Dealing with rough patches in a relationship


Lord of Penmai
Jul 5, 2011
Dealing with rough patches in a relationship

No relationship in the world in complete without its shares of fights and arguments.

If you think that your relationship with your partner is going through a rough phase, there is a possibility that you may want to give up, during the most testing times. But if you emerge and manage to stick together even during these times, your relationship will definitely come out stronger and bring the two of you closer than before. Here's how you can manage that...

Identifying and understanding the problems: The first thing is to understand why you are having this rough patch in your relationship. What are the problems that are causing you to fight? Once you recognise and understand your differences, it will be easier for you to sit together and zero down on an amicable solution.
Keep all communication lines open: Most couples have problems in their relationship because they don't talk and communicate enough with each other. Talking your heart out helps. Just because you have fights doesn't mean you hate each other — it simply means you aren't communicating enough.

Forgive each other: While coming to an amicable solution seems hard, forgiving each other is even harder! After all, it's not easy to swallow your pride and ego, and forgive someone whom you think is at fault. But this is one of the most essential things, if you want to get over the rough patch in your relationship.

Knowing when to let to go: If you've done all of the above and still haven't seen any change or improvement in your relationship, maybe the problem is more serious than you think. At this point of time, you should seek professional advice (a marriage or couple's counsellor). And if that doesn't help, then question yourself — do you really want this relationship?


Ruler's of Penmai
Registered User
Jul 26, 2012
thank you vijigermany for your valuable tips to deal with the misunderstanding and resultant rough patches in a relationship

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