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deepa bala

Guru's of Penmai
Aug 7, 2011
The below words are really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies, preparations of entrance exams and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home as her home, your family as her family, your name and surname behind her name and even your ways & lifestyle…

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, one who is expected to wake up before the sun rise and before every family members in the morning, while you sleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.........

One, Who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife, a heart winning daughter-in-law, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One who is expected to NOT complaint when her husband irrationally puts his family first before her while ideally when a guy chose to marry someone he is obligated to put his wife's needs first because marriage involves commitment....

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...

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Commander's of Penmai
May 3, 2012
Interesting article. If guys realise these things itself half the problems will be solved. Don't even have to encourage the wife or help her or do that this, just that if he's able to give her the secured feeling and he being there for her, she can do anything and face anything :)


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