi pottu kodukkanum.......
    ithu ellam mudinju ponnuku aarti karaithu viduvaargal.........

    Thirumana naal kaalai thaan very busy .......
    porkollar vanthu thangam urukki thaali seivaar ....... (Yen kalyanathil ithai skip pannitanga ...kadaiyil vaangitaanga ... But my cousin brothers ku laam ippadi thaan senjaanga )

    aduthu palakombu naduvaanga - oru kattai la aalilaigal sutri paal ootri poo,manjal laam vechu poojai seivaanga ............

    Appuram poonu ,maapilai ukaara vaithu ennai ,seekai , snanapodi , sandhanam vechu nalangu vaipanga ...... naavidhar vanthu maapilai kaal nagam cut pannuvaar ....intha nalungil pottu irukkum clothes plus dakshinai koduthu naavidharai annupanum.........

    aduthu maapilai azhaipu ......kovilil irunthu pennin sagotharan kudai pidithu maapillaiyai kudhirayilo or nadantho alaithu varanum ....... appuram maapilai kaalai paal, thanner kondu kaluvi manjal poosi kungumam vaithu maapilai kaalil metti pottu kaiku mothiram pottu alaithu varanum........
    Maapilai yin sagothariyum ithe pol kaal kazhuvum mariyadhai seiya vendum ............
    Athan pin maapilai poojaari sollum manthirangalai solli homam valarkka vendum.....

    Pen vanthu vanangi muhurtha pudavai pera vendum...... athai maatri kondu vandha pin iruvarukkum kaapu pol katta padum......... ithu mattum illa netriyil baashyam nu oru dollar ponra onraiyum kattuvaanga .............

    Maapilai traditional laa panchakacham katti irupaar , appuram namam pootu viduvaanga ,turban pottu iruppar .......ponnu traditional silk saree with jewels and thalai alankaaram .....

    sila poojai mudinthapin rendu side petror ku paadhapoojai seiyannum.....athan pin thaan maapilaiyum pennum oru vellai thunniyin maraivil ethir ethir nirkanum.... appadi nirkum bothu mappilaiyin right kattai viralaal pennin right kattai viralai aluthi pidikkanum......

    aduthu jilakara bellam- jeeragamum vellamum thaan ithu .....athai oruvar matravar thalai meethu vaikanum .... intha vellamum jeeragamum eppadi iru veru taste and texture athul pol thaan antha bride and groom two different persons but rendaiyum serthu araithu paste pannapin pirikka mudiyaadhu illaya athu pol intha kalyanathin moolam iru veru personalities ondraaga innayaradhu thaan thaathpariyam.......

    Athan pin naathanaar vilakku pidikka manamagan manamagal kaluthil mudhal mudiyida pin naathanaar mudiyitu thaali mudithal seivaanga ........

    Athan pin naathanaar vilakku pidithu vali nadathi sella rendu perum veetil ulla kulandhaigal pin thodara agniyai valam varanum ...mudivil sapthapathi and ammi midhithal , arundhati paarthal ellam follow pannuvanga ...... enga veetla metti yai nalungu anre athai(appavin thangai or thaimama wife ) thaan podanum.....

    Itharku pin maalai maatri poduvadhu and Thalamaraalu biyam posethi pannuvaanga .......manamagan and manamagal oruvar munbu oruvar arisiyai uyarathil irunthu vidurathu ....... intha arisiyai maapilai veetaar thaan kondu varanum....... appuram iruvaraiyum amara vaithu rendu veetu periyavangalum thalamaraalu biyaam poduvaanga .........

    Thirumba poojai innum poduvaanga , sandhadhi thazhaikka homam laam senjuttu ippo nagavalli thaali kattuvar ...aamaam rendu murai thaali kattuvanga ...ithu thaan second time.....

    athan pin pot la modhiram pottu edukaradhu , paalum pazhamum kodukaradhu ellam pannuvanga ......

    Ithuku appuram thaan paa saapadai kannula kaatuvaanga ...athuvarai patni thaan............


    appuram evening reception.......

    Usually after marriage and before reception grahapravesam pannuvanga ....... kalyanchatharathula irundhu penin mundhanayil muhurtha thengaiyai mudivaanga ...... appuram pennum maapilaiyum avar veetuku poi anga paal kaichi / pongal vaithu vilaketri saami kumbiduvaanga .....

    first three days maapilai pen veetil thaan irukkanum..........athan pin maapilaiyin sister vanthu ponnu mapillaiyai azhaithu pogannum........

    appuram first week mudivadharkul kandippaga tirupathiku kudumbathodu poi perumaal dharisanam ......ithu must .......


    Happa ........oru vazhiya ella procedure aiyum recall senju ezhuthiten...Not sure if i have missed something .......

    Thank you jaya ka ...This thread rekindled my memory ......... Ennoda chinnavayasula irundhu nadantha kalyanangal kann munn vandhadhu ......

    As times have changed so have people's mindset and i can see a lot of these customs are bypassed or not done with the usual fervor but done fashionably ....... In some ways i feel sad about it ...... actually this thread made me wonder why i never bothered knowing the significance of various procedures followed and can say that i uttered all the verses said by the poojari without fully realising their meaning or importance ........

    Also i have noticed that with the passing of elders in the family a lot of these lovely traditions are lost .......

    Hopefully this thread will make the younger generation eagerly awaiting their dream wedding to sit back and think and appreciate all the various wedding customs and enjoy it ...........


    Thanks Priya for the details about your traditions and customs in your marriage.

    The nischayadhaartham is just similar to ours. Engalodadhu maadhiriye, ungalukum Maami (thaai maama wife) dhaan metti poduranga, but for us, it is after tying thaali.

    Naangalum as soon as possible, Tirupathi poidanum, after marriage, that too, with the same costume as it was during the marriage. ie., red madisaar and yellow panchagacham (the white dhothi will be dipped in turmeric water).

    Jayanthy





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