Iam having a distant relative girl of my husb whom she is a widow, working in a govt sector having a little kid. she transferred to our place, and staying along with her parents , and somewhat distant to our area. she used to come to our house monthly once r twice . she is a good looking and well earning , one day while we r talking she suddenly asked me are you interested in same sex relationship, can we do it..... like this. i shocked when she asked this to me, and told her this is not fair and not good also. she told me, she is not into xxx after her husbands demise, also also she tells its nothing wrong, nowadays its happening everywhere, she told me that she is uncontrollable nowadays for want of xxx. i said no for that, after that whenever she comes to our house she used to making the advance with me for such things. as a relative of her i tried to make her understand what is life, i told her many times there is life without doing such things. i told her do concentrate in her kids education, future life of the kid and her work, etc. but whenver she comes to my house , she used to ask me for such things. i dont know what to do. friends pls advise me, give me ideas.