hai friends and sisters konjam itha padichu suggestion kudunga ?

winnerborn88

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oru aanin mana kulapangal thai kulame ungal udhavi thevai

innaku age 27 and single ,and ithu varaikum i had only crushes and had one side kathal from my side and that to failed yenna ava veru oruvarai manadhu veru nattuke sentru vittal.

so i forgot that thing totally and stated living learing and enjoying my career path and smooth ah poi kittu iruku till now

its been now 4 years all that happened.inna nalla therija thaikulam inga irukuravanga luku therium..because of your advice and help i came out and started living a superb life..

no worries and happy life only with friends..

now a new problem started my dear mothers sisters and frnds..

innaku friends nu two persons irukanga very close we are almost 9 years close together .

ippa yenna na one of that person got set his good career in north part of india and he will be leaving soon and get married.

and other person searching for bride.in his house so he also will be leaving me and i will be left all alone..

and every week when they meet they always say me to ask ur family about my marriage.

first let me tell my problem

inaku romba thangama mother iruganga avangala mari mother ulagathula pakka mudiyal ..in relative sontham elarum avangala yemathunalum avanga athuku romba porumaya irukanga.

avanga inna ninachu romba kasta paduranga ..avangalala innoda valkaiya pakka mudiyatha sulnilai la irukanga..

innaku avanga parthanga na niraya problem varum
sila visayangal solla virumbala

so fact enna na she always saying sorry am unable to concentrate u and ur life .so nee un valkaiya choose panniko innaku ponnu eppadi irunthalum ok..

she also accpeted me to fall in love with somebody and bring home no problem solranga.

ithu varaikum avanga prechana sonen

will now tell about my problem

nan romba romba confusion la iruken life la.

munu visayam in kulaputhu.

1.one money in the sense luxuriuos life

2.career path

3. nan romba negative ah yosikuren intha ponnunga visayam vantha yen nu theriyala .

yenna na oru vela nan select panra ponnu nallavala illana (sorry yaraium punpadutha all sila per parthu vantha bayam)
like inna ammakitta irunthu seperate panuvangalo (yenna ammaku inna vitta ellarum yamathuravanga than suthi irukanga),or as happend previously in my life.(already inna therijavangaluku puriyum)

or innoda salary vechu avangala maintain panna mudiyumo yenna nowadays ellarum hifi life style ethir pakuranga,make up like tht things

innaku enna na normal simple santhosama life run pannalam ninaikuravan.

and also nan inthu varaikum single ah porathen and valthuten till now no bros and sis..so innaku avanga family nalla periya anbana family ah irukanum asai paduren

ithu ellathukum mella

nan love marraige pannanuma or arranged marraige pannanma oru doubt.

intha gap la oru silla nall munnadi innoda regular ah travel panra ponna parthen..avanga romba alaga irukanga,,

but only pakkuren yeppadiyavathu inniki pesanum nalaiku pesanum nu irukum pothu

innoda confusion ellam ssernthu vanthu inna kolluthu..

avanga bus stop la ianga 2 tyms try pannen but revert back..

inakulla enna bayam varuthu na
oru vella ava asingapadithta
like slapping eve teasing..ipadi

intha gap la mind la career yosanai
nan ippathiki nalla varumanam vanguren around 35k+.

but innaku intha viasaytha ellam yosikum pothu ithu ellathaium vittutu north side la sontham illatha idathula thaniya vela parthukittu valthudalam oru yosanai..

so career path mathidalam nu yosanai...

nan enna than seirathu theriyala..ethuveme in control la illatha mari feel panren..

nana mudivum eduka mudiyala yarum innkaga mudivum eduka ready illa

so life la kitatha lonely stage ku vantha mari feel panren frnds..

mothers and sisters as u helped me previously
ithu yaraium pun padutha eluthala just my personal problem frndss.


waiting for ur kind suggetions and set me a new path in my life
 
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Yen thambi ivvalo virakthiya pesaringa.....idhellam avasiyame illa....

Yaarume kandippa love marriage dhaan seyyanumnu oru kattayamum illa.

Adhanala, neenga arranged marriage um senjukkalaam.

Unga ammavo, relativeso ungaluku pen paarkalainaalum, neenga niraya Matrimonials la register panni vachu, adhu moolama kooda pen thedi, kalyanam senjukkalaam.

Adhula vara matchings la ungaluku suitable and pidichavangalai select senju, nalla visarichu (idhai neengale thaniyavum seyyalaam, unga frds. help eduthukittum seyyalaam), avanga kitta pesi, avanga enna maadhiri type...like luxurious type, unga amma eppavum unga koodadhaan irupanga idhellam pesi,(idhellam neengale ungaluku matching paarka vendiyadhaala, edhukum safety ku munnadiye pesikonga) adhuku avanga othukitta, avanga parents ellam meet panni , unga ammavayum avanga kooda pesa vachu,adhukkappuram andha ponnu kooda proceed panni, kalyanam senju nallabadiyaa irukalaam.

Unga Office elder staffs (both ladies & gents) , nallaa pazhaginavanga kitta solli kooda , ungaluku suitable ponnaa, avangaluku yaaravadhu therinja, solla sollalaam. Appove unga conditions pathi kooda sollidalaam. ivanga paarthu sonnalum, neengalum andha ponnu kitta, indha vishayangalai solli confirm pannitu proceed pannalaam.

Unga friends kittallamum solli vainga. kandippa yaaravadhu help pannuvanga.

Illa...ungaluku edhavadhu ponnu attractiva pattanganna, modhalla avangalai paarthu lighta smile mattum pannunga..

just avangalai konja naal watch senjuttu vandhaale, avanga endha maadhiri type nu ellam konjam konjama puriyum. romba makeup senjukarangala....idhellam.

avangalum badhiluku smile pannina, medhuva 'Hai' nu sollunga. apram, frienda mattum aagunga. adhukku apram, medhuva, sila months kazhichu, avanga mele interest irukaradhai pathi sollalaam.

rendu perukum pidicha, kalyanam pannikkalaam.

Neenga ladies kitta nadandhukkara vishayathai vache, sila pengal unga kitta attract aagalaam. idhula gavanama irunga.

Kandippa ungaluku yetha oru ponnu seekiram kidaippa. innum vayasiruku ungaluku.
 

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