annoying questions of mil

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hi friends i am married before 6 months. from the second month my mil asks me whether i am pregnant this month. if i say no she asks some annoying questions about our relationship which i don't like to answer her. every month when i am getting my periods she is very much disappointed and she started her investigation. can i make her to understand me?
 

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Welcome to Penmai....Dharshana.

Since you are married only for 6 months, for some women, it may take more than a year to get conceived.

After 1 year, you may meet the doctor along with your husband.

If your MIL is questioning , you may just answer her that, sometimes it may take 1 or more years to get pregnant.

Actually, she might ask you those questions about your relationships because, many couples may not know few tactics as how to get pregnant and the proper method /procedure.

So, the elders could solve them by their suggestions from their experience. She cannot talk these things to her son. so, she is asking you as a lady - lady.

So, if you feel them as annoying questions, you may please keep quiet and not answer her at all. If you are not answering them, she herself would understand that you don't like them to answer or discuss with her.

If she is still questioning, you may answer her that you will get the suggestions from a Gynaecologist if necessary and feel very shy to discuss this with her, since she is your MIL. Also tell her, that you will feel shy to discuss these matters even with your mother.

Then she would be satisfied and will not trouble you further.

We also pray for your get pregnant soon.
 

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